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blessedbeads:
very soon u will be connected to ur missing rib ,as ur mouth don speak ur mind ,u will receive ....is well

I get your point
But when people read the cover instead of the book, they miss out on the story. I seek a lady who'll read the book not look at the title
I hope you know what I mean

matrix199:
Don't u think ur moniker is working against u?

Little Ba'wow had to grow to "Ba'wow" before Ciara cld say yes to him. Our Nigerian ladies are quite sensitive to some details.

I remember how a date of mine told me point blank I didn't polish my shoe. In my mind I was like, "wah has mah shoe gat to do wit me loving u?. But I figured she fit think say as I no make my shoe shine, I fit no make her shine if she becom ma chiquita.

So, ur moniker fit make some ladies think say if dem follow u go special occasion, other men go dey order for beer, u go dey order for "BoBo fruit juice"

I hope u got my point shey?

Melsan:
@miss bronze,where art thou?

Hey sweery.


Gurumoney to you.

Nice day for ya.

nouvelle:
This thread was heating up last night, at some point I logged on and saw 85 new messages.

I took my time and read it all and I have a few observations both from the main discussion of yesterday and generally.

Ok, so some people think the thread is not achieving it's purpose, my question to those that think s‎o is, did you take your time to read the previous pages and catch up? Did you read the part where Siamia the OP specified the purpose of the thread. I applaud fourfunmi because she read all the previous pages and she made up her mind she wanted to be on the thread, I mention her because when she read it all she said so, I don't know if others did.
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The OP specified that this thread was for people to mingle and talk in peace without the mud slinging and fights, cheap talk and petty behaviour that happen‎ on other threads and for me, this was the first thread I saw fit to comment on on NL, then she went on to say that in the process if anyone catches your fancy, feel free to state your intentions and move to the next level.

It's a pity the thread was brought to hook up section hence some people just walk in to drop phone numbers, bbpins and throw words around as if the women here are desperate, like it's a restaurant and you can just order up what you want, as if it's not important to create atleast a rapport first. Where are our manners, Nawa o. ‎

For those who said the thread is 'dry', I'd assume that if a thread is 'dry', you'd just do a waka pass and let the people there be (that's what I do) or if you feel it's 'dry' and you have ways to make it 'wet', instead of just talking about it, lead by example by that I mean, don't just say do it this way or that instead actually DO it the way you feel is better, if people see it as a welcome idea, they'd join in, I think that's kinda how the thread has been so far. I've seen people sit back, kick off their shoes and actually gist

Then the part about feeling the ladies on the thread form, I'd say that personally I feel that the pms some ladies ignored are pms that came from unknown monikers, when I started commenting on this thread, I got a request from a moniker I hadn't seen here, when I looked the person's NL history up, I didn't see any link, I didn't accept it I must confess‎ but then my status is different anyways. We all have our different personalities: online and real life. Some people naturally are very open, others are reserved, some people are naturally private as well and I think it should be respected. I really doubt it that people who have been conversing here will ignore pms. My point here is have a convo first at least a hi hello, so when you send a request, the lady can tell who it's from.

Besides ddshow talked about a get together and some people have indicated interest, I think it's progress, my suggestion is that ddshow actually follows through with the plan and that people turn up, that way, the purpose of the thread is being achieved.

That said, my guys in the house, if you fancy a lady here, do the needful so the ladies have somthin' somethin' to look forward to for the get together. Then let me quote toks2008, the ghost mode thingy will be unnerving for hook up. So I'd toe the line of toks2008 and say it'd be nice if people put up their pictures for a short while when they join (or even afterwards briefly on request and take it down again) for people to see them, we human beings are visual oriented. A lot of people put up the pictures on NL for the first time because of this thread, OP included. The reason I never put mine up is because of my status and I was sidelining as well.
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Stingy missbronze that wants the okpa to herself alone, thank you o, I sight your long throat o, meanwhile have you noticed a moniker similar to yours on NL, missbronzy(sorry missbronzy for mentioning you here o)‎.

Magneto, I like your open mindedness.

Udysweet, I wish say I get someone to hook you up with, me likey you. Hugs.‎

Sorry, for the epistle, it's just my 2 kobo.‎

Making sense as always.
How have you been?
Still,waiting for you to dash me some of tjose free hours

How are you finding the weather? Its been pretty cold since saturday.

People need to provide profiles to enable viewers of the thread cut out the low hanging fruit and save time on barren expeditions.

