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@ajuwarhodes, I am short of words. The situation is a catch 22, because if you reciprocate his gesture (that is, you curse him out too and insults his family ) I can bet all hell will break lose. He can either physically assault you or even end the relationship. People like that hate confrontation. That is they can maltreat others, but cannot take if they are being maltreated.At the same time you can not continue absorbing the verbal abuse, it's not good for your emotional health . There's a limitation to human endurance. Does he have a good friend or an elder(mum, dad, uncle, aunt, older siblings ) in his family whom he respects and that you are also sure the person likes you. With your current condition, mental abuse is the last thing you need now. You are in my prayers and I pray God intervenes.

Congrats @Evacroft happy bumping, stress free 9months and others belleful mamas.

Pls who knows where HSG can be done in Portharcourt.

amfertile:
@ all pls does duphaston induce period.also can one with pcos take primolute to induce period,i need your answers lovly sis am so comfused nown.

Yes sis. You can use primolut. My doc usually prescribes one morning, one evening for 5 days. Period comes after two days. Or you can use progestin injection, once dose and period comes from 2 days.

ajuwarhodes:
Haba! I have done everything every one said here,to telling him my mind when his calm,to reporting to his family, to mine,to church.what else do I do?u know if one takes shit for so long one day u won't take it anymore.am I the only one who shld or must make the marriage work? It takes two.the only man that can be kept, is the man that wants to be kept.each time he prays,can't he pray for himself to adjust? The day he starts praying for himself, that day he will start changing.I don't want to bring up my child in an environment like that, so I told his family
Today.and when I said am no more interested Becos of his curses and emotional torture ,he called his family,one after the other,hello ajuwa is carrying my baby o,but we are separating.a man who needs his home wont do that.does that mean he can't change? Yea that's what it means

I didn't read this post before posting my message to you. I may sound crazy to some people on this forum, but I think you have done the right thing by telling him off. I also think threatening him with a divorce will will make him realize you a not a woman whom he can treat like thrash at the slightest provocation. Good you stand your ground this time around. However,please my sister don't go through with the divorce threat. I guess he will realize his wrong doing now and might not try such with you again. I am glad you stand up to him. Gone are the days when women are only to be seen and not heard. There's a place for prayers and there are times for action.

Merry Christmas everyone.
A lot has happened here but I pray that as God's word has said, nothing shall fail of the promises God has for us.
May the prayers on this platform be acceptable.
Let us walk in the light of our confidence in Christ Jesus.

@ajuwarhodes, may the Lord direct your steps at this time and perfect all that concerns you.

Hypraise:
You are Jehovah our maker, we praise Your holy Name. There is no one like You. And forever You are Lord.

Heavenly Father we thank You for the precious lives of your children listed below. We ask for your great and tender mercies upon them. Forgive all their sins, break every yoke, curses and chains that hold them bound and free them from evil inheritances by your mercies o God in Jesus Christ Name. Amen.

Blood of Jesus speak mercies today. Amen.

A big congrats evacroft. It's the Lord's doing and it's so marvelous in our sight. You shall carry to term in health and deliver like the Hebrew women. Amen.

Ajuwahordes, mumihaja and other mamas have said it all. May the Lord see you through.

Thank you Father for the last Sunday of 2015.

Sundays - starting from 27th Dec. 2015
51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile

Amen in Jesus mighty name

prettmum:
woah we are cyle buddy, dont this is our last af.
I'm happy cause only the living can ATC
Merry Xmas to all ATC
As for me my TWINS will celebrate xmas next year with me and my lovely husband

I am your cycle buddy as well, I pray dis ll be our last Af till we welcome our twins in 9 months time.
Wishing everyone of us a merry Christmas and happy new year in advance

BlessedDiva:
Friday- starting from 25th Dec, 2015
1. tsquaure
2 sanrima
3 mumihaja
4 Amhappy
5 Mummyejire
6 chigirl45
7 pweetymii
8 Fumbaby
9 Lynsunny
10 iomoge2
11 4realwoman
12 Melsmum
13 CravingChic
14 Tenderchic
15 MummyEsther
16 Pweetiebabe
17 amfertile
18 mumjk
19 happymummy
20 Serefunmee
21 Mandydaisy
22 rainyday
23 Mowojuoluwa
24 zenoj
25 RipVanWink


