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Chimaritoponcho:
can we chat on whatsapp

(in my most polite voice) hell no.

JustTara:
(in my most polite voice) hell no.

no skin pain at all.i'd just chat wit my barnie then

JustTara:
it clearly shows (f) after my name doesn't it? and that's me on my profile photo. Lmao. Oga I'm a girl o.

Some peeps still do it sha. Happy sunday. Personal message?

Chimaritoponcho:
shutup

Haba!!! Why quote everything nah.
OP,you started well but you screwed up big time when you started getting sentimental. I don't think ladies date bad boys coz they want to conquer or blah. I think its more of the attributes that come with being bad. Qualities like confidence,articulacy,adventurous etc.
But wait first,who is a bad guy??

I just need to be in love again

Hannysmilez:
Haba!!! Why quote everything nah.
OP,you started well but you screwed up big time when you started getting sentimental. I don't think ladies date bad boys coz they want to conquer or blah. I think its more of the attributes that come with being bad. Qualities like confidence,articulacy,adventurous etc.
But wait first,who is a bad guy??

The guy below. Coolest bad boy ever. LOL.

joseph1832:
The guy below. Coolest bad boy ever. LOL.

**deep sigh*. I really just want to give you a knock on the head for this.

Hannysmilez:
**deep sigh*. I really just want to give you a knock on the head for this.

LMAO. It will be welcomed, as long as its not painful.

joseph1832:
LMAO. It will be welcomed, as long as its not painful.

Ha! Talk about Oxymorons. How can a knock be "un painful?".

Hannysmilez:
Haba!!! Why quote everything nah.
OP,you started well but you screwed up big time when you started getting sentimental. I don't think ladies date bad boys coz they want to conquer or blah. I think its more of the attributes that come with being bad. Qualities like confidence,articulacy,adventurous etc.
But wait first,who is a bad guy??

Holla at all the big time players. They're leading the line.

Hannysmilez:
Ha! Talk about Oxymorons. How can a knock be "un painful?".

Well it can, as long as the force applied isn't meant to cause pain.

Hannysmilez:
Haba!!! Why quote everything nah.
OP,you started well but you screwed up big time when you started getting sentimental. I don't think ladies date bad boys coz they want to conquer or blah. I think its more of the attributes that come with being bad. Qualities like confidence,articulacy,adventurous etc.
But wait first,who is a bad guy??

it didnt look long to me probably bc am using my laptop
sorry ma'am

U have been officially given the title of THE DUMBEST THREAD OF THE WEEK!!!

LISTEN OP! I get where you're heading at:

The nice guys always give the "you are special to me" right from the get go, like they do to every girl they meet. They're emotionally cheap. They seem weak and emotionally submissive to every single attractive women they like. Females who are always surrounded by the nice guys (i.e. the hot girls) don't value them because just like the nice guys, the hot females what someone who's hard to get. It's natural that we all want someone that will make us say "DAMN! I must be special for someone like this to commit to me".

This is were your thread comes off as shallow...no offense. You sound SUPER NAIVE to think changing a "bad boy" is what makes you special. That shows you have low self-esteem. What makes you special is the work you put into yourself, your goals, your achievements, knowing you have family and real friends that love the REAL you, the positive impacts you have on people around etc. I tell people, if you need to be in a relationship to feel special then it means you know you're NOT SPECIAL. That goes for the "nice guys" too. When you finally turn the bad guy to a nice guy, the relationship is technically over because you got into the relationship to change him. The challenge is over, it gets boring, then you want to meet another bad boy to transform. Be in a relationship for companionship not validation of your worth.

tommychow:
LISTEN OP! I get where you're heading at:

The nice guys always give the "you are special to me" right from the get go, like they do to every girl they meet. They're emotionally cheap. They seem weak and emotionally submissive to every single attractive women they like. Females who are always surrounded by the nice guys (i.e. the hot girls) don't value them because just like the nice guys, the hot females what someone who's hard to get. It's natural that we all want someone that will make us say "DAMN! I must be special for someone like this to commit to me".

This is were your thread comes off as shallow...no offense. You sound SUPER NAIVE to think changing a "bad boy" is what makes you special. That shows you have low self-esteem. What makes you special is the work you put into yourself, your goals, your achievements, knowing you have family and real friends that love the REAL you, the positive impacts you have on people around etc. I tell people, if you need to be in a relationship to feel special then it means you know you're NOT SPECIAL. That goes for the "nice guys" too. When you finally turn the bad guy to a nice guy, the relationship is technically over because you got into the relationship to change him. The challenge is over, it gets boring, then you want to meet another bad boy to transform. Be in a relationship for companionship not validation of your worth.

you know. I have a friend who's a big time player, he has sooooo many girls. And most of them know he's a playing asshole. This post summarizes one reason why they are with him irrespective of who he is. Sounds dumb right? A point to note though is that while making a post, I write with the first person narrative. So whether it's me or not, my readers will never know.

JustTara:
you know. I have a friend who's a big time player, he has sooooo many girls. And most of them know he's a playing asshole. This post summarizes one reason why they are with him irrespective of who he is. Sounds dumb right? A point to note though is that while making a post, I write with the first person narrative. So whether it's me or not, my readers will never know.

True. My response was based on the the reason given in the post. The world isn't 1 dimensional. There are different reasons for an action, you get? Some girls do bad boys because he's adventurous, some do it for his drama (these set of girls get easily bored), some girls for his sweet lyrics (a good flirt turns them on), some for his experience in boinking ( he has been with loads) etc. I think majority of girls especially the sharp ones do it for the thrill BUT don't get emotionally attached (the naive ones commit to bad boys). In essence, they just using him like he's using them i.e. the feeling is mutual. At the end, the part ways, no strings attached. I'm experienced, so I know at a certain stage, girls just wanna have fun. Unlike nice guys that wanna "love" and be "loved". Nice guys make the worst wingmen, they ruin the mysterious vibe. They need to save the cling for their wives. HAVE FUN DAMMIT!

ITbomb:
This is the worst pile of shiit I have ever seen on Saturday morning. I give up on girls ever fishbrains.
So you are not comfortable when the good guy tells you he love you because you know he had said it to an EX yet you are at home with someone you know will be saying the same thing he said to you to another girl just minutes after leaving you.

The girl is clearly deluded