1. Break your REAL age into a five-year bracket. 30 to 35, 35 to 39 etc.

2. Highest level of education attained

3. Freelance /self employed or employee.

4. Agnostic, atheist or religious and religion

5. Phlegmatic, sanguine, choleric or melancholy personality type.

6. Height and weight

7. Introverted or extroverted more often?

8. For those who are ethnic group sensitive, state your preferred ethnic groups to relate with on a romantic level.

If people on this board, start doing this then, things will move forward with purpose and direction. Interested parties can hit the right road quickly and hopefully team to their destination with someone who wants to go in that direction.

My mind as always. Best wishes

The leaders of this forum should take the lead and get it started.

1. Siamia
2. Toks 2008
3. Udysweet
4. Ddshow
5. Melsan etc.

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MYMINDER:
People need to provide profiles to enable viewers of the thread cut out the low hanging fruit and save time on barren expeditions.

1. Break your REAL age into a five-year bracket. 30 to 35, 35 to 39 etc.

2. Highest level of education attained

3. Freelance /self employed or employee.

4. Agnostic, atheist or religious and religion

5. Phlegmatic, sanguine, choleric or melancholy personality type.

6. Height and weight

7. Introverted or extroverted more often?

8. For those who are ethnic group sensitive, state your preferred ethnic groups to relate with on a romantic level.

If people on this board, start doing this then, things will move forward with purpose and direction. Interested parties can hit the right road quickly and hopefully team to their destination with someone who wants to go in that direction.

My mind as always. Best wishes

The leaders of this forum should take the lead and get it started.

1. Siamia
2. Toks 2008
3. Udysweet
4. Ddshow
5. Melsan etc.

You know, this your mind you keep expressing here, is beginning to piss some people off, including me.

for Christ's sake, you have your own thread you created about 30's too, why not carry that your long list you posted above, to your thread.?

Why come here to impose on us how to do things here.?

pls, I beg you with the name of whatever you serve, Let people be. Save us all this intellectual way of doing things, or intellectual topics, etc.


And, I wish you a lovely day ahead. cheers.


And, ehen, OUR MIND.

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fourfunmi:
@magneto , it means the boy is now a man! Infact, a wise man; a wise man who is aware that such superficial things are irrelevant to life's pursuit of happiness! I'm happy for you.

Tanx

matrix199:
Don't u think ur moniker is working against u?

Little Ba'wow had to grow to "Ba'wow" before Ciara cld say yes to him. Our Nigerian ladies are quite sensitive to some details.

I remember how a date of mine told me point blank I didn't polish my shoe. In my mind I was like, "wah has mah shoe gat to do wit me loving u?. But I figured she fit think say as I no make my shoe shine, I fit no make her shine if she becom ma chiquita.

So, ur moniker fit make some ladies think say if dem follow u go special occasion, other men go dey order for beer, u go dey order for "BoBo fruit juice"

I hope u got my point shey?

Lmao! Dis cracked me up real good...all dis monica palava sef, chai

missbronze:
You know, this your mind you keep expressing here, is beginning to piss some people off, including me.

for Christ's sake, you have your own thread you created about 30's too, why not carry that your long list you posted above, to your thread.?

Why come here to impose on us how to do things here.?

pls, I beg you with the name of whatever you serve, Let people be. Save us all this intellectual way of doing things, or intellectual topics, etc.


And, I wish you a lovely day ahead. cheers.


And, ehen, OUR MIND.

It's a suggestion. You are free to take the advice or leave it. No one is commanding you. You appear to have more issues with the poster than the content.

I will leave it at that for now.

[quote author=matrix199 post=40349187][/quote]Nice one Matrix199!

Come missbronze,where are u presently? Giv me ur addy,I need to come and plaster two hot pecks wit dis my pink lipstick on both of ur cheeks and then turn back,lool! Now u know why? U jus spoke my mind,no addition or subtraction. I told sm1 offline that I wanted to reply dis mentions but I feel I'll offend mymind,so mak I wait see weda anybody dey in my shoes too,so it won't look like I'm oversabi,u jus did! God bles!!!!!
Now mymind,I dnt tink I need say more cos my darling sis here jus said all "my mind" too.
Love u miss bronze(no homo)

missbronze:
You know, this your mind you keep expressing here, is beginning to piss some people off, including me.

for Christ's sake, you have your own thread you created about 30's too, why not carry that your long list you posted above, to your thread.?

