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my girlfriend just ended my our 3yrs relationship on the fact that she thinks am cheating on her.

I met this girl (kelechi) just 3weeks after we started lecture in ma first yr in university of port harcourt. I wouldn't call it a perfect relationship but I love this girl like I've never loved anyone in this life. I've had several relationships but this one was just different. never loved like this before.

kelechi would say she loves me but she doesnt know how to show it. and truly sometimes i wonder if she really lovee me at all. I wonder if there's ever anything like that cus I've never heard of it. I'm always trying to keep this relationship but she's always looking for reasons to leave and this I dont understand. cus anytime I ask her if she love me she will say yes.


this time she went for IT in abuja where she now works at NNPC towers. at first it was all cool cus I called everyday and sent her sms but this she does once in a while and until I ask her to send me sms she doesn't. recently she just called me and said she doesnt feel any connection with me anymore, I asked why she said noting.

few weeks lata she stop talking to me, doesnt take my calls or sms for like 3weeks then lata she sent me a text that I should move on with my life. that she feels am cheatin on her.

this hurts me to my born I swear cus am so deeply inlove with this girl and I dont know y she's acting like this. I feel bad cus this is not how I roll normally but I cant believe the girl I fell for is playing with ma heart.

what can I do now. I need ur advice pls.

another maga has taken over

Uh...

Life is all about choices.. Amen

Byeeeeee!

You sef move on....you Don try.

osedvgirl:
another maga has taken over

thats exactly what everyone has been saying..funi tho

There is nothing more than to be happy that you are moving on.
If she wont trust you now, she wont trust you later too.
She had the choice of asking you questions before making her
decision, but she didnt.


In between, you can visit http://datingyouths..com
You might come across articles that can help

My brother you deserve better. Move on.

Hmmmmm

If you really love her as you claimed, respect her advice (text msg) and move onnnnnnnnnn

Love don't last


Move on



She's mature enuf 2 tell u

Abbykem:
Love don't last

Move on


She's mature enuf 2 tell u

well.. I guess so

It seems you are too nice to her dats why she thinks you are cheating on her. Some girls just love it wen you're dat bad gee....

Just move on bro

this hurts me to my born I swear cus am so deeply inlove with this girl and I dont know y she's acting like this. I feel bad cus this is not how I roll normally but I cant believe the girl I fell for is playing with ma heart.

what can I do now. I need ur advice pls.

When a woman loves, she loves for real!

It was so obvious that the lady does not love you, you were only forcing yourself on her.
An expression of love isn't learnt, if she really loves, you will see her expressing it in all manners she can.

Bro, move on. To every bolt, there is always a nut though there are nuts!

pet4ril:
If you really love her as you claimed, respect her advice (text msg) and move onnnnnnnnnn

I did but I still find myself thinking about her once in a while and its annoying

Truth is she has never loved u and you know it, the breakup is expected don't act surprise.











Move on bro, cos right from day one she was just dating u for dating sake, the signs were all there, u for jus dey comot your mind small small na. Don't worry u will meet someone that will love you genuinely and it ain't stupidity, it's love just that she took advantage of it.




Ndooooo

Tolexander:
When a woman loves, she loves for real!

It was so obvious that the lady does not love you, you were only forcing yourself on her.
An expression of love isn't learnt, if she really loves, you will see her expressing it in all manners she can.

Bro, move on. To every bolt, there is always a nut though there are nuts!

u are very correct.

officialmcfresh1:
I did but I still find myself thinking about her once in a while and its annoying

its normal.... Such is life

officialmcfresh1:
my girlfriend just ended my our 3yrs relationship on the fact that she thinks am cheating on her.

I met this girl (kelechi) just 3weeks after we started lecture in ma first yr in university of port harcourt. I wouldn't call it a perfect relationship but I love this girl like I've never loved anyone in this life. I've had several relationships but this one was just different. never loved like this before.

kelechi would say she loves me but she doesnt know how to show it. and truly sometimes i wonder if she really lovee me at all. I wonder if there's ever anything like that cus I've never heard of it. I'm always trying to keep this relationship but she's always looking for reasons to leave and this I dont understand. cus anytime I ask her if she love me she will say yes.


this time she went for IT in abuja where she now works at NNPC towers. at first it was all cool cus I called everyday and sent her sms but this she does once in a while and until I ask her to send me sms she doesn't. recently she just called me and said she doesnt feel any connection with me anymore, I asked why she said noting.

few weeks lata she stop talking to me, doesnt take my calls or sms for like 3weeks then lata she sent me a text that I should move on with my life. that she feels am cheatin on her.

this hurts me to my born I swear cus am so deeply inlove with this girl and I dont know y she's acting like this. I feel bad cus this is not how I roll normally but I cant believe the girl I fell for is playing with ma heart.

what can I do now. I need ur advice pls.

Nothing! Just move on as she said.

Take heart bro,


Very painful but I'm sure you'll fall in love with the right person sooner than you expect.