Saturdays - starting from 26th Dec. 2015
26 mompurity2
27 mrsfrank
28 JummaiTWINS
29 uche13
30 Zuriela
31 fruitfulwoman
32 Ejaisky
33 Ladiva
34 Sammiejo
35 Teal
36 ekeminiabasi
37 fruitfulvine360
38 Dammol
39 Ademide02
40 Drdreluv
41 favoredgal
42 olubankemi
43 Eumaca
44 udoomama
45 lily19
46 miraclebaby
47 anikeayun
48 cionon
49 Alwaystrue
50 FOTMAG

Sundays - starting from 27th Dec. 2015
51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft. 
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile
Father Lord, I come humbly come before your throne of grace and mercy to worship and glorify you for our Lives, divine preservation and divine protection.
Thank you Father for I'm sure you have made us all complete in you, thank you for these your children listed here cos we know you have opened the book of remembrance to favour and reward them, do that which no man can do. Thank you Daddy for granting them their desire of singletons, twins, triplets e.t.c and for making our joy to be full this season. Receive our prayers and praises in Jesus matchless name I pray - Amen!

@Evacroft congrats dear, u shall carry this miracle to full term without stress and deliver safely as Hebrew women
@Ajuwarhodes pls don't get tired of praying for ur dh, just like @mumihaja posted we are made to be under them and they are to love us, it's the woman, the helpmate that keeps d home not the man dearie, so dont give up praying, decree and believe in your heart and it shall come to pass and your home will be filled with d love you so cherish cos Jesus hates divorce so it's not an option here as a child of God. Take care of yourself and lo (very important)! It will Definitely end in praise for you

Compliments of the season 2016 mamas/papas, I have been so busy with the trad and church wedding prep of 2 of my cousins on 26th, 28th and 29th but I always visit here to pray with the monikers every night b4 I sleep and I believe that the All sufficient God will do the miraculous, give us all new status/names as He changes our stories to praises in 2016 in Jesus name, Amen

God bless us all real good!

Amen in the mighty name of Jesus.

mumsoon:
@ajuwarhodes, I am short of words. The situation is a catch 22, because if you reciprocate his gesture (that is, you curse him out too and insults his family ) I can bet all hell will break lose. He can either physically assault you or even end the relationship. People like that hate confrontation. That is they can maltreat others, but cannot take if they are being maltreated.At the same time you can not continue absorbing the verbal abuse, it's not good for your emotional health . There's a limitation to human endurance. Does he have a good friend or an elder(mum, dad, uncle, aunt, older siblings ) in his family whom he respects and that you are also sure the person likes you. With your current condition, mental abuse is the last thing you need now. You are in my prayers and I pray God intervenes.

Thank u very much,irony is when he says sorry (just once) and I say abeg free me,something u will soon repeat,he starts all over again, saying I have begged u,what else do u want? Shld I cut my neck,if I have girl friend, I have no ni yen.
Yes I have reported him to his family.
U know if he feels sobber for what he has done,he may likely not repeat it.but once he does not feel remorse he does it again.he doesn't go to any extent to apologize. As if we didn't date at all before we got married.this was my first love and we got married 14 yrs later! Anyways...
Thanks though

51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile

Mercy oh Lord Mercy oh Lord
We asking you for mercy
Mercy oh Lord
We are asking for mercy
Mercy oh Lord.
We ask you this for all our mamas thaat are on this list and prayed that you have answered our prayers through Christ our Lord Amen.

mumsoon:
I didn't read this post before posting my message to you. I may sound crazy to some people on this forum, but I think you have done the right thing by telling him off. I also think threatening him with a divorce will will make him realize you a not a woman whom he can treat like thrash at the slightest provocation. Good you stand your ground this time around. However,please my sister don't go through with the divorce threat. I guess he will realize his wrong doing now and might not try such with you again. I am glad you stand up to him. Gone are the days when women are only to be seen and not heard. There's a place for prayers and there are times for action.

