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Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by mayorjosh(op): 8:11pm On Nov 29, 2015
I read this ehn and omo this oga titus dey love ooo




Hi people,my name is Joshua and I have a problem.My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for over a year and we've been doing fine until the need for us to seperate came by.I had been sent on an official assignment to Port-Harcourt which was to last for six months.We both had fears if distance was going to be a disturbance because we are both based in lagos but I had no choice than to move.
we communicated well during my stay in PH and it didn't seem like I missed her but two months before my return I noticed we got too formall.By the time I got back to lagos,i realised she was cheating.It hurt me so bad and I asked her why she did such a thing anf she told me I wasn't there when she needed Mr and I was like wtf!!??...I just cut the whole thing short and wanted to get back with her but instead she said she wanted a breakup,though I didn't want to do it but I had to
Now I'm missing her more than ever and I dont mind going back to her cos she's still single at the moment.I know if I go back it'll look like I have no self esteem but facebookers I love this girl badly.what should I do?


seriously this nigga has an endtime problem huhhuh
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by Cutehector(m): 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2015
He isnt married to her yet so why his "possessive" attitude towards her...




People still dnt understand the word love yet.. Someone who loves u wont do anythn to hurt u... And stupidly lovin someone who doesnt even love u bak is crazy mehn... I rather stay single as i am dan make such mistake again...
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by Favolly(f): 8:25pm On Nov 29, 2015
I just opened this thread to find out what it means to 'derail self esteem for love'

Odinma! lipsrsealed
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 29, 2015
First of all;nairalanders nt facebookers nd missing sumone dat dnt miss u is a crime with spiritual, emotional and psychological death sentence.
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Nov 29, 2015
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Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by obiorathesubtle: 8:53pm On Nov 29, 2015
The guy na real endtime self esteem lover
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by mayorjosh(op): 8:54pm On Nov 29, 2015
Maiconyoung:
First of all;nairalanders nt facebookers nd missing sumone dat dnt miss u is a crime with spiritual, emotional and psychological death sentence.
I copied it from fb bro smiley
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by mayorjosh(op): 7:47am On Nov 30, 2015
Favolly:
I just opened this thread to find out what it means to 'derail self esteem for love'

Odinma! lipsrsealed
grin
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by firstking01(m): 8:29am On Nov 30, 2015
Favolly:
I just opened this thread to find out what it means to 'derail self esteem for love'

Odinma! lipsrsealed
it means to swallow ur pride and go agnst ur vows...
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by Favolly(f): 8:33am On Nov 30, 2015
firstking01:
it means to swallow ur pride and go agnst ur vows...
Alright
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by firstking01(m): 8:33am On Nov 30, 2015
Frm wat i 've bin reading here and wat friends have told me, coupled wit wat m experiencing nw, i doubt if i will eva love a gal wit all my hrt.
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by firstking01(m): 8:38am On Nov 30, 2015
Favolly:
Alright
cooL
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by misspicy(f): 9:04am On Nov 30, 2015
firstking01:
Frm wat i 've bin reading here and wat friends have told me, coupled wit wat m experiencing nw, i doubt if i will eva love a gal wit all my hrt.
see why i have always been teling this romance section boys to stop debasing girls.....now this one has learnt something from you guys......mtchwwwwe undecided
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by IamLEGEND1: 9:30am On Nov 30, 2015
misspicy:
see why i have always been teling this romance section boys to stop debasing girls.....now this one has learnt something from you guys......mtchwwwwe undecided
& he'll be better off like that.

true Emotional investment is for sissies.
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by misspicy(f): 9:35am On Nov 30, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
& he'll be better off like that.
true Emotional investment is for sissies.
shocked...okay o
Re: Should I Derail Self-esteem For Love? by firstking01(m): 9:50am On Nov 30, 2015
misspicy:
see why i have always been teling this romance section boys to stop debasing girls.....now this one has learnt something from you guys......mtchwwwwe undecided
its nt only wat i 've read here...am also experiencing it nw wit gift...yes dats her fvckinq nam€....did u follow my thread??
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