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nawah! u called her a 'wife', but I doubt if she is ur wedded wife. op, is she ur wedded wife?

Don't blame her.... Money is just important. All d best sha.

If you are really searching and not lazying about eating her food and yet she is threatening to leave, LET HER LEAVE! Money is important but everyone knows tge economy is bleeding

eiya. God will provide a good job for u bro

Don't you have any vocational skill? Must every income come from white collar jobs? Start a business, learn barbing and work with her in her saloon.

U married the wrong woman bro..... U forgot to read the book of proverbs before choosing a wife.

send her packing already joo

abi they tell am say man na maga?

make she go, nonsense

Your wife na Runz girl. She wants you out of the way, so that she could perfect her runz with Abuja big boys. You obviously married the wrong woman.

I felt for u seriously.... anyways what did you read?

butanep:
I am not blaming the guy.
I am only angry about the kind of wife he married and for carelessly following the wife decision.

OK Bro.
That is end time women for us oooooooo.
If the man should go into kidnapping or robbery and bring loads of money, she will be all over him as if her life depends on him

she loves you not, so let her go! after all you are less than a man for not been able to use your brain to make money... monkey brain

After having done your best in making life better,if she wants to leave-let her leave. Keep trying. Women are not worth the sweats. Wish you well.

Please let her go if you finally fail to secure a job at the end of month. Who knows, she may be the reason for this your hardship.

Silly woman

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

If she wants to leave, let her leave. Never force or cajole anybody to stay with you, keep working hard do not look down on jobs that fetch little pay, very soon God will remember you.

let her go... sort yourself out and marry another wife. she is acting like you are deliberately keeping her in suffering/poverty.

englishmart:
if you love her, then find a job. A man who can't provide for the family is worse than an infidel

A woman who cannot stand by her husband in difficult times is worse than a slut!!!!!

Op what is your wife doing with the money she is making from the salon?


That woman is not a good wife believe me, she may be having affair with one man out there who may be pressure rising her to leave you

Seriously.... ....send her packing before she kills you with plenty nagging thus leading you to have HBP....trust me you will be better off without her, atleast you plan with cool brains....and believe me there is nothing you will say to her in this present situation that will make her change....from your post, it appears your wife is the materialistic type who showers you love when the going is good.... pls save yourself while you still can....and to Single guys out there like me...pls let's learn from the OP's experience....women are meant to be home-makers....

Borrow money from her, after one week tell her that she is now free to leave. If she ask for her money tell her you don't have it yet.
When she leaves take 2000 naira out of the money buy beer and chicken, take pictures and post it on facebook. Then call a few friends and ask them to like and comment on the picture.

You will see positive results

[size=18pt]FCMB has some jobs now.[/size]

If the guy hammer now begin carry women, this foolish woman would be first to say she stuck with him when he was poor. There are so things one just doesn't do.

Anyway OP, make you just know say you no get wife o. I can't my lunch she already has a boyfriend somewhere. You are on your own. Don't beg her to stay when she finally decides to leave. Consider yourself single.

If she brings it up again, help her arrange her load. Pay for the taxi and tell her never to come back. You dont need that negativity in your life.

bur op ? Why do you have to marry When you haven't even secured a job to meet your needs ? Well , the deed has been done ... My own simple advice for you is to just double your huzzle ... And pray ... Buh your wife dou?? She shouldn't have said that to you at all no matter what ! That's the problem we have with girls of now adays ! All they want is olrunsogo .. They don't wanna endure at all(surulere ). Before you know it now , she will start making useless frnds that will giving her stupid advice ! The lord is your strength bro

MrHighSea:
ONE MAN SQUAD SURE PASS

no worry no hasle just you and you

If she gave u a condition that'll make her remain in the marriage, it means she has no love whatsoever for you anymore.

So what's the point having such lady at home?! Even when u get the job, she's likely going to give in to extra-marital advances from one "baba alaaye".

let her leave...

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

...are you insinuating one should not marry because one has not got a job? Anyway,there is no specific scenerio that will determine when or whether a man should get married. Nigerian economy can make one single till old age.

Ur wife or ladies of nowadays don't like had work they don't have patience they simple want the best of life.my advice if she wants to live guy allow her a better ONE will come

then go and find a job... so simple

you should appreciate ur wife forcing the truth on you rather than castigating her