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The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
Most times when a girl decide to remain a
virgin till she gets married,its usually out of
indoctrination, or in some rare cases lack of
exposure/opportunity. Girls, especially in this part of
the world are told to
remain virgins till she gets married, so that her husband would appreciate her and put a lot of value
on her. How true is this? Well, if I should discover that
my wife is a Virgin on
our honey moon,I would be impressed that she was
able to hold herself,that shows that she is disciplined.
It also gives me some sense of pride that I am the “first” On the other hand……. I will feel a bit
worried. s*x is the number one factor that determines
the
success of a marriage. A virgin would have one or
more issues relating to
s*x. There are two categories of virgin(female) 1) Those that self-service.
2) Those that don’t self-service. A virgin that self-
service would be selfish on bed. She
would feel she can satisfy herself and probably
doesn’t require her husband for sexual fulfilment. Its
their kind that would be faking orgasm in bed. They are usually the feminists. A virgin that don’t self-
service would be a s*x
maniac after marriage. Especially if her husband is
really experienced on bed. All the urges she has failed
to satisfy while in her youth would be burdened on
her husband. Its their kind that won’t get satisfied after 6 rounds You see. Both kinds of virgin would
pose some
problems to their husband after marriage. Imagine if
your wife can’t be satisfied from your
joystick, check closely she was/is probably a
masturbator while in her youth. Worse of all when she fakes orgasm. Problems would start emerging.
Imagine if your wife has more libido than you do, after
all the hectic pounding and pounding,she starts
moving her hands over you while you resting and
then you start feeling insufficient. This is my opinion.
*dodges bottles from virgins*
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by krak101(m): 1:05pm On Dec 27, 2015
Hmm
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by jaymejate: 1:08pm On Dec 27, 2015
[size=15pt]Wait pls, Are you now telling us to go and marry a BOREHOLE, whereby it would be like putting a broom stick into a well? If you think, marrying a Virgin ain't good enough, try a BOREHOLE, then tell us how she will be satisfied even after a million round. Then you will end up losing her to the outside men [/size]

Think right pls, God bless
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by braine(m): 1:11pm On Dec 27, 2015
Op, I agree with you, 80%
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by VampireeM(f): 1:21pm On Dec 27, 2015
The Most Myopic Nonsense Write-up ever... undecided
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by boboLIL(m): 1:58pm On Dec 27, 2015
C'mon sharap no disadvantage.... That u are a bitchhh doesn't mean anybody will be... Stop encouraging pre-martial sex...
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by ogawisdom(m): 2:02pm On Dec 27, 2015
Yawns

I will still choose a virgin ie tear rubber over a tokunbo or second hand or third hand babe angry

I can still manage first grade tokunbo babe in d absence of virgin sha
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by MzDeeb(f):
Hmmm. I weep for this generation of ours.

Why can't we learn from the older generation. To the best of my knowledge, virginity was a pride of a lady and that of her family back then.

Infact, a feast is usually held upon confirmation from the husband that his bride was a virgin.

Nowadays, what we see is pple discouraging girls from keeping their virginity.

Now you are emphasizing on the fact that the couples might have different sexual preference in marriage. Babe, how that one take concern you.

It's left for them to know how to handle that if it does happen.

Are you trying to say that girls should keep sampling guys before marriage till they get to the one they have the same sexual preference? Marriage is not all bou s3x babe

I still do not want to believe that there re virgins out there that does self service. If its true. Then its not cool at all.


Stop misleading young girls.

My advice to young girls and boys is to keep their virginity and endeavour to have a good character, it will help them in their marital life. Always pray to God and don't be friends with bad pple.

Don't destroy ur destiny cos of 5mins pleasure. Ask pple going to MFM to gist you, and you will see reasons to avoid pre marital s3x.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 27, 2015
This is one of the silliest contributions I have read on NL.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Fraih(f): 3:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
MzDeeb, God bless you!
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Vikky014(f): 4:14pm On Dec 27, 2015
MzDeeb:
Hmmm. I weep for this generation of ours.

Why can't we learn from the older generation. To the best of my knowledge, virginity was a pride of a lady and that of her family back then.

Infact, a feast is usually held upon confirmation from the husband that his bride was a virgin.

Nowadays, what we see is pple discouraging girls from keeping their virginity.

Now you are emphasizing on the fact that the couples might have different sexual preference in marriage. Bros, how that one take concern you.

It's left for them to know how to handle that if it does happen.

Are you trying to say that girls should keep sampling guys before marriage till they get to the one they have the same sexual preference? Marriage is not all bou s3x bro.

I still do not want to believe that there re virgins out there that does self service. If its true. Then its not cool at all.


