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Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by winner01(op): 8:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
oglalasioux:
The scientists believed in a God far above your religious god. The God they believe in is not the god of vengeance. It's not the god that says one thing and do the opposite. It's not the god of murderers like Moses, Samuel, David and Solomon. It's not the god of a warped minded Muslim who bombs people and claim he was divinely directed. It's not the god of your pastor who gets fat with tithes and offerings buying private jets and choice properties while claiming your Jesus is almost here. The God of the scientists is the God that revealed Himself to great prophets like Copernicus, Galileo, Newton, Maxwell and Einstein. The God of the scientists is a God that knows that we on earth are our greatest enemies and that the sooner we throw away religious books and face reality the better for us.
You can call me a dog. It's allowed. But I wonder what difference it makes between us and animals if we can't manage ourselves. We always excuse our laziness and ignorance to the will of God. That's why the white man will always be above us. Pathetic.
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https://www.nairaland.com/2499498/quotes-famous-men-bible
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by H2Ossss(m): 9:00pm On Dec 27, 2015
hmmm.... God permitted solomon to have 700 wives and 300 concubines and was still blessed with wisdom above all men, David had so many wives but was still a man after Gods heart.... and small me will have sex be4 marriage and its now a sin?? haba mallam... habaar... cut me some slack naa. i dont knw if its right or wrong shaaa...
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by tosyne2much(m): 9:03pm On Dec 27, 2015
Superman11:
who is going back to English class naa ?
Na person make me vex jawe baba cheesy
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by H2Ossss(m): 9:20pm On Dec 27, 2015
do u honestly think that king david or king solomon waited till they got married? like seriously? anyway.. really dont want to blaspheme but my type of person never follows blindly... if they can marry so many wives and its not a sin... or keep concubines... y will it be a sin if i do? as long as i aint raping or taking anoda mans wife... the only situation its been recorded as a sin is when a married woman commits adultery... and Jesus still did not condemn her... so who re u to play God telling me its wrong?
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by oglalasioux(m): 9:27pm On Dec 27, 2015
winner01:
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https://www.nairaland.com/2499498/quotes-famous-men-bible
Great. I took time to go through the link. Very great people saying great things about the bible. But consider this particular verse from the same bible; 1 Samuel 15:2-3.
Thus says the Lord of hosts: ‘I will punish Amalek for what he did to Israel, how he ambushed him on the way when he came up from Egypt. Now go and attack Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and do not spare them. But kill both man and woman, infant and nursing child, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’”
What kind of a god instructs that? How can a book that supported genocide be called the best book? I could give you more evidence that murderers wrote the bible and it can never have been ordained by the God who created the universe.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Superman11(m): 9:38pm On Dec 27, 2015
tosyne2much:
Na person make me vex jawe baba cheesy
nairalanders sef dey carry person play one of these days I go flog person
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by DaisyII: 9:44pm On Dec 27, 2015
Like it or not,Premarital sex is a sin to humanity(i.e to d persons involved) and to God.

The very problem with Nigerians esp is tryin to import everytin frm d western world.The Nigeria our parents had was free to a large extent frm sexual immorality.Bt in our world today,the reverse is d case.As for dat poster dat 'said' there's nothing wrng in two consenting adults tryin to have fun.I hope u still rememba dat as a matter f fact,ppl of d same gender trying to have fun(homosexualism) are consenting adults.The level of moral decadence in our society is alarming!

