fertilewomb:


Have you asked what she did that made her husband to beat and refused his sick baby from getting medical attention? I am not justifying domestic violence.In fact it is wrong for a man to beat his wife, but there are some women that pushes their husbands to behave like an animal.

Blessedtwins will not and never tell us what she did to her husband. No man, i repeat,no sane man will deny his child medical care unless something terrible had been done to that man.let me tell you,if blessed twin's husband comes here and relate his own part of the story,you all will be amazed.So my dear don't give advice when you haven't hear both sides of the story.

Been a silent reader. But the fact that someone thinks there is a reason on earth that makes this acceptable or excusable is the saddest thing i'v read all Year long. hmm, pls can you give us two imaginary scenarios that makes this excusable/ justifable in your books? what is it you imagine she could have done? even if she knacked another man. Lets even leave the beating, but to take the anger on his own pikin and the pikin's health

i see you edited your post to say you are not justifying domestic violence. LOL. You have just justified domestic violence whether or not you admit it to your self or not

what a sad country we live in. This is the reason why i prayed fervently for God not to give me a daughter.

There are always two sides to a story no doubt, but pls where domestic violence is involved, pls settle your matter from afar o! before they break your head. someone that will not allow a sick child get medical advice when his/her mother is there, i shudder to think of what will happen to this pikin if you pass to yonder o!

i think you summed it up nicely in your post by adding "NO SANE MAN" pls how do you deal with someone that is not SANE? from afar o! no body will wash hand and sit comfortably to partake in a meal with someone that is not sane

a word is enough for the wise

Kermit mode reactivated

tchiwinnie:
Thanks teamie. I must confess I ve nt bn taking d fruits and veggies judiciously, I guess I ll hv to increase my intake of those. Its really not easy taking care of a toddler, dh plus preggy, wt no nanny/house help. Smtyms no strength to go to mkt or cook sef. Bt dh has bn supportive in his way, tho he nt really d cooking type. Its well wt us all o.

God is ur strength

fertilewomb:


Have you asked what she did that made her husband to beat and refused his sick baby from getting medical attention? I am not justifying domestic violence.In fact it is wrong for a man to beat his wife, but there are some women that pushes their husbands to behave like an animal.

Blessedtwins will not and never tell us what she did to her husband. No man, i repeat,no sane man will deny his child medical care unless something terrible had been done to that man.let me tell you,if blessed twin's husband comes here and relate his own part of the story,you all will be amazed.So my dear don't give advice when you haven't hear both sides of the story.

u may be right cos I reasoned in dt direction too BUT why didn'/cldn't he have d interest of d ailing child @heart regardless of wateva d mother had done. God guide her aright sha

mumihaja:
@lovinam, i dont speak like a woman that watches home movies and reenact what she sees on TV in her home.....you dont turn your marriage to Holly wood marriage that expires the day the man does something wrong, i speak like a woman that knows what the bible says about divorce or separation "God hates divorce" God hates when another married woman encourages another woman to pack her things and leave home cos of something that can be handled amicably, God has given every man and every woman the ability to make her marriage work here on earth cos there is no marriage in heaven, the bible says submit to your husband and satan says be rebellious to your husband and from the bible it was rebellion that made lucifer fall from his place and became satan, rebellion doesnt pay, if something goes wrong in your home, you as the wife apologize to your husband and let peace reign when the atmosphere is calm you can tell him what he did wrong....if her church wants to settle them let her go for the meeting we are not just talking about who is right or wrong, it is only a strong and wise person that apologizes when things go wrong to maintain peace and serenity.

some men can apologize and others dont know how to say sorry but buy gifts when they feel sorry for what they did so you cant insist that her husband must apologize, her baby's health is at stake so she has to do it asap and bring back harmony to her home.

Sorry ma, but I strongly disagree with you. Same argument that as to what the God is against was used to argue in favour of slavery, if we go by what you are saying millions of people will still be in slavery. Paul told Timothy to rightly divide the word of truth which means you can wrongly divide the word of truth. May God grant us grace to rightly divide the word of truth.