Stop misleading young girls.

My advice to young girls and boys is to keep their virginity and endeavour to have a good character, it will help them in their marital life. Always pray to God and don't be friends with bad pple.

Don't destroy ur destiny cos of 5mins pleasure. Ask pple going to MFM to gist you, and you will see reasons to avoid pre marital s3x.
i was about writing a very long post bt decided to read comments. Thanks for dis

my question to op is dis. the married woman that was caught by her hubby self servicing in one thread like dt was she a virginhuh i wunt b surprise dt u self service yet u r claiming most virgins do.. my last advice for u is dt u shld live ur life d way u want and leave odas to live theirs. i hv never seen a virgin opening threads to advice non virgins to stop having sex... whether na lack of opportunity or not Just let them be . u dt hv opportunity shld enjoy ur opportunity. Thanks
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by MzDeeb(f): 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2015
Fraih:
MzDeeb, God bless you!
Thanks.. God bless you too.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by MzDeeb(f): 4:21pm On Dec 27, 2015
Vikky014:
i was about writing a very long post bt decided to read comments. Thanks for dis

my question to op is dis. the married woman that was caught by her hubby self servicing in one thread like dt was she a virginhuh i wunt b surprise dt u self service yet u r claiming most virgins do.. my last advice for u is dt u shld live ur life d way u want and leave odas to live theirs. i hv never seen a virgin opening threads to advice non virgins to stop having sex... whether na lack of opportunity or not Just let them be . u dt hv opportunity shld enjoy ur opportunity. Thanks
As in ehn. Its so true. I haven't seen a thread by a virgin imposing abstinence on pple.

I think they are just being bitter that they have lost their's. Hence, looking for ways to bring pple into their shoes.

Well, its not their fault though. It's the devil trying one of his manipulating techniques to destroy the children of God. John10:10
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Vikky014(f): 4:25pm On Dec 27, 2015
MzDeeb:
As in ehn. Its so true. I haven't seen a thread by a virgin imposing abstinence on pple.

I think they are just being bitter that they have lost their's. Hence, looking for ways to bring pple into their shoes.

Well, its not their fault though. It's the devil trying one of his manipulating techniques to destroy the children of God. John10:10
U r very right. God bless u mydear
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by yinkuscious(m): 6:14pm On Dec 27, 2015
Op is such a misleading agent.. Tell this to ur sisters and relatives. Shame!!!!
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by iupac120: 7:37pm On Dec 27, 2015
yinkuscious:
Op is such a misleading agent.. Tell this to ur sisters and relatives. Shame!!!!
op shame on you! A failed agent of darkness.

If you have lost ur pride, Just ask forgive from God through Jesus Christ.

Virginity is a pride that every woman should have. I do pray for one and so shall it be.

Bravo! bravo!! bravo!!!
To all the virgins in nairaland
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Moana(f): 7:46pm On Dec 27, 2015
jaymejate:
[size=15pt]Wait pls, Are you now telling us to go and marry a BOREHOLE, whereby it would be like putting a broom stick into a well? If you think, marrying a Virgin ain't good enough, try a BOREHOLE, then tell us how she will be satisfied even after a million round. Then you will end up losing her to the outside men [/size]

Think right pls, God bless
you shouldnt blame any woman when all you have is a pr*ck as thin as a broomstick, rather go for penis enlargement than blame your iniquities on women grin
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
MzDeeb:
Hmmm. I weep for this generation of ours.

Why can't we learn from the older generation. To the best of my knowledge, virginity was a pride of a lady and that of her family back then.

Infact, a feast is usually held upon confirmation from the husband that his bride was a virgin.

Nowadays, what we see is pple discouraging girls from keeping their virginity.

Now you are emphasizing on the fact that the couples might have different sexual preference in marriage. Babe, how that one take concern you.

It's left for them to know how to handle that if it does happen.

Are you trying to say that girls should keep sampling guys before marriage till they get to the one they have the same sexual preference? Marriage is not all bou s3x babe

I still do not want to believe that there re virgins out there that does self service. If its true. Then its not cool at all.


Stop misleading young girls.

My advice to young girls and boys is to keep their virginity and endeavour to have a good character, it will help them in their marital life. Always pray to God and don't be friends with bad pple.

Don't destroy ur destiny cos of 5mins pleasure. Ask pple going to MFM to gist you, and you will see reasons to avoid pre marital s3x.
Always remember:

SIN SEEKS COMPANY.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by jmoore(m): 8:15pm On Dec 27, 2015
Re: The Disadvantages Of Marrying A Virgin by MsFaith: 8:34pm On Dec 27, 2015
Op is obviously not a virgin
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