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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 8:46pm On Nov 24, 2015
tenderlaw:


If you were such a brilliant professor you wouldn't be here now, would you? Keep quoting me...odeh!!
go get a life taut

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Nov 24, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Don't care!

same here Cinderella..i don't care or give a 2 shït about internet püssies i may never have the opportunity of making wider... sanoyara grin

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 24, 2015
darkenedrebel:


same here Cinderella..i don't care or give a 2 shït about internet püssies i may never have the opportunity of making wider... sanoyara grin

Huh? What does that have to do with anything? You sound sexually frustrated. Go beat ya meat! grin
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 8:56pm On Nov 24, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Are they having sex in the main house or the detached living quarters you have given to them? I don't see why you should be the only one having sex but others can't. They're human too, yanno. Be glad it's your maid he's doing & not that dog of yours, because that's what's going to happen if you keep denying people their natural desires, they'll release in other ways. IJS.
them having sex on there duty pose is that what you encourage them to be doing, did u employ them to come and be having sex in there working place.,what if problems result from there acts what will u say then.
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:02pm On Nov 24, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Huh? What does that have to do with anything? You sound sexually frustrated. Go beat ya meat! grin

sexually frustrated? A whole Lothario like me? I feel insulted ...just don't lemme catch you in the corner of my street..maybe I'd vent all my sexual frustrations on you grin

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by 6fit(f): 9:06pm On Nov 24, 2015
Nah!! Sack dem for what? They are simply answering d call of nature. I will just caution dem not to use there sex groam to constitute noise polution
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 24, 2015
Nawa ooooooooo...
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Nov 24, 2015
HelpeeDeck:
them having sex on there duty pose is that what you encourage them to be doing, did u employ them to come and be having sex in there working place.,what if problems result from there acts what will u say then.

Ok, come here & listen. If you have an issue with people having sex in your yard, then don't employ them as live-in staff. Let them come to work every morning & leave at the punch of a clock in the evening, so they can go have all the sex they want. You don't own all of their time. The only hours they owe to you are the working hours & working hours ONLY. 9-5 or whatever hours y'all agreed on. Past that they owe you vokol. You sound like the typical dictator black boss everybody dreads, thinking you own people just because they're poor enough to work for you. Those aren't robots, they're humans with basic human NEEDS just like you. It's that simple.

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 24, 2015
darkenedrebel:


sexually frustrated? A whole Lothario like me? I feel insulted ...just don't lemme catch you in the corner of my street..maybe I'd vent all my sexual frustrations on you grin

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:31pm On Nov 24, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Ok, come here & listen. If you have an issue with people having sex in your yard, then don't employ them as live-in staff. Let them come to work every morning & leave at the punch of a clock in the evening, so they can go have all the sex they want. You don't own all of their time. The only hours they owe to you are the working hours & working hours ONLY. 9-5 or whatever hours y'all agreed on. Past that they owe you vokol. You sound like the typical dictator black boss everybody dreads, thinking you own people just because they're poor enough to work for you. Those aren't robots, they're humans with basic human NEEDS just like you. It's that simple.

enough please, you dont judge people when you know nothing about them..squash all.. when it comes to your turn you can allow them to use your own house the way they like,want and even disturb you with sexual groans everywhere....no need of your opinion again,is okay
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Nov 24, 2015
HelpeeDeck:


enough please, you dont judge people when you know nothing about them..squash all.. when it comes to your turn you can allow them to use your own house the way they like,want and even disturb you with sexual groans everywhere....no need of your opinion again,is okay

You sound like such a prude. Probably a 40-year-old virgin. Let the poor people have sex or join in since you sound so uptight, pained & in need of some release yourself. How about that? cheesy
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:48pm On Nov 24, 2015
PunkyVeer:


You sound like such a prude. Probably a 40-year-old virgin. Let the poor people have sex or join in since you sound so uptight, pained & in need of some release yourself. How about that? cheesy

no need to keep exchange insulting words with you,am more than that...you level of iq and your maturity has already be showed..Get a life poor little bitch
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Nov 24, 2015
HelpeeDeck:


no need to keep exchange insulting words with you,am more than that...you level of iq and your maturity has already be showed..Get a life poor little bitch

Bleep you & make sure it's human & not your greased hand, asshole
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 24, 2015
Helpedeck, it's like your own head is still correct, yr kinda fellow is rare, in fact going extinct, so don't mind the crazy breeds I suppose...


