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Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by danidee10(m): 11:31am On Dec 27, 2015 |
we all know the bible dosen't support it....no mater how you try to twist and turn it the bible says no....but i believe it's necessary, even if it's once... cuz there was a story here on nairaland where a good christian woman got married to a pastor....there was no tospi or testing testing before marriage...and she did not know the man was impotent he kept hiding it from her for several years...until she had to vex and attempt to rape him , it was then that he confessed that the kondo olopa was not even working before marriage....by then the woman don old already and she was even having mental problems already so the big question, if i can ask God is HOW WAS THE WOMAN SUPPOSED TO KNOW IF SHE NO TEST EHNNN Imagine pastor o.... 1 Like |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by UEDIBO: 11:32am On Dec 27, 2015 |
WE ARE IN THE MODERN AGE. SEX IS A NATURALLY THING. I HAVE TESTED IT BEFORE. AM STILL TESTING OTHER GIRLS. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by joseph1832(m): 11:33am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Yes seriously. |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by danidee10(m): 11:33am On Dec 27, 2015 |
UEDIBO: Na lie....No you're flexing not testing anything there is a difference....abi you wan marry all the girls wey u straff |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:34am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Kayendy:try what out? Have you not read of situations whereby the so called initial "sexual chemistry" diminishes immediately after marriage and/or childbirth? What do you do? Cheat? Divorce? If you trust God so much, he will perfect all that concerns you. Also, being open to solutions together as a couple helps. 80% of sexual issues av solutions! It takes real love, trust and patience to help a spouse through rough times and challenges. Pre-marital sex is no guarantee of a great sex life. If it is then divorce rate won't be this high. God is taking us back to the first principle where we have no choice but to trust him and not our feelings nor chemistry. #selah 9 Likes |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by tosyne2much(m): 11:36am On Dec 27, 2015 |
joseph1832:Bro, I don't know the religion you are talking about. Even our customary and native law don't even support it. (Though tables have been turned in recent time) I stand to be corrected anyway |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by elantraceey(f): 11:36am On Dec 27, 2015 |
cold: Stop giving yourself excuses, I totally believe God is not an author of confusion, If you truly follow him, he won't lead you to an unhappy marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by refiner(f): 11:38am On Dec 27, 2015 |
hope u guys re taking note...... so no more *come to my house bae*.... 1 Like |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:no I don't! You sure have been used to your silly dogma and don't know there is something called "fallacy of hasty generalization" Us All? What does that mean to you? Shior! So it's someone like u that can open ur filth-filled mouth to question one's comprehension ability? #EndTime. Lol |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Nicepoker(m): 11:39am On Dec 27, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:but the victim should not complain of misfiring and frequent troubleshooting after. |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by joseph1832(m): 11:40am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:I never expected you to. Our native and customary laws are old and archaic, all the more reason why they should be thrown into the bush. |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by jubijoos: 11:40am On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by banio: 11:40am On Dec 27, 2015 |
cold: If Your partner never knew his dicck was abnormal then U are in for a long court battle, b4 your divorce will be signed |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by kaziblake(f): 11:41am On Dec 27, 2015 |
It's even written in the bible that premarital sex is a sin before God,but youth of nowadays only God can save us |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by ajuwarhodes(f): 11:43am On Dec 27, 2015 |
obejoseph10: Why were u banned? |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Kingsley10000: 11:45am On Dec 27, 2015 |
he who has not sinned should cast the first stone 2 Likes |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by joseph1832(m): 11:45am On Dec 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:So you're saying those christians who are in an unhappy marriage don't truly follow God? |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by banio: 11:46am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Human beings turning into God. pre-marital sex is not good because of the negatives it brings that could send U to jail or ruin your life. Aside that God blesses children from pre-marital sex equally wit Children from wedded homes. So I think God is indifferent about it when both parties are of age. Na Human beings de form GOD. Giving us laws and laws, saying it's from GOD 1 Like |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by tosyne2much(m): 11:46am On Dec 27, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:Can you see how re.tarded you are ? I always surround myself with intelligent people who engage in intellectual arguments, not a fool like you who will resort to insults Do you even know the meaning of "hasty generalization" at all ? So you expected me to say "may God help them all".. How does that sound to you ? Oooh I should exclude myself just to look decent before everyone ryt? You no get sense at all As I have said earlier, there's no point arguing with a dumb skull like you 2 Likes |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by agent9(m): 11:46am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Ok.... U try |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by God2man(m): 11:47am On Dec 27, 2015 |