Finally Psalm 14:1 'The FOOL hath saith in his heart that there is no God.They are corrupt,they have done abominable works,there is none that doeth Good'
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by winner01(op): 9:46pm On Dec 27, 2015
oglalasioux:
Great. I took time to go through the link. Very great people saying great things about the bible. But consider this particular verse from the same bible; 1 Samuel 15:2-3.
Thus says the Lord of hosts: ‘I will punish Amalek for what he did to Israel, how he ambushed him on the way when he came up from Egypt. Now go and attack Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and do not spare them. But kill both man and woman, infant and nursing child, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’”
What kind of a god instructs that? How can a book that supported genocide be called the best book? I could give you more evidence that murderers wrote the bible and it can never have been ordained by the God who created the universe.
Go through these before i tackle the issue of "genocide" in the bible.

https://www.nairaland.com/2722039/former-atheists-speak-testimonies

https://www.nairaland.com/2797026/quotes-scientists-regarding-design-universe
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by oglalasioux(m): 9:53pm On Dec 27, 2015
winner01:
Go through these before i tackle the issue of "genocide" in the bible.

https://www.nairaland.com/2722039/former-atheists-speak-testimonies

https://www.nairaland.com/2797026/quotes-scientists-regarding-design-universe
They are good. They are great. They are wonderful. They are true. So answer the genocide issue in the bible. Remember I can show you more even where the biblical god asked someone to lie.
Remember, our problem here is the biblical and Koranic gods not the God of the universe. Don't mix the two because they are very different.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 9:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
cococandy:
I no talk anything o
loool.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by cococandy(f): 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2015
But it's among the 10 commandments.
How can you not know of its wrong or right?

You now have selective knowledge of right and wrong because something you do wrong had been mentioned. Lmao grin

When you want to play the hypocrite to someone else. Then you'll be sure of right and wrong
Abi.
H2Ossss:
hmmm.... God permitted solomon to have 700 wives and 300 concubines and was still blessed with wisdom above all men, David had so many wives but was still a man after Gods heart.... and small me will have sex be4 marriage and its now a sin?? haba mallam... habaar... cut me some slack naa. i dont knw if its right or wrong shaaa...
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by H2Ossss(m): 10:01pm On Dec 27, 2015
Truth be told... the bible sometimes confuses me (maybe i need spiritual revelation), but i cant understand how God will say 'thou shall not kill' , and still orders the isrealite army to kill nations, thou shall not commit adultery, yet kings of old that God blessed take as many wives and concubines, esp David. sometimes the people killed are not the original perpetrators of the crime (like when God told prophet samuel to tell king saul to kill a whole nation).. rather their far far descendants... is Our God not a forgiving God? Truly as u read the bible so many passages seems to contradict themselves, I really Hope am wrong.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by H2Ossss(m): 10:02pm On Dec 27, 2015
Truth be told... the bible sometimes confuses me (maybe i need spiritual revelation), but i cant understand how God will say 'thou shall not kill' , and still orders the isrealite army to kill nations, thou shall not commit adultery, yet kings of old that God blessed take as many wives and concubines, esp David. sometimes the people killed are not the original perpetrators of the crime (like when God told prophet samuel to tell king saul to kill a whole nation).. rather their far far descendants... is Our God not a forgiving God? Truly as u read the bible so many passages SEEMS to contradict themselves, I really Hope am wrong.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by H2Ossss(m): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2015
cococandy:
But it's among the 10 commandments.
How can you not know of its wrong or right?

You now have selective knowledge of right and wrong because something you do wrong had been mentioned. Lmao grin