Are all marriages perfect, 99% are imperfect. Do husband make mistakes, yes they do. Should you run from your marriage at the first sign of trouble, no ma. Be at peace with all men a[b]s much as you can[/b]. Marriage is not child's play it is hard work. Yes there are people who are unwilling to pay the price for a peaceful home and have destroyed their marriage, but there are does that have chosen to live in simplicity, in case you think being simple is a good thing I advice you to study the book of proverbs and discover that the simplicity of the simple is their destruction.

Do some women still choose to stay in an abusive relationship, a vast majority do, but thank God for awareness, information and support, more and more women are choosing not to stay. Some marriages can be helped by counselling and the love walk, others cannot.

As a christian, a lot of us do not wait for the thus saith the lord before getting marriage, so we have left the perfect will of God and are in the permissive. The only marriage that I will tell you to die in is the one you heard the voice of the Lord clearly on.

Please it is not the will of God for a woman to stay in an abusive marriage that leaves both her and her children traumatized. How do I know this, is because he said " the thoughts I have towards you are thoughts of good to prosper you and not to harm you, but bring you to an expected end"

My dear mamas,I think enough has been said on this blessedtwins issue. The truth is that the only person dat can help her at this moment is herself. I don't like giving people advice because I have observed dat many women do not like to be told d truth and then you will be looked upon as an enemy of progress. ......................................................I am sure she knows her situation more than any other person and she knows what will make her happy. All she needs to do is to take a decision ON HER OWN. (Abeg make we no begin quarrel untop another persons case). ..........................................if she decides to leave,we can help her with suggestions on how to manage herself and her kids,and if she decides to stay,Its all good as long as she is okay with HER OWN DECISION.

Fabmummy:

God is ur strength

Thanks ma'am.

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Make u con wash ur new level wey u acquire with our money.

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chie chie i just dey laugh well well ooo, say no to domestic violence biko, dead body no dey dey inside marriage fa..

i saw for d first time in my life my dad hit my mum over and over again, all cus of am a man, it started after he came back frm d us 16 years later and seriously when d hit started we especially me warned my mother each time my dad hit my mum i was scared he may hit her abd she will never wake up, one day it actually happened he used her head to hit a sharp wall which opened her skull, hmmm story anorther time, dem no tell my mama to jejely pack her tins and bye bye to d marriage, she said i will rather be alive at peace to take care of my Child oo, who wld take care of u when i die,biko he do..
yes there are two sides to a story but to d extent of denying ur daughter health care Nba na, wat if d child had died(God forbid) if she had listened to her husband all cus shes trying to be submissive? una no no say d husband go turn am say na she kill d pickin out of carelessness..
bia blessedmum na u no where d shoe dey pinch u, if u tink u can salvage ur marriage and deep down u know he can change with prayers ok go ahead, but if u write down all d tins u hate and love abt him, and u cant balance dem, biko pray well well for holy spirit to guide u in dis decision u wld make.. what is worse is been in an abusive marriage, emotional tortue.. biko live for ur kids one day at a time.. d lord will strengthen u..
as for d mamas dem way d send hate messages Echiabo.

No wonder......now I see why women will continue to die of domestic violence!
We tell them to go back and adjust their xter!
We call them rebellious...tell them to be more submissive....
Issokay!

My room at my mother's house is never empty....we use it to lodge women with kids who need help till they get back on their feet.
My Teaching Asst is there right now. The day I hugged her and she started crying cos her whole body hurt due to battery, the day I saw a cute new bag she just bought in shreds, the day she got into my car one morning and just started crying.....I cant forget.
At first I adviced her to make amends cos she can be very stubborn, I thot she was the one provoking her dh, the day I finally met the husband, he didnt deny anything..... he apologised and wants her back just like that. This lady refused to go back cos she said this wasnt the first time he would be asking her back only to do worse. Fine fresh dude o!

Mumihaja, fertilewomb, have you seen a victim of domestic violence before? As in a serious case? Not one slap, one punch, or verbal o..... I swear you will cry for them. Have you spoken to the kids before?
At a young age(10 or so), I once watched my Uncle jump on his wife's arm. It got broken and she had to wear pop for months! Is it her fault that he cannot control his temper/ rage.


