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Ladies, do not make excuses and say you didn’t know when enough was enough.

Here are 4 red flags that should give you the key to exit the relationship, as soon as you can.

1. He cheats

Many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up better than where they were pre-cheating. But it’s not the act of cheating that’s the deal-breaker here; it’s the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. (Hello, STDS!) With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it’s entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. Do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust? You should not, which is why you have to say BYE to cheating men.

2. He gets violent, even if he doesn’t hit you

You may think this is a no-brainer but honestly it isn’t. Most women I know who’ve been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner’s anger and violence. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.

3. He doesn’t claim or proclaim you

Many women will spend time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won’t give them the girlfriend title. Here’s the truth: If you’ve been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he hasn’t made you an official part of his life, it’s time to MOVE ON. Stop making excuses for why things aren’t progressing to the next level; you’ll only waste time and your time is worth more than that. Don’t settle for less because you don’t want a man who makes you a bargain-bin find. If he knows your worth, he’ll claim and proclaim you and there will be few conversations about how ‘he isn’t ready.’

4. He suffers from addiction

There are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he’s fallen on hard times. But CAUTION if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction. Addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol, pornography and sex. Someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything – and I mean anything – to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love. So unless you’d like to be second to whatever vices he has, it may be time to ‘leave smoke.

word is enough for the wise...
Bashers
Derailers oya!

RexKexMilann:
Most Nigerian Ladies will put up with All those Stuffs WHEN the Dude in Question Has Acquired Enough Affluence.



What I Am "typing" is that MONEY is the KEYWORD ..... So I expect you to drop the Samsung Duos you used in creating this thread AND go Make lots of Money .





#God Bless You AYH .[b]

Lol
Money is the key

Maamin;

My messianic Jewish brother from another mother. Baruch adonai

Happy Chanukkah.

Xiadnat:
Maamin;

My messianic Jewish brother from another mother. Baruch adonai

Happy Chanukkah.

Happy hanukkah my dear!..is been a while

We don hear.



Buh hope wen we start to dey break-up up and down una nor go run com NL dey cry say babes don chop money run?

RexKexMilann:
Most Nigerian Ladies will put up with All those Stuffs WHEN the Dude in Question Has Acquired Enough Affluence.



What I Am "typing" is that MONEY is the KEYWORD ..... So I expect you to drop the Samsung Duos you used in creating this thread AND go Make lots of Money .





#God Bless You AYH .

I Dont use Samsung Dous...is that what you use?

dachaste:
We don hear.



Buh hope wen we start to dey break-up up and down una nor go run com NL dey cry say babes don chop money run?

stop looking for excuse to break up O

Maamin:
stop looking for excuse to break up O

Lol. Na advice we dey follow Nah

Maamin:
Happy hanukkah my dear!..is been a while

Yes. I trust you are well. Seasons' greetings.

Xiadnat:
Yes. I trust you are well. Seasons' greetings.

Same to you...where are we Celebrating it?

Would dey listen? Lol wen the guy satisfies her sexually she will still come bak for more

only foolish girls would go back when the man possesses all this characters even when he is loaded.

RexKexMilann:
Most Nigerian Ladies will put up with All those Stuffs WHEN the Dude in Question Has Acquired Enough Affluence.



What I Am "typing" is that MONEY is the KEYWORD ..... So I expect you to drop the Samsung Duos you used in creating this thread AND go Make lots of Money .






#God Bless You AYH .

#Amen #Word

Maamin:
Ladies, do not make excuses and say you didn’t know when enough was enough.

Here are 4 red flags that should give you the key to exit the relationship, as soon as you can.

1. He cheats

Many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up better than where they were pre-cheating. But it’s not the act of cheating that’s the deal-breaker here; it’s the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. (Hello, STDS!) With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it’s entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. Do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust? You should not, which is why you have to say BYE to cheating men.

2. He gets violent, even if he doesn’t hit you

You may think this is a no-brainer but honestly it isn’t. Most women I know who’ve been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner’s anger and violence. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.

3. He doesn’t claim or proclaim you

Many women will spend time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won’t give them the girlfriend title. Here’s the truth: If you’ve been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he hasn’t made you an official part of his life, it’s time to MOVE ON. Stop making excuses for why things aren’t progressing to the next level; you’ll only waste time and your time is worth more than that. Don’t settle for less because you don’t want a man who makes you a bargain-bin find. If he knows your worth, he’ll claim and proclaim you and there will be few conversations about how ‘he isn’t ready.’

4. He suffers from addiction

There are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he’s fallen on hard times. But CAUTION if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction. Addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol, pornography and sex. Someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything – and I mean anything – to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love. So unless you’d like to be second to whatever vices he has, it may be time to ‘leave smoke.

word is enough for the wise...
Bashers
Derailers oya!

Ain't you GUYS tired of this trash....?
U are encouraging LADIES to dump their guys,..
Pls, will u provide them with a better one.. .?

Mind you we have only 2 SATURDAYS left before we round off wedding activities for this year.
Hope you already know the PROPHECIES of next year.?

1stly, what is CHEATING...?

2ndly, IF our LADIES/CULTURE support POLYGAMY, kindly differentiate cheating from polygamy... .?

3rdly, Hope u know that for every MAN that is willing to cheat, there is always a LADY ready to help him accomplish it.. .?