When you want to play the hypocrite to someone else. Then you'll be sure of right and wrong
Abi.
lol... i never said i did it, and i dont think am a hypocrite... it was stated in the 10 commandment yeah... also stated was thou shall not kill... but God ordered the isrealites to kill... even down to animals... so wt will u say about that? they were hypocrites to kill since it suited them then? so y blame the muslims when their god tells dem to kill ppl?
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by gemale(m): 10:51pm On Dec 27, 2015
henryhemon:
You missed the point,liking sex or not still doesn't make it right to indulge in it before marriage am not playing saint but truth never changes. It's wrong to be done before marriage.
morality (ryt & wrong) is in its essence relative nt static as most pple tnk. It is often determined by factors such as tym, individual preferences, situation & overall lyk & dislikes of D society 1 finds his/herself in. Typical examples include consumption of pork, polygamy vs monogamy, etc. D fact is dt 90% of most issues in d world 2day r of relative morality. Personally d only reason dt makes me feel uncomfortable abt having sex is due 2 religious indoctrination (I actually find it quite enjoyable & relaxing) & let's b very honest religion is rili man's perception of God (hence d numerous religions present in our world). No mata wt anybody says, all d Holy books were written/compiled by men (d Bible, Quran, bagavad Geeta, Torah etc) hence dey r nt totally infallible.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by Filmewell(f): 11:01pm On Dec 27, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
hian! Another atheist? undecided
no am not .just expressing my thoughts
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by misshoree(f): 11:27pm On Dec 27, 2015
everybody with their doctrines and interpretation of wat d bible says but ai personally think its not okay
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Dec 28, 2015
H2Ossss:
lol... i never said i did it, and i dont think am a hypocrite... it was stated in the 10 commandment yeah... also stated was thou shall not kill... but God ordered the isrealites to kill... even down to animals... so wt will u say about that? they were hypocrites to kill since it suited them then? so y blame the muslims when their god tells dem to kill ppl?
Now you're shifting base.
Never mind
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by piagetskinner(m): 1:59am On Dec 28, 2015
Profound post op.... I have come to learn that man will always want to gratify himself by engaging in self - indulgence... And he will have a thousand and one excuses why what he is doing is right... He might even go to the extent of misquoting the Bible just to justify his sinful lifestyle # some people might say we live in the time of grace, I'm totally In agreement with that . but what I don't agree with is the ideology that one is still covered in grace even when he is still deliberately walking in sin #