The funny thing is that these men dont fight fellow men or even other females around them. They pick on the ones that they have control over.

The first time I ever commented on this issue a few months back. I told her there were underlying issues that need to be dealt with. Must she die before those issues are resolved?
We need to stop enabling these men.

We need to know both sides of the story but what does she have to gain...coming online to say she is being abused...how many women will even ever admit that their spouse hits them?

Sometimes a period of separation is all it takes to re-evaluate.

Like I said earlier on, bear it all till your life is at stake, when it is....abeg ABORT MISSION.

And as Modath said, the reason these men stop when they are older is because they become feeble, tired or broke. What is there to enjoy in the marriage by that time?

"Its funny you're the broken one but I'm the one who needed saving"..........Rihanna (Stay)


Back to the thread jare!
#threadcuties.....get ready to be wowed and bedazzled! ....get ready to fall head over heels in love with the cuties that brought us here in the first place.
Pay for your adverts o......
Any newbie in the house?

Novembermamas.....how waddling?
Decembermamas.....where are you o! Handover is around the corner.
Januarymamas, dont be too much in a hurry....take a chill pill...you hear?

I recently came across a man that beats his wife. His reason? Make I quote am " my wife is possessed and the only way to check out the devil is to beat her, when I beat her the evil spirit inside her feels the pain and leaves her" I asked him so it means the spirit checks out after beating and checks back in again? He laughed and said that the wife needs it. Well, I told him the truth and left him to his crazy ideas. Mind you this man is "sane" and has beautiful kids. The wife has been beaten to a point of no return. Her family has given up on her. She has lost 3 teeth yet she is still in that home. Oh! She recently had a miscarriage after another round of "love. making". Oya tell me her offence? Being possessed?
In my work I see all sorts, including men that verbally abuse their wives in public for no reason.
#Lastwords

fertilewomb:


Have you asked what she did that made her husband to beat and refused his sick baby from getting medical attention? I am not justifying domestic violence.In fact it is wrong for a man to beat his wife, but there are some women that pushes their husbands to behave like an animal.

Blessedtwins will not and never tell us what she did to her husband. No man, i repeat,no sane man will deny his child medical care unless something terrible had been done to that man.let me tell you,if blessed twin's husband comes here and relate his own part of the story,you all will be amazed.So my dear don't give advice when you haven't hear both sides of the story.

God loves us and please a word is a enough for the wise, Blessedtwin God is your strenght and please think and make the right decision, GoodLuck

Congratulations to firsttymum, missOpe and Eminya . God will bless and protect your LO's and make them source of joy to your homes.

ifyjip u are welcome, happy bumping.

talltosyne:
Mama Zaynie, o ya come out ooooo
Make u con wash ur new level wey u acquire with our money.

Hello Mama's, In case u r nt aware, Zaynie jst acquire a new MANSION for Banana Island with a New Range Rover and G-Wagon 2015 Model.


Congrats to mamas dt jst offload.

November mamas, wish u all supernatural delivery

My able Teamies, May d Lord journey with us.

IyaEjima, op u r fyn?

Teamaprilforpainlessdelivery

May God forgive you
Abeg I dey probation.....park well.....
Everybody knows that I drive that old VW cslled ijapa...

I cant wait to see lovely cuties@threadcuties

ginababy:


I no agree wt dis kind prayer ooo. Every mother will pay 4 dier sins oooo nt children paying 4 dem. Does innocent n swt tender creatures r here 2 b a source of joy 2 us. In fact, any1 dat is in Christ his/her sins r forgiven both past, present n future all forgiven by d power of his resurrection. Calvary covers it all.

Waoh , just seeing this, it didn't show up in my mentions.....

I am not apologising for my initial post , I meant every word of it,

This is why i don't do platitudes , I AM NOT POLITICALLY CORRECT, we attribute to God things he didn't send us...

Anyone that doesn't want to be cursed should stop doing accursed things......



Keji3 finished the talk, blessedtwins , waka !!

Ginababy same bible says "Judge not, lest you be judged & also " No sin will go unpunished "


cc Ahnie

Any WOMAN that has been sending you hate mails, please go to Psalm 35, copy & paste & send to all the MOFOS!!!