If you are not sure of the fertility go for a test and confirm it. Premarital sex is still a sin. You can loose the most important in life by engaging in premarital sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by cold(m): 11:49am On Dec 27, 2015 |
elantraceey:Please stop living in denial. These things happen everyday. It is happening as i am typing this. Just pay a visit to the family section and get an idea of how many 'god fearing' marriages have hit the rocks or about to due to a number of factors,chief of which is sexual incompatibility. Are you saying those couples did not love God enough thus,ended in an unhappy marriage? I do not dwell in the utopian world of idealism but in the realistic world of harsh truths. Besides,are you suggesting that such people as pictured in the image are made for some people and not for others? Is it not the same God that is not an author of confusion that created him? I can't fathom why you folks keep making excuses for god. It must be exhausting. |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 27, 2015 |
ajuwarhodes:. Because I talked abt someone whom I added through nairaland but discovered dat he was gay, d person wars disturbing me, said he wanna meet me, I mentioned d person's name here then I got banned |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by ubongshine120: 11:49am On Dec 27, 2015 |
To me, motive matters a lot. Having sex is an outward thing. The motive why you do the sex is what is recorded against you or for you. Everything is pure in God's creation but it depends on who handles it at any point in time. If the person is pure then whatever he handles is pure no matter how bad it seems in our physical eyes. But if the person is impure then whatever he handles is impure no matter how holy it seems. And, to be pure does not mean the strict keeping of and adherence to the written codes of the scriptures, rather it means a constant purification of one's motives and heart. Let's not be too righteous nor too wicked for a wise man avoids both extremes. 1 Like |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Revolva(m): 11:51am On Dec 27, 2015 |
All na lamba.......enjoy ur sex test ur skills oooo cos anyone wey de wai for virgin de disturb he self.....forget dat old story book called bible |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:53am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:you are sillier than I thought! Lmaoo. Surround yourself with animals.. Who cares? Apparently, you still don't get the point and you just may not get it. So much for surrounding yourself with whatever you claim. *sigh I now understand better why at your best, all you can come up with are "what girls to to find boys", " fine girls, fine boys".. lmaoo . Intelligence is not commonplace afteral 2 Likes
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Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Nobody: 11:53am On Dec 27, 2015 |
You are there feeling Holier than others because you abstain from Pre-marital sex but you dey Kiss...you dey press all the pressables... you Hump and Romance...You even suck oranges or Banana... The Thunder wey go fire you stll dey charge! 2 Likes |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by oglalasioux(m): 11:55am On Dec 27, 2015 |
winner01:Basing your points on the bible is erroneous. A book compiled hundreds of years ago cannot be used to judge what obtains in today's world. Are you saying a brother or a sister who is at the peak of his or her biological process of sex should abstain from it if no one is interested in marriage with them? What our society is supposed to preach is having and maintaining one sexual partner strictly for health purposes and population growth control. Enough of making everyone panicky over marriage and having children. We'll only end up worsening exponential population growth and continuous dwindling resources to take care of them. |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Kingsley10000: 11:56am On Dec 27, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:this one you are portraying yourself as a saint by all this your disapprobation ,hope you've not had pre marital sex before |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by tosyne2much(m): 11:57am On Dec 27, 2015 |
MsGlobalwonder:Whether I come up with what girls do to boys or what boys do to girl, it should be the least of your problems Woo I no like to dey bash people jawe. It's not my thing. I just dey return from church Happy Sunday |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 11:59am On Dec 27, 2015 |
tosyne2much:same to you boo. You insulted me first even when I made an innocent comment. I don't let such slide. Compliments of the season too. 1 Like |
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by ajuwarhodes(f): 12:00pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
obejoseph10: That's not enough reason to ban a member Na. Na wa o. |
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