Thanks sis...I appreciate.
Prayers? Have been doing that since 2011,its time I get practical,lol

amfertile:
@ all pls does duphaston induce period.also can one with pcos take primolute to induce period,i need your answers lovly sis am so comfused nown.

duphaston keeps period away, it's a firm of progesterone, while primolut N induces AF

amfertile:
@ all pls does duphaston induce period.also can one with pcos take primolute to induce period,i need your answers lovly sis am so comfused nown.

duphaston keeps period away, it's a form of progesterone, while primolut N induces AF

You don't sound crazy at all, there is really a limit to what one can take abeg.

mumsoon:
I didn't read this post before posting my message to you. I may sound crazy to some people on this forum, but I think you have done the right thing by telling him off. I also think threatening him with a divorce will will make him realize you a not a woman whom he can treat like thrash at the slightest provocation. Good you stand your ground this time around. However,please my sister don't go through with the divorce threat. I guess he will realize his wrong doing now and might not try such with you again. I am glad you stand up to him. Gone are the days when women are only to be seen and not heard. There's a place for prayers and there are times for action.

Good morning my blessed mamas. It's been a while here. I keep praying for everyone of us though.
I have a question !!
Has anyone used the clear blue ovulation test kit?
Did it work?
This is my second month of using it and I have not detected anything.
It's to expensive for me not to get result.
Please share your experience if you have any.
Thank you fruitful mamas.

lolarde:
Good morning my blessed mamas. It's been a while here. I keep praying for everyone of us though.
I have a question !!
Has anyone used the clear blue ovulation test kit?
Did it work?
This is my second month of using it and I have not detected anything.
It's to expensive for me not to get result.
Please share your experience if you have any.
Thank you fruitful mamas.

I have . It works lovely. Thou I used the one with the smiley face so its muumu friendly sef. I no need to think, reason, squint, analyse.
From day what did u use it? Do an experiment. Buy d cheap ones and start from day 9. When it starts getting darker u now chanhe too clearblue

Good morning beautiful mamas and compliments of the season to you all.
@ all that makes out time to repost the names for daily prayers God bless you.
@ all that remembers to drop prayers here God bless you and amen to your prayers.
@ all that prays in secret and their own pace and time, amen to your prayers.
May God have mercy on us all and grant us bfps, grace for healthy and hearty nine months and the favour of birthing our LOs alive. Amen.

lolarde:
Good morning my blessed mamas. It's been a while here. I keep praying for everyone of us though.
I have a question !!
Has anyone used the clear blue ovulation test kit?
Did it work?
This is my second month of using it and I have not detected anything.
It's to expensive for me not to get result.
Please share your experience if you have any.
Thank you fruitful mamas.

Yes it works.

[quote author=BlessedDiva post=41384052]Friday- starting from 25th Dec, 2015
1. tsquaure
2 sanrima
3 mumihaja
4 Amhappy
5 Mummyejire
6 chigirl45
7 pweetymii
8 Fumbaby
9 Lynsunny
10 iomoge2
11 4realwoman
12 Melsmum
13 CravingChic
14 Tenderchic
15 MummyEsther
16 Pweetiebabe
17 amfertile
18 mumjk
19 happymummy
20 Serefunmee
21 Mandydaisy
22 rainyday
23 Mowojuoluwa
24 zenoj
25 RipVanWink


Saturdays - starting from 26th Dec. 2015
26 mompurity2
27 mrsfrank
28 JummaiTWINS
29 uche13
30 Zuriela
31 fruitfulwoman
32 Ejaisky
33 Ladiva
34 Sammiejo
35 Teal
36 ekeminiabasi
37 fruitfulvine360
38 Dammol
39 Ademide02
40 Drdreluv
41 favoredgal
42 olubankemi
43 Eumaca
44 udoomama
45 lily19
46 miraclebaby
47 anikeayun
48 cionon
49 Alwaystrue
50 FOTMAG

Sundays - starting from 27th Dec. 2015
51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft. 
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile

Lord to you alone be all the glory. Thank you for your love over our lives, we worship you lord. Father we ask that you forgive us our sins and let your mercy prevail over judgement in our lives. Father on behalf of all the mothers and father's on this list I ask that you show mercy and take away their reproach and make them to know the joy of motherhood and fatherhood, break all protocols on their behalf and make the impossible to become possible that people may come to your knowledge through them. Thank you lord for it is settle even as we agreed with our faith.