Anyone that sends you hate mails

So you think we will forget? Abeg come and render account juo. Na one week we give you o! Sharp woman.
#threadCuties. Is trending.

zaynie:



May God forgive you
Abeg I dey probation.....park well.....
Everybody knows that I drive that old VW cslled ijapa...

zaynie:
No wonder......now I see why women will continue to die of domestic violence!
We tell them to go back and adjust their xter!
We call them rebellious...tell them to be more submissive....
Issokay!

My room at my mother's house is never empty....we use it to lodge women with kids who need help till they get back on their feet.
My Teaching Asst is there right now. The day I hugged her and she started crying cos her whole body hurt due to battery, the day I saw a cute new bag she just bought in shreds, the day she got into my car one morning and just started crying.....I cant forget.
At first I adviced her to make amends cos she can be very stubborn, I thot she was the one provoking her dh, the day I finally met the husband, he didnt deny anything..... he apologised and wants her back just like that. This lady refused to go back cos she said this wasnt the first time he would be asking her back only to do worse. Fine fresh dude o!

Mumihaja, fertilewomb, have you seen a victim of domestic violence before? As in a serious case? Not one slap, one punch, or verbal o..... I swear you will cry for them. Have you spoken to the kids before?
At a young age(10 or so), I once watched my Uncle jump on his wife's arm. It got broken and she had to wear pop for months! Is it her fault that he cannot control his temper/ rage.


The funny thing is that these men dont fight fellow men or even other females around them. They pick on the ones that they have control over.

The first time I ever commented on this issue a few months back. I told her there were underlying issues that need to be dealt with. Must she die before those issues are resolved?
We need to stop enabling these men.

We need to know both sides of the story but what does she have to gain...coming online to say she is being abused...how many women will even ever admit that their spouse hits them?

Sometimes a period of separation is all it takes to re-evaluate.

Like I said earlier on, bear it all till your life is at stake, when it is....abeg ABORT MISSION.

And as Modath said, the reason these men stop when they are older is because they become feeble, tired or broke. What is there to enjoy in the marriage by that time?

"Its funny you're the broken one but I'm the one who needed saving"..........Rihanna (Stay)


Back to the thread jare!
#threadcuties.....get ready to be wowed and bedazzled! ....get ready to fall head over heels in love with the cuties that brought us here in the first place.
Pay for your adverts o......
Any newbie in the house?

Novembermamas.....how waddling?
Decembermamas.....where are you o! Handover is around the corner.
Januarymamas, dont be too much in a hurry....take a chill pill...you hear?

@zaynie I sent you a pm, didn't you see it.....Abeg I need salary advance jor on another news need to talk to you.

#treadcuties on my mind...my spectacle is ready to view in 7D, cus by his grace mine shall join next year. Amen

ginababy:

I will lyk 2 b lyk u wen I grow up. Hw I wish I hav a mind lyk urs. Na me n my blanket d marry dis days, even inside heat, just 2 kip dh away.

you no try at all o! Poor man, my dh no go gree, but then his daily smiles and generosity is a good compensation for me

Abeg make una extend the time for the pictures na. That 8 to 9pm is some people's kpekusing time. Beedam and other ppl in charge biko. I dont wana miss this

cherrymum:


Hian! Allegations ke. The culprit has confessed his sins na. He has apologised. I've forgiven but can't forget and I'm not going back!

Haba! God is ur strength, I'm short of words.

lovinam:
So you think we will forget? Abeg come and render account juo. Na one week we give you o! Sharp woman.
#threadCuties. Is trending.

I will tender account by 9.01pm when everybody's stomach is still sweeting them from the overflow of gooey and honey smiles from those cuties....


#Threadcuties.......Thursday 8-9pm.

Ok @talltosyne ur team April? Who else is team April. ....... and can u pls share how ur feeling its fun I need to drop all the tensions in this thread am waiting #threadcuties......I

talltosyne:
Mama Zaynie, o ya come out ooooo
Make u con wash ur new level wey u acquire with our money.

Hello Mama's, In case u r nt aware, Zaynie jst acquire a new MANSION for Banana Island with a New Range Rover and G-Wagon 2015 Model.