Anyway, Op, cn u pls rephrase? Couldn't mk any sense outta this dumpling
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by bolagabriella: 10:33pm On Nov 24, 2015
Op, you didn't answer the question of whether you guys agree on no sexual relationship amidst staffs. if yes, then you have the right to sack them or put them on probation but if no, then there is no need to fuss over it. just that if it makes you feel uncomfortable,all you have to do is call them and you guys will talk things out. they are humans and they have needs but there is also a need for them to respect you and your house in which they live. another thing is everyone has a right to their own opinion, we see things differently and think different based on our perspective and upbringing. so when people comment,don't insult them or be rude to them cos you asked for their opinion. just read,if you don't like what you read try to be matured and just smile and if you do then say thanks...simple. you don't have to reply everyone that say something that doesn't suits you.
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by fexyrich(m): 10:37pm On Nov 24, 2015
Punkyveer u go like bad tin eehhh..haba!! Se as u dey support the whole tin.. There are so many people who would not tolerate such nonsense in their home..If d gateman was sleeping with a girl from outside its not a big deal at all..But having sex with your house maid who is your responsibilty is like having sex with my daughter..And i would not only deal with both of them but kick them out as well..What if he gets her pregnant,is he ready to marry her??Haba!!quote author=PunkyVeer post=40368012]

Are they having sex in the main house or the detached living quarters you have given to them? I don't see why you should be the only one having sex but others can't. They're human too, yanno. Be glad it's your maid he's doing & not that dog of yours, because that's what's going to happen if you keep denying people their natural desires, they'll release in other ways. IJS.[/quote]
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 24, 2015
fexyrich:
Punkyveer u go like bad tin eehhh..haba!! Se as u dey support the whole tin.. There are so many people who would not tolerate such nonsense in their home..If d gateman was sleeping with a girl from outside its not a big deal at all..But having sex with your house maid who is your responsibilty is like having sex with my daughter..And i would not only deal with both of them but kick them out as well..What if he gets her pregnant,is he ready to marry her??Haba!!quote author=PunkyVeer post=40368012]

Are they having sex in the main house or the detached living quarters you have given to them? I don't see why you should be the only one having sex but others can't. They're human too, yanno. Be glad it's your maid he's doing & not that dog of yours, because that's what's going to happen if you keep denying people their natural desires, they'll release in other ways. IJS.

He asked for opinions & I gave him mine because I believe they should be able to have consensual sex if they want to. I don't consider house help my "daughter", I see them as an adult capable of making sound decisions on their own. The only thing that binds us is employer/employee relationship. What she does in the dark after hours is none of my business just as long as they handle their relationship maturely & without drama. So what if she gets pregnant? That's between them. Doesn't involve me. She can keep working, go on maternity leave & resume work afterwards. I don't see what the big deal is, really.

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 10:54pm On Nov 24, 2015
fexyrich:
Punkyveer u go like bad tin eehhh..haba!! Se as u dey support the whole tin.. There are so many people who would not tolerate such nonsense in their home..If d gateman was sleeping with a girl from outside its not a big deal at all..But having sex with your house maid who is your responsibilty is like having sex with my daughter..And i would not only deal with both of them but kick them out as well..What if he gets her pregnant,is he ready to marry her??Haba!!quote author=PunkyVeer post=40368012]

Are they having sex in the main house or the detached living quarters you have given to them? I don't see why you should be the only one having sex but others can't. They're human too, yanno. Be glad it's your maid he's doing & not that dog of yours, because that's what's going to happen if you keep denying people their natural desires, they'll release in other ways. IJS.

May You live long in life and reap your children good fruits...The both of them wasnt sacked, rather warned severely and make them sign an agreement should incase anything result from there acts both will face it severely. Also they are free to do it during day time when none is around,provided it will not interfere with there job or caused noise pollution again during the night.

