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delectablegyal:



What if children comes in? Will they separate children too? They should tackle this issue before going into marriage.




@op, If you don't marry this lady in question, what will happen to you? U r making it seem like it's a must that you marry her.

Lol This week the whole family goes to winners,next week the other church and they keep alternating so they'll be no problem nw.They are both Pentecostal churches so they are quite similar

Rone16:
21st century abeg.Agree that you'll alternate like this Sunday,you guys will attend yours and next Sunday,hers.Its a win-win

So u are a xtain? No wonder u are running away from dicks. Smh

irunooboo:



So u are a xtain? No wonder u are running away from dicks. Smh

I'm just giving advice to somebody nw.

EggovinMma:


Dearest, they are confused na.Both of them!
No be the same God dem dey worship for the two church?

Lol...they will sort themselves. But remember no more Ogogoro for 2016 oooh

Eyop:


Lol...they will sort themselves. But remember no more Ogogoro for 2016 oooh

So now you want to stop me from taking wine?

EggovinMma:



So now you want to stop me from taking wine?

Baby that's not what i am saying. You can take Brandy, Whiskey, Red wine, white wine, Beer(not larger but Stout), Champagne but all in moderation. Leave Ogogoro matter alone because that one too dey concentrated.

Eyop:


Baby that's not what i am saying. You can take Brandy, Whiskey, Red wine, white wine, Beer(not larger but Stout), Champagne but all in moderation. Leave Ogogoro matter alone because that one too dey concentrated.

When i say "ogogoro" on nl, , what brand comes to your mind?

EggovinMma:




When i say "ogogoro" on nl, , what brand comes to your mind?

Eyop:

Oh dear! I don't take that at all. What I refer to ogogoro is whisky brandy and foreign thinks of 40%+ volume of Alchohol. I don't take local mix at all.

Eyop:

Oh dear! I don't take that at all. What I refer to ogogoro is whisky brandy and foreign drinks of 40%+ volume of Alchohol. I don't take local mix at all.

forexbinary:
Religion can be a very big challenge when not properly understood. Which GOD does the Church of Christ worship and which GOD does Winners Chapel pray to?

I think it is high time we stepped out of the boundaries of our religions and step into the reality of the existence of GOD. Some people are for Apollos, others for Peter and some for Paul, is Christ divided?

I am a catholic to the core, but I have books and tapes from Oyedepo, Benson Idahosa, Johnson Suleiman, Fr. Mbaka etc. And each day I grow in grace and anointing.

So what am I saying, you guys need to understand that GOD is the same, working through different men of GOD according to their gifts and ministries. Agree on the church both of you will be attending, whether Winners of Church of Christ.

If you cannot agree on a simple thing matter as this, then perhaps you are not meant for each other. I will not advise you to attend separate churches, because a family that prays together lives together.

#Peace...

In other news, if not for the poster above me, I would have been FTC . Others are buying gifts for their loved ones on this boxing day, he is buying space on NL .

#somepeoplesef

You don't understand.

COC is a VERY conservative church.

Almost akin to Jehovah's Witnesses, but with more sense.

They kinda believe everyone else is joking.

okomogo:

My dad is an evangelist in my church, how will that sound if you were my shoes

so if u were to travel abroad or relocate sme where else, u'll kom bk every sat to attend d church because your father is an evangelist.
people n their ways of thinking

#Dear God pls shield my brain 4rm dz canker worm

EggovinMma:


Oh dear! I don't take that at all. What I refer to ogogoro is whisky brandy and foreign drinks of 40%+ volume of Alchohol. I don't take local mix at all.

Okay, well each time you mention Ogogoro,i thought it was the local Gin. The refined Ogogoro is Vodka. Brandy and whisky are both mild.

okomogo:
My name is Kingsley, I ve been dating my girlfriend for about 5 years now, last year we got engaged hoping to tie the knot but things didn't go as planned. We attend different church and I have made it known to her ever since that after marriage she will be worshiping with me in my church. I'm a member of the church of christ while she attends winners chapel. We have been okay until recently I told her I want to start the marriage arrangements again and she started saying she can't go to my church after we marry,, that her mum adviced her to speak with me about it,,I kept my stand but she said if we can't reach an agreement on that then we should call it off. I want my family to be United in all fronts from religion to culture. Now I'm confused, should I allow her to attend her church after marriage knowing it might affect my children? Please your advice is needed.

heard in ur church u guys dnt pay tithe?

Oliviaarims:
If u can't agree on an issue such as this, then perhaps both of u aren't very compatible. It means u may also not agree on other very important issues after marriage.


Sb's got to compromise. If she doesn't want to give in, then perhaps u should. I favour same church, though. I feel it makes the family more united.

I attend Living Faith Church aka Winners' Chapel. Was born into a Winners family, as a matter of fact. But my bf is a Catholic.. and a staunch one at that. He's said it time and again that he's always going to be a Catholic. I've thought about how things would be in the long run should we get married, and I know already that should he still insist on remaining a Catholic, then I may just become one too. I want a happy and United family and having a singular place of worship is one thing I believe will enhance it.


Doesn't make much sense for a husband to be attending one church... and then the wife attends another... Then the kids will start choosing sides.

My exact reason, initially she agreed to the plan but just started this drama recently. I even had to compromise by telling her we can switch churches just to make things balance but she refused, her only point is for me to change to winners and seriously that I can not do. I m supposed to be the head of the family not the other way round.

You guys are both pentecostals so i don't think that should be an issue, besides that issue arises btw pple that attend orthodox and pentecostal churches.. Iz either one follows the other to his church or u guys simply go ur different way, I don't really like the idea of parents attending different churches that usually affects the children.

okomogo:

My exact reason, initially she agreed to the plan but just started this drama recently. I even had to compromise by telling her we can switch churches just to make things balance but she refused, her only point is for me to change to winners and seriously that I can not do. I m supposed to be the head of the family not the other way round.

Hmm. I believe u know what's best to do.