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| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by eckersley: 10:12pm On Nov 11, 2015*. Modified: 9:10am On Nov 21, 2015 |
flywaterbo:Download and DEVOUR this book: To be or not to be intimidated by Robert Ringer. I said to DEVOUR this book in 3 days and see the mistakes you hv made in the real estate biz and avoid future ones Second, don't worry abt the cost of litigation, the judge will award that to you at the end of the case in addition to your 5%. I.e. the defendant (scammer) willl pay the fees of your lawyer Third, do not listen to the kids here on NL who haven't worked/earned a dime all their lives. Hence 700k to them is like their annual income. Fourth, you seem to know very lil abt real estate. Buy lots of Nigerian and foreign books on real estate. You don't really need a lawyer, be it senior or junior. The knowledge from these books will enable you draft loop-hole proof agreements and help you survive in the vermin-infested world of real estate and biz generally Voraciously read that book in less than 3 days. You'll know the line of action to take. You're palpably scared already. I can feel it as i type. Stop all communication with that fraudster so you don't reveal ur weaknesses any further. Get a lawyer to serve him immediately and all future communication should be between him or his lawyer and yours. Should he agreee to an out of court settlement, paying your legal fees will be part of ur new terms of settlement aand your FULL 5% as well. Anything short of that, see him in court. Ignore my typos as I use swipe to type |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by ChynoBEATS: 10:21pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
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| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Jasperchinonso(m): 10:36pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
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| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 3:39am On Nov 12, 2015 |
next time use an escrow service and have all the money, the documents, and keys held in escrow. This will ensure that everyone, including you, gets what's due. prevents fraud too. The escrow service will give the seller his money, the buyer his keys, and you your money |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by MathsChic(f): 6:02am On Nov 12, 2015 |
flywaterbo:Your story is quite interesting. However, it's heavily one-sided. I'll tell you my own experience from the other side of a property acquirer. I don't intend to put all you "agents" in the same boat, but i know for sure there's a common streak running through you guys' activities. When I got back from the US and wanted to get an apartment on the island, I went through hell from one agent to the other. The only thing i saw in all of them was an intent desire to simply take my money and vanish. Some of them hadn't even been to the house they wanted to let out for years and yet are willing to immediately claim that everything was okay and working. And each time i ended up in the house, there was much more i had to fix with my own money. Even at this, the agents are never willing to let go one naira of their own money/agreement, which for the life of me i don't even know what it means. Did you verify first that the house was in order and papers complete before moving to sell and supposedly putting in hard work? I think the owner was well within his rights to pay you less cos u didn't do a good job to start with. Apparently, all your attention was on the paltry 1.75m to start with, and never was on doing a good, thorough job. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by gneisss: 7:40am On Nov 12, 2015 |
sanc2s:ur a complete asshole .....retarded mofo inshort...most useless comment have ever read |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 8:06am On Nov 12, 2015 |
ceeSleek:No jonathan is with u ..#joking ooo...before dem come fire me |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by MathsChic(f): 8:34am On Nov 12, 2015 |
Jodesky:100% endorsed. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by obstead200(m): 11:22am On Nov 12, 2015 |
dridowu:I second this opinion. But my reasons are different. It is clear from your write-up that u are only hustling. you are not a professional in this line of business. if u were, u wud have taken appropriate steps to ensure that this sh.it does not happen. so just take what he offers, but dont sign his new agreement yet. As soon as u get the 700k, sue the hell outta his ars.e. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 1:17pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Also some earnest money should have been committed to the escrow account upfront. Regardless if he was having bank financing. If the buyer couldn't afford earnest money or unwilling to make an earnest money deposit with his offer, you shouldn't take him to seriously at all. After all that you have mentioned with the buyer communicating directly with the seller etc. As the seller I wouldn't have sold my property to you two. I would have thought you were scammers |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by ceeSleek(m): 2:04pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
zaragal:i for don fire you now, just thank your d.p. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 3:13pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
ceeSleek:i say na joke i dey joke btw whr u c my dp |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 3:33pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