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by HelpeeDeck(m): 10:57pm On Nov 24, 2015
bolagabriella:
Op, you didn't answer the question of whether you guys agree on no sexual relationship amidst staffs. if yes, then you have the right to sack them or put them on probation but if no, then there is no need to fuss over it. just that if it makes you feel uncomfortable,all you have to do is call them and you guys will talk things out. they are humans and they have needs but there is also a need for them to respect you and your house in which they live. another thing is everyone has a right to their own opinion, we see things differently and think different based on our perspective and upbringing. so when people comment,don't insult them or be rude to them cos you asked for their opinion. just read,if you don't like what you read try to be matured and just smile and if you do then say thanks...simple. you don't have to reply everyone that say something that doesn't suits you.
If you own an organization,where you have staff working for you, will you be happy seeing them having sex together during working time in your organization..Pictured it within you and think about it
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by fexyrich(m): 11:11pm On Nov 24, 2015
You are even leinient and understanding. Some people wouldnt tolerate it at all..But u gave them good conditions tho!!
HelpeeDek:


May You live long in life and reap your children good fruits...The both of them wasnt sacked, rather warned severely and make them sign an agreement should incase anything result from there acts both will face it severely. Also they are free to do it during day time when none is around,provided it will not interfere with there job or caused noise pollution again during the night.
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by bolagabriella: 11:13pm On Nov 24, 2015
HelpeeDeck:

If you own an organization,where you have staff working for you, will you be happy seeing them having sex together during working time in your organization..Pictured it within you and think about it
no I won't. the more reason for an agreement form stating no form of sexual relationship and the penalty
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by fexyrich(m): 11:23pm On Nov 24, 2015
Well you have a point from the context your coming from..But not during working hours tho!! Whe they are both supposed to be on duty..
PunkyVeer:


He asked for opinions & I gave him mine because I believe they should be able to have consensual sex if they want to. I don't consider house help my "daughter", I see them as an adult capable of making sound decisions on their own. The only thing that binds us is employer/employee relationship. What she does in the dark after hours is none of my business just as long as they handle their relationship maturely & without drama. So what if she gets pregnant? That's between them. Doesn't involve me. She can keep working, go on maternity leave & resume work afterwards. I don't see what the big deal is, really.
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Nov 24, 2015
fexyrich:
Well you have a point from the context your coming from..But not during working hours tho!! Whe they are both supposed to be on duty..


Correct me if I'm wrong, but this supposedly happened at night, didn't it? What maid works the night shift? cheesy Boss man needs to lay off fo reals.

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Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by stephenqueen: 12:24am On Nov 25, 2015
prettythicksme:
U naw cheesy
You don miss me baundecided cheesy
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by stephenqueen: 12:27am On Nov 25, 2015
2dice:
we thank God Nop ..a friend has it .. He told me it was d.ope Until i hear-ram before i believe
I don get am but I never get time to listen to am
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by stephenqueen: 12:38am On Nov 25, 2015
lagmostkuit:
kiss kiss kiss
Who are you please ? undecided



Go nd meet lekan jor angry
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by tenderlaw(m): 1:04am On Nov 25, 2015
HelpeeDeck:
go get a life taut

I know your type. You're just a shitsmear, a total failure of contraception. Opening that cesspool you call a mouth to insult people without using that rotten brain of yours. Gerrarrahere mehn!!!
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 25, 2015
stephenqueen:

Who are you please ? undecided

Go nd meet lekan jor angry
It's not fair oh! cry cry cry
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by kennycanny: 8:15am On Nov 25, 2015
fexyrich:
Well you have a point from the context your coming from..But not during working hours tho!! Whe they are both supposed to be on duty..


What time is the working hours of a live-in house help and a gateman that stays in a detached house in his boss compound?

Would d master see it differently if the gateman brought in another lady entirely.
Re: Your Opinion Is Needed. by stephenqueen: 11:45pm On Nov 26, 2015

It's not fair oh! cry cry cry
undecided If I tear you slap Ehn! angry angry

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