Grace is for those who have come to terms with the fact that they are sinful, and desire forgiveness. not for those who remain sinful and try to justify their sins by not labelling as sin
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by sanc2s(f): 3:37am On Dec 28, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
really?
yea. Let's not decieve ourselves
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by henryhemon(m): 4:03am On Dec 28, 2015
gemale:
morality (ryt & wrong) is in its essence relative nt static as most pple tnk. It is often determined by factors such as tym, individual preferences, situation & overall lyk & dislikes of D society 1 finds his/herself in. Typical examples include consumption of pork, polygamy vs monogamy, etc. D fact is dt 90% of most issues in d world 2day r of relative morality. Personally d only reason dt makes me feel uncomfortable abt having sex is due 2 religious indoctrination (I actually find it quite enjoyable & relaxing) & let's b very honest religion is rili man's perception of God (hence d numerous religions present in our world). No mata wt anybody says, all d Holy books were written/compiled by men (d Bible, Quran, bagavad Geeta, Torah etc) hence dey r nt totally infallible.
The bible is God's word and it is infallible. It is real and they re not just ordinary words please.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by delkuf(m): 4:04am On Dec 28, 2015
am there lots of christian here in nl
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by henryhemon(m): 4:11am On Dec 28, 2015
H2Ossss:
do u honestly think that king david or king solomon waited till they got married? like seriously? anyway.. really dont want to blaspheme but my type of person never follows blindly... if they can marry so many wives and its not a sin... or keep concubines... y will it be a sin if i do? as long as i aint raping or taking anoda mans wife... the only situation its been recorded as a sin is when a married woman commits adultery... and Jesus still did not condemn her... so who re u to play God telling me its wrong?
You always refer to the old testament and am sure you are trying to justify why you should have sex before marriage,you quote bible passages that suits you and leave out the passages that condemn it,that's deceiving yourself,I won't answer for you on that day but remember this things will be presented to you on that day of judgement cuz you tried twisting it not cuz you have no knowledge of it.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by delkuf(m): 4:18am On Dec 28, 2015
henryhemon, misgloberwonder, and every standing for d truth, I pray that d holy spirit will not leave
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by joseph1832(m): 8:13am On Dec 28, 2015
elantraceey:
Its obvious.
Does it include you also?
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by khattab02: 2:21pm On Dec 28, 2015
funny how many christian folks sees nothing about it.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by soko94: 5:29pm On Dec 28, 2015
MsGlobalwonder:
what does it matter? Is it now a crime? undecided
ofcourse it's a crime against the Almighty because it is written,let no man claim perfection cos all have sinned and come short of His glory
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 5:38pm On Dec 28, 2015
soko94:
ofcourse it's a crime against the Almighty because it is written,let no man claim perfection cos all have sinned and come short of His glory
lol. Pray tell me, who is claiming perfection? And which part of the Scripture said it's a sin to claim perfection? cheesy. Go joor. Go and sex-away. 3 different partner per day. As long as it makes you happy lipsrsealed
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by winner01(op): 11:18pm On Dec 30, 2015
oglalasioux:
They are good. They are great. They are wonderful. They are true. So answer the genocide issue in the bible. Remember I can show you more even where the biblical god asked someone to lie.
Remember, our problem here is the biblical and Koranic gods not the God of the universe. Don't mix the two because they are very different.
Ive spoken about the "genocide" severally on nairaland and goin indepth is somewhat time consuming.
However, I believe you can learn a thing or two here.
http://www.godandscience.org/apologetics/killergod.html
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by oglalasioux(m): 7:24am On Dec 31, 2015
winner01:
Ive spoken about the "genocide" severally on nairaland and goin indepth is somewhat time consuming.
However, I believe you can learn a thing or two here.
http://www.godandscience.org/apologetics/killergod.html
Interesting. The writer said even babies have sinned and that's why God destroyed them along with their parents. He also mentioned that the nations destroyed use human sacrifice. You have your information from the bible, a very Jewish book. God asked Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac as a burnt offering. El, the volcanic god Abraham worshipped accepted human sacrifices. Please research about El and Abraham. The bible that told you babies have sinned said David, an adulterer and murderer, is the man after God's heart but 2 year old babies deserve to die for their 'sins'. A very selective god. Solomon murdered all his brothers to be king but as you pointed out that too is allowed because your god chooses who have sinned and who have not sinned. Do you know the link you referred me to justified abortion just to make his point? Very horrible! He said God do that to save the babies from sinning. So why did God even allow anyone in the world grow past babyhood? Is he selective again? That is the same way Samuel claimed God asked him to lie when he was going to anoint David king.
Your pathetic writer said when Jesus comes 2 billion people will die including 200 million people per day. Shekau and ISIS are already helping him with the killing. Why hasn't the judgment come yet? He is Perhaps allowing the population of the world to grow more so he can have a swell time in the killing just as the crusaders boasted of swimming in blood.
Your religion is a sick archaic one that doesn't have relevance in today's world. You worship a god given to favouritism. A god who calls everything sin but turns it into righteousness when it is perpetrated by the Jews. You rely on a book carefully written by Jews to justify their killings and forceful take over of other peoples' land.
Thanks for sharing that link with me. It has given me further proof that religion is grasping at straws to survive its end.
Remember, the universe and it's beauty was as a result of a grand design by a God of the universe. An all unifying God. Not your god of vengeance and arbitrary actions.
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by flamingREED(m): 8:11am On Dec 31, 2015
Some people are just after a chorus 'yes' answer____________________
to speed up their journey to hell.

Alright.

In spite of all the Bible laments about sexual sins, I want to give you the 'yes' answer you seek.

Go on and engage in premarital immorality.


Goodluck to you.

Enjoy cheesy
Re: Christians Engaging In Premarital Sexual Relations Before Marriage, Is It Okay? by soko94: 11:22pm On Jan 07, 2016
MsGlobalwonder:
lol. Pray tell me, who is claiming perfection? And which part of the Scripture said it's a sin to claim perfection? cheesy. Go joor. Go and sex-away. 3 different partner per day. As long as it makes you happy lipsrsealed
thanks dear.....-f that's ur wish anyway
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