Why come here to impose on us how to do things here.?

pls, I beg you with the name of whatever you serve, Let people be. Save us all this intellectual way of doing things, or intellectual topics, etc.


And, I wish you a lovely day ahead. cheers.


And, ehen, OUR MIND.

missbronze:
Hey sweery.


Gurumoney to you.

Nice day for ya.

Thanks dearie,same to ya

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udysweet:
Come missbronze,where are u presently? Giv me ur addy,I need to come and plaster two hot pecks wit dis my pink lipstick on both of ur cheeks and then turn back,lool! Now u know why? U jus spoke my mind,no addition or subtraction. I told sm1 offline that I wanted to reply dis mentions but I feel I'll offend mymind,so mak I wait see weda anybody dey in my shoes too,so it won't look like I'm oversabi,u jus did! God bles!!!!!
Now mymind,I dnt tink I need say more cos my darling sis here jus said all "my mind" too.
Love u miss bronze(no homo)

You are entitled to your view just the way I am. No hard feelings.

Funny enough,missbronze just spoke my mind. And since you said I'm entitled to my view and no hard feelings,I think you deliberately just looking to create a problem where there is none. Everyone on the thread are moving on fine,you came and want to turn it around. You have been given the liberty tto open a thread of urs,and ur supos to do ur best to drive trafic to it,cos u really can't force pple against their will.
What beats me is mentioned me! I'm not the Op,but uav termed me a leader here too,lol! Ok ,no prob dear. Cheers

MYMINDER:
You are entitled to your view just the way I am. No hard feelings.

@myminder,you have made your point and it has been noted but trying to impose is a no no...mind your mind

That's where the western world get it faster than we do
A seemingly ugly looking device packs more capacity than a glam device, ever wondered why?

When we try and stop looking at aesthetics and start looking deep, we get the best
Who knows, my wearing an agbada to an interview might just be the difference that company seeks for their marketing campaign

Look deep, gold aint on the surface

matrix199:
Don't judge a book by its cover, until u've read it, they say. But how on earth do u expect her to read all the books that present before her?!

Well, I think if a book is interesting enough, it should show it on its cover. So what's the point having an interesting content with a non catchy cover?

You may want to try attending a bank interview in Lagos dressed in "agbaada", with an impressive resume, and expect them to read your content(qualification).

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udysweet:
Come missbronze,where are u presently? Giv me ur addy,I need to come and plaster two hot pecks wit dis my pink lipstick on both of ur cheeks and then turn back,lool! Now u know why? U jus spoke my mind,no addition or subtraction. I told sm1 offline that I wanted to reply dis mentions but I feel I'll offend mymind,so mak I wait see weda anybody dey in my shoes too,so it won't look like I'm oversabi,u jus did! God bles!!!!!
Now mymind,I dnt tink I need say more cos my darling sis here jus said all "my mind" too.
Love u miss bronze(no homo)

Udysweet nkem, how dy my love?

I just finished preparing draw soup with semo.


Abeg, come make we intellectually devour am.


And, yes, OUR MINDS.

Some People here feed themselves with the fuel they need to validate their outbursts.

I never used the word impose ms bronze used it to validate her outbursts. Don't apply words that I did not use just to enable you give your response a nice takeoff.

Spare me the deceit though it is widely accepted in Nigeria so as to gain acceptance. I remember comments when I first talked about topics to discuss and some said go ahead that it is not a strictly hookup thread. Talk about anything here. Now some women are twisting it to feed their agenda.

I started an intellectual thread. What I WROTE above is 100% in line with this thread about people trying to build relationships. It is not meant for anywhere else. In your haste to get me out of this thread you refuse to see that. Take out the emotion; logic and objectivity is all you need here.

When I mention leaders I mean people who actively participate in the thread and not just OP.

I have made my logical view known. I don't need to seek acceptance before I speak out. I guess that is part of the gripe.

You don't have to like me online to make sense of my content. It seems that some of the women that have spoken thus far have refused to separate both of them.

You peeps are borrowing my slogan. It's all good...

MY MIND

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fourfunmi:
Omg! I am so sorry @viviciousvivi , Kindly accept my heartfelt sympathy. I've still got my parents but about 3months ago I lost 2 people very dear to me. I wept for weeks, I was broken, shattered and lost my will to continue. Gradually I started to get out of it, through the help of many around me who tried many times to knock sense into my head...it was like a vortex sucking me in. My dear I know how you feel and may God comfort you and heal your heart. You'll be in my prayers.