flywaterbo:This is what Lawyers are for and this is why someone needs to set up an escrow company in Nigeria. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 3:47pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Change2015:Thank you. I flatly refused to pay agent fee when I was buying my land as in my opinion that is a sellers expense. The fee finally came out of the Lawyers fee. The Real Estate market in Nigeria needs a shrewd investor to come in to do the following: Escrow Services Property Valuation Services Rules Of Engagement Services - who pays what, how much, to whom, etc There's a lot of cowboys just floating around who become overnight realtors without any education or services being offered. Can you believe that one Neanderthal thought I owed him fees because he showed me a land and the seller changed his mind to sell it after I made an offer? Another one from Nairaland here wants me to pay him in advance before he can show me lands for sale. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 3:49pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
MathsChic:Yep, I am certain that the OP did nothing in terms of real estate services. No advertisement was probably done, no repairs were made. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
EgunMogaji:But a real estate agent doesn't make repairs. He can facilitate them but either the buyer or seller pays for them. Also document fees and power connection are paid by the buyer. I would gather that the buyer in this deal is inexperienced and probably scamming. Did the check clear? |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 5:08pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
tomyka81:A good Realtor will visit the item for sale before he lists it (many of these cowboys don't, based on personal experience), observes any deficiencies and causes them to be repaired. Certainly a Realtor shouldn't be surprised to see a defect when he is showing the property as he should be intimately familiar with his listings. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by flywaterbo(op): 9:43pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
In as much as I've loved the advice and very useful suggestion and tips, Some of you have still managed to just jumping into conPOOsion (conclusion incase your wondering) Some of you that said I didn't thoroughly do my job and just wanted my 5%, am thorough in my job, am not a hypocrite. Here's why you should ask questions: I told this dear client from day one to first and foremost do a search on the property, doing this would let the client confirm the full information and the produce details on the property as well as identifying the real Owner of the property. The estate main office request for 10k for facilitating this search and getting a full on report on the property and what follows is the status of the property. He(buyer) never agreed to this search until. *His reasons: I want to be sure the owner wouldn't sell the property because the owner didn't sign the exclusivity agreement which the owner said he would if only he(buyer) commits funds that he is serious to buy but (buyer) doid not, not even 500k that the owner complained buyer should. Anyways, back to it. Getting to the 2nd month a search was done and this was how we saw the outstanding on the property after the 2months of me telling him(buyer) and He'd be like, I don't want to commit yet until he is certain that the owner wouldn't sell the property. He said this because He(buyer) didn't fulfil the owners obligation to pay a commitment fee before he signs the exclusivity agreement which the buyer didn't oblige to. Just a refundable 500k to sign to remove property off the market. So please tell me, am I making sense? To me I have every right to get my money, should I just chicken out? Its my right, my money. He doesn't have to pay me at once. Can pay half and remaining within an agreed time frame. I'd be very fair on his terms as long as he pay me complete. Write and sign on it. Would this suffice? Ps: some of you said, am not a professional and others say am just trying for the money. Lol! Am just chilling because just last week this buyer was on his honeymoon as he just got married and I was here holding the forte for him. 3 and a half months. From august to now is a longtime. From one excuse to the other. 3weeks to 3months. *if I was desperate, I would have loaded on the property as they do or done some other thing in it. I wouldn't lie, when I noticed the excess charges I was like wow! If only he had heeded, he wouldn't be in this and most clients are guilty of this. They would be coming with fear to transactions and wouldn't know how to open up. They have the mentality that if am relaxed, they would cheat me or scam me. That fear of 419 agents. Its disgusting. Once a client is that way, there wouldn't be good and agreed communication. *some of you are making me talk* P.s: I really appreciate your messages. you are too much NLers. Some very helpful advices and motivation. In your time of need, God would send you help. Amen. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 2:20am On Nov 13, 2015 |
flywaterbo:Next time, don't ask questions on an open forum if you don't want varying opinions. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by flywaterbo(op): 1:10pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
@egnmogaji: in as much as am been defensive, I still appreciate every response, no matter how they vary. I appreciate all and its good they stated such so to know how the story really went. I apprecuate Sir/ma |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 4:48am On Nov 14, 2015 |
Bambless1:No, I could have typed 'said'. use your brain and don't be a confused human in paraphrasing |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by Bambless1(m): 9:50am On Nov 14, 2015 |
ebukasoso:Seems You Don't Know The Difference Between "type" And "Say" Johnbull ![]() |
| Re: I Feel Cheated After Months Of Hardwork, I Need Your Opinion by flywaterbo(op): 4:03pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
All of you pray for me that I get this money. If I do, I'd send some reachrge card for appreciation of the help and advices. My lawyrs have sent him a message |
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