Stop calling & stop thinking about her, she's gone.

bro DAT is it, wen u show him or her DAT u truly love dem, dey tend to take u for granted, u should have seen d handwriting on d wall ever since u guys have started going out, from my own point of view she does not love u oooo she only likes u. The gud guys keeps meeting d bad girls, y d gud girls keeps meeting d bad guys, May God have mercy upon us in dis our generation.

Same story line with this movie,are you also watching Africa magic .

adepeter26:
It seems you are too nice to her dats why she thinks you are cheating on her. Soe girls just love it wen you're dat bad gee....

Just move on bro

yea. after we broke up, I read some articles that made me realize i was really too nice to her. this girl is extremely jealous and doesnt even want any female around me.

I was so open to her to the extent that she can go thru ma fon buh when she sees any chat dats kinda off..she cries and says am cheatin on her.

she will say cheatin is not just wen u sleep with another girl or guy.

but she knws I dont cheat on her. she's just insecure to the highest.

Acidosis:
Take heart bro,


Very painful but I'm sure you'll fall in love with the right person sooner than you expect.

Stop calling & stop thinking about her, she's gone.

I wont lie to you...thats sh**t scared the hell out of me... buh am cool now
tho

One thing about dis luv is dat it only happens once in a life time. If someone truly luvs u nd u loose dem 4any reason watsoever. U'll neva see who will luv u dat much again in ur lifetime. Nd if u truly luv someone nd dey loose u, dey ll never see who ll luv dem dat much again. So it's eida sum1 has once really luvd u nd u jilted her or mayb u yet to meet her, bt eida ways u gotta move on. Goodluck!

Bamz555:
One thing about dis luv is dat it only happens once in a life time. If someone truly luvs u nd u loose dem 4any reason watsoever. U'll neva see who will luv u dat much again in ur lifetime. Nd if u truly luv someone nd dey loose u, dey ll never see who ll luv dem dat much again. So it's eida sum1 has once really luvd u nd u jilted her or mayb u yet to meet her, bt eida ways u gotta move on. Goodluck!

you not far from the truth. u wont believe i left a relationship of five years for this girl truly because I just got admission and there's no way I would have kept the other girl waiting for me to be true with school den settle down with her so I jus
t had to let her go.

but I could swear with my life that that girl loved me with her life and would do anything to be with me.

I only just felt I got her too soon and I was ready.

officialmcfresh1:
yea. after we broke up, I read some articles that made me realize i was really too nice to her. this girl is extremely jealous and doesnt even want any female around me.

I was so open to her to the extent that she can go thru ma fon buh when she sees any chat dats kinda off..she cries and says am cheatin on her.

she will say cheatin is not just wen u sleep with another girl or guy.

but she knws I dont cheat on her. she's just insecure to the highest.

Dats how some ladies act. I believe she will come back to her real self but only to discover she ve LOST THE MOON WHILE COUNTING THE STARS...

But if you know you still love her, just distant yourself from her for a while.

From your post is obvious she didn't love you as much as you love her. Is more of being scared of loneliness and also getting the benefit of being in a relationship

Now she prolly found a new guy and don't want to come out and say it, 'cos that will make her the bad guy. So she quickly thought of how to remove the blame/guilt from her and turn it to you.

Just know that moving on is HARD, fuqin HARD but it start by deleting her number/ removing her from FB and clearing anything that will remind you of her, and with time you'll be able to forget about her.

PS: If what she have with the new guy didn't work out she might come back crying. Don't take her back

happyjuliet:
bro DAT is it, wen u show him or her DAT u truly love dem, dey tend to take u for granted, u should have seen d handwriting on d wall ever since u guys have started going out, from my own point of view she does not love u oooo she only likes u. The gud guys keeps meeting d bad girls, y d gud girls keeps meeting d bad guys, May God have mercy upon us in dis our generation.

amen to that... I tire sef

She got work at nnpc and you still asking what happened. you know what happened but do not want to accept it. money and class happened.

BlueScholar:
From your post is obvious she didn't love you as much as you love her. Is more of being scared of loneliness and also getting the benefit of being in a relationship

Now she prolly found a new guy and don't want to come out and say it, 'cos that will make her the bad guy. So she quickly thought of how to remove the blame/guilt from her and turn it to you.

Just know that moving on is HARD, fuqin HARD but it start by deleting her number/ removing her from FB and clearing anything that will remind you of her, and with time you'll be able to forget about her.

PS: If what she have with the new guy didn't work out she might come back crying. Don't take her back

lol...she went as far as blockin me on fb, IG, whatsapp. anyway I stopped calling the day she sent me the sms and deleted her number.

she breaks up with ne anytime we aint close and anytime she goes to abuja to be with her sis.

thats crazy! !!

Maga don pay...............

jmichlins:
She got work at nnpc and you still asking what happened. you know what happened but do not want to accept it. money and class happened.

what more can I say......