₦airaland Forum

Alexyswiss:
Please,

I am a smart very handsome young intelligent Mathematics teacher who recently got employed in a private secondary school just a month ago.

I have been single for almost a year now, not because I'm ugly but because of my introverted nature and Its very difficult for me like a girl...they always seems to be not my type

currently in my early 20's and had one of the greatest emotional challenge I've met in years

as a young guy(you know) carried away by youthful exuberance, I saw this girl in ss1, gorgeous, fresh, very calm girl and even matured enough, whom I truly fell in love with...in fact I derive joy at school every anytime I just see her...I know this is love (or crush)

i am planning to date this girl(a decent relationship). but what keeps bothering me is that according to morals a teacher is not suppose to date a student...

please advice me should i go ahead or not....because i'm truly in love with this girl and I know she love me too bcus she keeps giving me eye contact and always walking around me so that I notice her

I feel this is Gods set up!!

PS: No childish comment

DiegoNakel:
Don't do the mistake of asking her out Cause it would make her disrespect you in a way you won't like. By the @Op how old is she ?

rexkexmilan:
You want to date a Child Prolly because you are a child Yourself & You are Emphatically Stating that You don't want "Childish" Comments? Bro, I give Up .

hkidola00:
op, receive bonus sense by month end

Alexyswiss:
she is 16....but looks 18...
lolss

Alexyswiss:
thanks...you can now leave the thread

pinceprinz:
early 20s? you should still be in college! abi how u do am?

however dating her wouldn't have been wrong if u weren't her teacher...

as it stands now, you're in that age where you're hormones are hyperactive thus unpredictable. So, having 'the moderate' relationship as you're trying to plan is borderline impossible.

Considering that you're actually in 'love' with this one girl after so many Passovers, I propose u drift closer to her, be nicer, more protective, airing your true intentions only when she's in say maybe her penultimate year or maybe when you're to vacate this job. Be careful all the way brother. Conquer ur lust drives with Godliness and morality, Falling in love is never a sin. Peace out

olumide81:
My mature advice.....quit your job and go for the girl.

Alexyswiss:
may God bless you for me Bruh

at least there are still few nairalander with working Medullas


Im still in 300L man..

just trying to keep body and soul together

I'll consider your advice....I think I'll conquer my lust...the relationship would be practically impossible just as u said

imagine your girlfriend in a class you're teaching....that's lame!!

thanks again

Alexyswiss:
Please,

I am a smart very handsome young intelligent Mathematics teacher...

BuddhaPalm:
I dey tell you...

If only I were half as confident as you sir.

Alexyswiss:
Please,

I am a smart very handsome young intelligent Mathematics teacher who recently got employed in a private secondary school just a month ago.

I have been single for almost a year now, not because I'm ugly but because of my introverted nature and Its very difficult for me like a girl...they always seems to be not my type

currently in my early 20's and had one of the greatest emotional challenge I've met in years

as a young guy(you know) carried away by youthful exuberance, I saw this girl in ss1, gorgeous, fresh, very calm girl and even matured enough, whom I truly fell in love with...in fact I derive joy at school every anytime I just see her...I know this is love (or crush)

i am planning to date this girl(a decent relationship). but what keeps bothering me is that according to morals a teacher is not suppose to date a student...

please advice me should i go ahead or not....because i'm truly in love with this girl and I know she love me too bcus she keeps giving me eye contact and always walking around me so that I notice her

I feel this is Gods set up!!

PS: No childish comment

beautifullll1:
I'm going to leave the thread anyways so I better tell you a piece of my mind...


go ahead and date your ss1 student



then watch her drag her mother to school to give you the shame of your life...




na guys like you de destroy young girls future.....







the girls you have been seeing are not your type so you choosed this small girl so you can trick her with little gifts, probably impregnate her and run away







awo nsobo.
unam ikod
ekpo musufe



don't bother replying, I'm out of your thread. umen

Oliviaarims:
Pls,pls OP,listen to Politicos. Whatever u think u feel for this girl is probably going to fade off with time,if u allow it. Allow the SS1 child be. Don't strt spoiling the young girl who's still got a long way to go. Forget about the way she looks at u,she's but a child...Do not indulge her,I beg of u. Continue ur search,there are older and more mature girls out there for u to date...

Oliviaarims:
Pls,pls OP,listen to Politicos. Whatever u think u feel for this girl is probably going to fade off with time,if u allow it. Allow the SS1 child be. Don't strt spoiling the young girl who's still got a long way to go. Forget about the way she looks at u,she's but a child...Do not indulge her,I beg of u. Continue ur search,there are older and more mature girls out there for u to date...

Politicos:
There is always an attractive female who crushes on you or one you crush on as a young male teacher.

First you should worry about what this could do to your reputation. Secondly, she is too young for a romantic adventure. Thirdly, you don't want your employers to catch you in the act. Do you? It's inconceivable!

Close your eyes, shake off timidity, your mates are elsewhere, go after them. No sane parent would let you go free if this became a saga. Escape ridicule beforehand!

Politicos:
There is always an attractive female who crushes on you or one you crush on as a young male teacher.

First you should worry about what this could do to your reputation. Secondly, she is too young for a romantic adventure. Thirdly, you don't want your employers to catch you in the act. Do you? It's inconceivable!

Close your eyes, shake off timidity, your mates are elsewhere, go after them. No sane parent would let you go free if this became a saga. Escape ridicule beforehand!

Alexyswiss:
Big Thank you....I appreciate
That's some real talk...I'm staying off...

andromida:
You cannot date her. How old is she? 12?
No matter the youthful exuberance hands off.

obiorathesubtle:
For morality sake, don't date her as her teacher. But if you're really serious. Wait for her to finish school

My teacher in secondary school waited for my classmate to finish. They got married 2years after we finished second school and into the university. They're happily married now with children.