Congrats to mamas dt jst offload.

November mamas, wish u all supernatural delivery

My able Teamies, May d Lord journey with us.

IyaEjima, op u r fyn?

Teamaprilforpainlessdelivery

That z dia biznez

modath:




Waoh , just seeing this, it didn't show up in my mentions.....

I am not apologising for my initial post , I meant every word of it,

This is why i don't do platitudes , I AM NOT POLITICALLY CORRECT, we attribute to God things he didn't send us...

Anyone that doesn't want to cursed should stop doing accursed things......



Keji3 finished the talk, blessedtwins , waka !!

Ginababy same bible says "Judge not, lest you be judged & also " No sin will go unpunished "


cc Ahnie

Any WOMAN that has been sending you hate mails, please go to Psalm 35, copy & paste & send to all the MOFOS!!!


Anyone that sends you hate mails

#threadcuties...thursday 8-9pm

The worst thing that can ever happen to a human is being a woman. Chai women don sufer,even me that is not suffering from domestic voilence is always complaining not to talk of someone there. A Woman have to carry pregnancy with so much pain,go through child labour either delivers vaginaly or had to slice her tummy. The baby comes out bearing the man's name and religion,hmmm sleepless nights begins and no rest from there. Some women had to abandon their profession,career,job all to take care of a man's children. And all what you get in return as a woman is punishment. Are all these responsibilities not enough to care for women. Society has dealt with us. I pray may all mothers reap the friut of our labour when due. All what men want to do is just bring little money eat and sleep yet they claim men are stronger than women. All hail mothers.

Hmmm every1 showing talents. I'm getting to knw u guys d more. If dis is nt d devil trying to distract our happy moods what is her base or reasons for living new born thread and posting such on pregnancy thread were pregnant mamas r facing diff pregnancy symptoms n issues dat der don't even tink well again.
@blessedtwins, dnt listen to any1 on dis thread again because pregnancy is making every1 tink tru her anuse ryt now . I'm very sure u know wat u deserve n want 4urself so go for it.
@all, b4 we spend our tym advising n fighting here lets get to knw dat she can only follow her heart on dis mata. If I were in her shoe, d truth is I can't stay a day wtout my hubby n no were will b convenient 4 me lyk his presence.
As devil don shift our focus tinz don stand still. No baby delivery, no BS, no new member, n no testimony. If care is nt taken even d #threadcutie might nt hold 2day n even if it does, it might nt b interesting because of all dis disagreements in between.

Pls u pple shud respect ur selves wt silence on dis mata. Plsssss.

mytestimony:
Abeg make una extend the time for the pictures na. That 8 to 9pm is some people's kpekusing time. Beedam and other ppl in charge biko. I dont wana miss this

Madam, you kpekus for one full hour?
You be boss o!
As for today....make it a quickie! Tell dh there is urgent online work you need to do. And then remember to wipe off any sloppy smile and gooey face you may want to put on when viewing the pix, just hard your face and dont smile o!

twingirls:


you no try at all o! Poor man, my dh no go gree, but then his daily smiles and generosity is a good compensation for me

And some people say Zaynie likes money

Mummyejire:



@zaynie I sent you a pm, didn't you see it.....Abeg I need salary advance jor on another news need to talk to you.

#treadcuties on my mind...my spectacle is ready to view in 7D, cus by his grace mine shall join next year. Amen

I saw the notification buh my email can be so crazy!!
I will reply you soon.

Thnks Love ...

Tenderchic:
Congratulations to firsttymum, missOpe and Eminya . God will bless and protect your LO's and make them source of joy to your homes.

ifyjip u are welcome, happy bumping.

favoredgal:
just found out my baby is breech. Im 33 weeks. two weeks ago the baby was head down o! na wa

Baby can and will still turn, my last baby @ 37+ was head down, only to be discovered breech like 4 days later @ 38+, dont worry, baby is practising gymnastics , especially, if u are not a 1st term mum, plenty space for d baby now , unlike a first timer

Apologies t the preggies,oya new customers...please line up for registration,and kindly locate your teamies.state your concerns and sabi mamas must answer your questions.