Saturdays - starting from 26th Dec. 2015
26 mompurity2
27 mrsfrank
28 JummaiTWINS
29 uche13
30Zuriela
31 fruitfulwoman
32 Ejaisky
33 Ladiva
34Sammiejo
35 Teal
36 ekeminiabasi
37 fruitfulvine360
38 Dammol
39 Ademide02
40 Drdreluv
41 favoredgal
42 olubankemi
43 Eumaca
44 udoomama
45 lily19
46 miraclebaby
47 anikeayun
48 cionon
49 Alwaystrue
50 FOTMAG
Sundays - starting from 27th Dec. 2015
51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft.
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile

Father , you are the same yesterday , today and forever. You changeth not and we believe your word is yeah and amen.
Father we thank you for how far you have brought us your children, where we are and where you are taking us.
Lord we thank you that in spite of the challenges of ttc, you did not let us loose our mind, life or husband.
Lord we declare that you are our God, our rock, our fotress, the One we run to in time of trouble.
Lord on behalf of your children whose names are above, I ask that You hear their cries, bless them with the fruit of the womb ijn. Those already pregnant give them them grace and strength to carry the pregnancy to full term ijn.
I speak your peace and love into every home represented on this thread ijn. Our husbands will love, cherish and take care of us in things that money can buy and other wise ijn.
Grant us the wisdom of the proverb 31 woman ijn.
Thank you for causing us to sing a new song and giving us a good report ijn amen.

I'm seriously very sad today.

A very close friend of mine has a 2 yr old daughter who's has not started sitting, standing, walking or talking. She and her hubby has spent so much on her, all to no avail. She still looks like a 6month old even though she's 2yrs old.

My friend got pregnant this year and at 7months she was admitted, which was 3days ago.

This morning, I got a call that she lost the baby.

We had thought and prayed that this pregnancy will console her and her hubby.

I pray for everyone of us, we will not cast our young in JESUS NAME

I've been crying and so downcast since I heard. This is a signal to us that when we get our long-awaited BFP, we should multiply our prayers and watchfulness.

May God by His Mercy answer all our prayers speedily and give us SUCCESSFUL PREGNANCIES in JESUS NAME.

TWO YEARS don waka we still dey carry go
Nobody waka nobody go soo low
BABA GOD O
Na your grace o
Adupe ooooo.

Ma swit e-sis today na my wedding anniversary wit dh,I have evrytin to be thankful for.if I say I shud count d blessings of God in my life d day will dark nd dawn will break again.

Yes TTC palaver is there but I knw its a hurdle dat I wil cross over Insha Allahu.
Some of ma friends dat we graduated together are dead,some are still single and searching I'm not castigating them but I'm using it to give glory to u O LORD.

Accept our prayers' on dis thread merciful God and by dis time nxt year we wil all come to give thanks to u and give our successful testimonies each.tanks for answering our prayers'.

NB..AF wey no get shame don dey threatened me since ystday but I no send am if e like make e show face jor.make e sha no come spoil ma outing today

@anikeayun, congratulations n HWA to you dear and God will grant you all your heart desires in Jesus name, Amen.

@ mummyEsther,
My sister please take heart and in all these still find time to thank God for your friend's life, May God console and comfort she and her family. It is well.

@ Anikeayun,
Congratulations to you and yours, wishing you more beautiful and sweeter years together. By this time next year you will be celebrating with your children iJn, amen.