@udysweet... Pele...welcome to my world...I get those mad headaches constantly now; infact, every week. Try to reduce your phone/computer use, rest your eyes, keep your lights dim/off...that's what I do. Ndo my sister.

@Toks2008....awayu?? I remember reading something something about politics. Abeg when should I come and submit my proposal? How was the weekend bro?

@ddshow...refreshing weekend right? Hope you are very (not fairly) okay! Fingerscrossed plus looking forward to the actualization of the beautiful plan you are working on.

@halexito....very soon you won't be as single as the sun anymore...remember how gloomy the day is without the sun; we all need the sun. You have so much love to give; don't worry 'Miss Deserving' is on her way.

@magneto...your write up is lovely. I did a little soul searching too fter reading it. God bless you for the lovely piece. Truly, we attract who we are and are also responsible for that. We should try to imbibe those virtues and characteristics we look out for in ourselves so we can attract same.

@everyone.... I hope y'all had a lovely weekend...I wish everybody a lovely week ahead...

Hmm....you're a darling! Orderly and blunt!

matrix199:
Nna, make we no lie, u dey exhibit narcissism. You need to slow down. Where ur own intellect stop, na dia some ppl own begin.

Don't use ur intellect wrongly. Probably there's a noxious part of u that sublimed on this thread, and they perceived it. You shld take corrections discreetly, even if u're right. They like humble guys.

Ladies do not necessarily crush on intellectual guys, particularly the ones who show it off. They crush on humble, intelligent guys.

Abeg, try treat our ladies here like queen u hear?! Na because of u I don hide my own intellect, com activate ordinary sense.

Wetin be dat ur slogan wey dem borrow sef?

People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

Hi, everyone! Long time!!

saucekid:
I get your point
But when people read the cover instead of the book, they miss out on the story. I seek a lady who'll read the book not look at the title
I hope you know what I mean

It takes a good cover,catchy heading to open not to talk of buying ma book.
Examples:
Gifted Hands
The gods are not to blame
Things fall apart
Think big
The power of a praying woman
I hope you get what i mean

MYMINDER:
People perceive what they want to perceive. That's why people react differently to the same stimuli.

I neither seek acceptance nor rejection from males or females on this thread. I say what I believe needs to be said; how people decide to react or perceive my content is 100% outside of my control and I will not lose sleep over it.

I have no agenda whatsoever: udysweet said I am here to make trouble (wrong) or you that is now linking this to showing off. People will always think what they want to think; I am not going to dwell on it. Live and let live.

I have spoken MY MIND as always

Best wishes

You're trying to build this thread the way YOU THINK it should be. You sound all wise to me. Let us be. We're OK.

MYMINDER:
People need to provide profiles to enable viewers of the thread cut out the low hanging fruit and save time on barren expeditions.

1. Break your REAL age into a five-year bracket. 30 to 35, 35 to 39 etc.

2. Highest level of education attained

3. Freelance /self employed or employee.

4. Agnostic, atheist or religious and religion

5. Phlegmatic, sanguine, choleric or melancholy personality type.

6. Height and weight

7. Introverted or extroverted more often?

8. For those who are ethnic group sensitive, state your preferred ethnic groups to relate with on a romantic level.

If people on this board, start doing this then, things will move forward with purpose and direction. Interested parties can hit the right road quickly and hopefully team to their destination with someone who wants to go in that direction.

My mind as always. Best wishes

The leaders of this forum should take the lead and get it started.

1. Siamia
2. Toks 2008
3. Udysweet
4. Ddshow
5. Melsan etc.

hahahahahah
why don't you take the lead as per the originator

halexito:
Hi, everyone! Long time!!

Hello alexito,hope you good?

halexito:
You're trying to build this thread the way YOU THINK it should be. You sound all wise to me. Let us be. We're OK.

I never said you were not OK; no need to go there. I am not building a thread; I am contributing to one. Maybe when you make these two adjustments then you may have a softer stance when you look at the bigger picture

I doubt whether you will see msbronze comment to me as dismissive because it came from someone likely on your good side. If you put my moniker attached to the same words, you may have already dived in to have a go at me. Human beings, nothing changes...

My point is this standoff has very little to do with the content of my contribution thus far and a lot more to with a negative view of the content provider and whatever he stands for or doesn't stand for.

It's just MY MIND