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Gwdmorning nairalanders,,i know we ave parents here as well,,i rili need help
i used to be a very good calm gurl but i suddenly noticed dah am becoming aggressive that i now talk back to my elderly ones,,when some1 trys to scold me i talk bk to d person,,just last9t,,my mummy was scolding me and i almost talked back @ her,,please how do i stp dx,,my mummy is my life,,dnt want her to ave any reason to be mad @ me

This once happened to me at a stage of my life, I would speak out of turn and always try to stand for what is right, or so it seemed.
But sometimes doing the right thing the wrong way can ruin everything.
I think I got that habit because I had so much bottled up in my mind and after a while I burst out at every opportunity.
You need someone to talk to, you probably have a lot in your mind bottled up, and its probably the reason you lash out at every chance.
Talk to your mom, say the things that bother you.

I guess u have lately been exposed to certain things and it has started having psychological impact on U. check urself

You really need to be pounded just to bring back your senses.

Watch yourself closely and find out what brings that emotion in you.
Ask yourself what has changed over that period of time.

rejoicebae:
Gwdmorning nairalanders,,i know we ave parents here as well,,i rili need help
i used to be a very good calm gurl but i suddenly noticed dah am becoming aggressive that i now talk back to my elderly ones,,when some1 trys to scold me i talk bk to d person,,just last9t,,my mummy was scolding me and i almost talked back @ her,,please how do i stp dx,,my mummy is my life,,dnt want her to ave any reason to be mad @ me

Try to cut down on the things that gives you stress. It might be stress induced. Hope you don't have relationship issues?

hmmm well i was going to say .. Damn i forgot what i was going to say

Adolescent is happening to you. your just trying to discover u'rself. and eager to defend u'r ego as a person. just know that to u'r Mum, u'r still her little baby, it will take time for them to know that u'r now a woman. Just take it easy with them. and don't speak when u'r annoyed try counting up to 10 before u speak and up to 100 if u'r very annoyed