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Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by ticker(op): 5:51pm On Nov 12, 2015
I am 30years old. I met this young lady who is 22-23 years old, within that age range sha. she is presently in the university. I gave her a lift while I was coming back from work, we got talking, we exchange numbers. we have arranged to have a date during the weekend. My problem is that I am a shy person. I don't know how how to have a long discussion with a lady. please I need someone here a either female or a male to help me out of this mess on what area will be much interested for me to discuss with her. I don't want to goofed cos I have been praying for a companion and now this lady came just like an answered prayer.
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Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 5:52pm On Nov 12, 2015
Op give me her no let me toast her for you..


On a serious note is that to say you havent toasted a lady before or whathuh


Dnt make your intention known on that first date,be her frnd knw more abt her,know if you will be able to cope with her weakness first...

It doesnt make sense after leading a lady on you realised her flaws are too enormous for you to cope with...



The best dating experience i have ever had was with a friendcheesycheesycheesy


being too direct isnt too good especially as she will be forming hard to get but when you get closer to her she will be the one flashing the green light excessively.sadsad
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Skanas(m): 5:58pm On Nov 12, 2015
If only you will calm down a little...your blood the hot...

Brb...
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by tomzee2(f): 6:01pm On Nov 12, 2015
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Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by tomzee2(f): 6:01pm On Nov 12, 2015
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Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by tomzee2(f): 6:02pm On Nov 12, 2015
Go to this link nd all your problem will be solve

https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by stchinedu: 6:03pm On Nov 12, 2015
ticker:
I am 30years old. I met this young lady who is 22-23 years old, within that age range sha. she is presently in the university. I gave her a lift while I was coming back from work, we got talking, we exchange numbers. we have arranged to have a date during the weekend. My problem is that I am a shy person. I don't know how how to have a long discussion with a lady. please I need someone here a either female or a male to help me out of this mess on what area will be much interested for me to discuss with her. I don't want to goofed cos I have been praying for a companion and now this lady came just like an answered prayer.
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Hmmmm
1. How were you able to discuss with her to get her number without any aid, yet you are shy?
2. Where did you get the courage to pick up 'a lady' since you are a shy person?
3. What were your discussions and what format did you follow without any aid?
4. You were able to strike a combo(date) with her unaided and you say you are shy?



My guy...you be pro!
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:03pm On Nov 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Op give me her no let me toast her for you..


On a serious note is that to say you havent toasted a lady before or whathuh


Dnt make your intention known on that first date,be her frnd knw more abt her,know if you will be able to cope with her weakness first...

It doesnt make sense after leading a lady on you realised her flaws are too enormous for you to cope with...



The best dating experience i have ever had was with a friendcheesycheesycheesy


being too direct isnt too good especially as she will be forming hard to get but when you get closer to her she will be the one flashing the green light excessively.sadsad
Professor of love aka love doctor
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:04pm On Nov 12, 2015
1. She was once a baby running unclad all over the place, pooing her pants, bed-wetting, etc.

2. She still poos; just like you, and it smells just as bad as yours, if not even worse. cheesy

3. Just like you, she has her own inhibitions too.

Next time you see her, remember those 3 points and talk about something you both have in common...you could also ask her to tell you about herself and just actively listen to her. Fun fact: girls love it when you pay attention to them.

@Michellla, @MrsPhyno, do you guys have anything to add? Help this brother out. cheesy
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 12, 2015
halfrica:
Professor of love aka love doctor
gerrahiacheesycheesycheesy

i dey vex for u:sadsad
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:06pm On Nov 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
gerrahiacheesycheesycheesy


i dey vex for u:sadsad
Me wey sick embarassed
Kwantinu vexing cry cry cry cry
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:07pm On Nov 12, 2015
halfrica:
Me wey sick embarassed Kwantinu vexing cry cry cry cry
sadsadsadsadsad
you sickhuhis the baby kickingcheesycheesycheesy
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by tellwisdom: 6:07pm On Nov 12, 2015
Old man like you no fit summon courage yern with a small gurl as LITTLE as 22/23?? huh..#You are finished. undecided
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:10pm On Nov 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
sadsadsadsadsad

you sickhuhis the baby kickingcheesycheesycheesy
The baby is over kicking sef embarassed

I tink i av a ronaldo nd messi in my tommy o

They might both play for super eaglets U17 at 4 months their shots are fire here cry cry cry cry
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Adasun(m): 6:12pm On Nov 12, 2015
Op chil nd take it easy on the first date.bt op hw did u trashed out a date with her when u are a shy personhuh
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 12, 2015
halfrica:
The baby is over kicking sef embarassed

I tink i av a ronaldo nd messi in my tommy o

They might both play for super eaglets U17 at 4 months their shots are fire here cry cry cry cry
make dis guy no go report us for derailing ooocheesycheesycheesy
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:15pm On Nov 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
make dis guy no go report us for derailing ooocheesycheesycheesy
He can m sorry!!!!!
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Macgreat(m): 6:17pm On Nov 12, 2015
companion?


Brother, you want enter hell of relationship.


alright, don't you have females at your working place that you talk to. how do you act around them when discussing matters patterning to business and work in general or are you shy around them too.

The same way you interact with those one, do with this one. . . forget the companion thoughts! relate like you want nothing but friendship or you just pretend in your mind you are hanging out with one of your female office mates.

Oh, well . . . This may not work cheesy
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 12, 2015
halfrica:
He can m sorry!!!!!
wetin dey do uhuhmalariahuh
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
wetin dey do uhuhmalariahuh
I swear it av want to finish me cry cry cry cry
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Michellla(f): 10:51pm On Nov 12, 2015
RickRichards:
1. She was once a baby running unclad all over the place, pooing her pants, bed-wetting, etc.

2. She still poos; just like you, and it smells just as bad as yours, if not even worse. cheesy

3. Just like you, she has her own inhibitions too.

Next time you see her, remember those 3 points and talk about something you both have in common...you could also ask her to tell you about herself and just actively listen to her. Fun fact: girls love it when you pay attention to them.

@Michellla, @MrsPhyno, do you guys have anything to add? Help this brother out. cheesy
lol you're a guy.you'd know better than us
Re: Please Help A Brother In A Dating Mess by Cholls(m): 10:58pm On Nov 12, 2015
My brother forget discussion go for the Kino!.
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