Pls beautiful mamas am still asking oh, anyone that had overcome the issue of uterine synachea should please give a guide on how she did it.
A friend of mine is having this issue, said a retired nurse and fertility massager tried to open it through massaging but after all the pains it didn't work.
I know they do surgery but most times it doesn't work so that's why am asking for help from any mama that has done hers successfully.
Its so bad now that her af comes out really scanty and sometimes it doesn't come at all except when she induces it.
I believe this is the major challenge for her in ttc, Abeg my people make una help. Please

Friday- starting from 25th Dec, 2015
1. tsquaure
2 sanrima
3 mumihaja
4 Amhappy
5 Mummyejire
6 chigirl45
7 pweetymii
8 Fumbaby
9 Lynsunny
10 iomoge2
11 4realwoman
12 Melsmum
13 CravingChic
14 Tenderchic
15 MummyEsther
16 Pweetiebabe
17 amfertile
18 mumjk
19 happymummy
20 Serefunmee
21 Mandydaisy
22 rainyday
23 Mowojuoluwa
24 zenoj
25 RipVanWink


Saturdays - starting from 26th Dec. 2015
26 mompurity2
27 mrsfrank
28 JummaiTWINS
29 uche13
30 Zuriela
31 fruitfulwoman
32 Ejaisky
33 Ladiva
34 Sammiejo
35 Teal
36 ekeminiabasi
37 fruitfulvine360
38 Dammol
39 Ademide02
40 Drdreluv
41 favoredgal
42 olubankemi
43 Eumaca
44 udoomama
45 lily19
46 miraclebaby
47 anikeayun
48 cionon
49 Alwaystrue
50 FOTMAG

Sundays - starting from 27th Dec. 2015
51 omankem
52 peacefulwealth
53 FavourMSJ
54 beegurl
55 hotmomma
56 lilyspringamour
57 Precy22
58 waistbead
59 mumigrace
60 legendsmother
61 Janix2
62 stina4u
63 fruitfulvine360
64 chigirl45
65 Oleayo
66 Redeemed
67 Rute
68 Gsawlah
69 happymummy
70 Evacroft.
71 NoLuvLost
72 mumydidi
73 Omowunminow
74 Sammiejo
75 amfertile

Almighty God have mercy on everyone behind these monikers. Make them fruitful and give them the grace to bring forth. Healthy pregnancy and healthy children in Jesus name. I pray for love and peace in their various homes.

@mummyEsther pls be encouraged and try and stay strong for the sake of ur friend, who can question God he knows best, he will surely give them tripple for their trouble. @all a big Amen to all our prayers come 2016 we shall all be called father and mother of great children. And so shall it be

@mummyEsther pls be encouraged and try and stay strong for the sake of ur friend, who can question God he knows best, he will surely give them tripple for their trouble. @anikeayun congrat dear wish u both many beautiful yrs in plenty sound mind and plenty kids ijn@all a big Amen to all our prayers come 2016 we shall all be called father and mother of great children. And so shall it be

Good day fruitful momma's, compliments of the season. As we know 2015 has almost ended and we feel we have failed at conception. But let us look at it from another angle of what ifs.
What if we have successfully conceived and carried to term but loose our lives on the delivery table,
or loose the baby,
or mother and child are lost,
or mother and child are alive but dh dies,
or deliver the baby and go insane??

All these are devilish possibilities, but they do happen.
Any one of these will never be our portion.
Our own testimonies will be sanctified and whole right from the start.

We can say that many people find it easy without any hitch but we should know that God has a plan and purpose for everything we experience, it could be to prevent any of the aforementioned points or even worse.


We might experience delay be it for physiological or spiritual reasons but once God says it is over it's a done deal.
It all happens to prove that He is God.

So let us be patient because patience does not go unrewarded.

Big thanks to all mama's that have been preparing the list of names, prayer schedules and prayer points, God will reward you.

I pray and I'm sure 2016 is our year of HARVEST.

May the peace of the Lord never depart from us.

Amennnnnn Ameeeeeennnnnnnnn

sanrima:
Pls beautiful mamas am still asking oh, anyone that had overcome the issue of uterine synachea should please give a guide on how she did it.
A friend of mine is having this issue, said a retired nurse and fertility massager tried to open it through massaging but after all the pains it didn't work.
I know they do surgery but most times it doesn't work so that's why am asking for help from any mama that has done hers successfully.
Its so bad now that her af comes out really scanty and sometimes it doesn't come at all except when she induces it.
I believe this is the major challenge for her in ttc, Abeg my people make una help. Please

Its only hysterescopy/surgery I know about. With hormones for 2-3 months after

Amen.ooooooo , may God accept our prayers