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quivah:
Lmao, being a lawyer in an organization is following another person's purpose? What if I want to become a lawyer and I got that in an organization.. What's the big deal.

Now you are changing your tune o... What you detest is a career woman, whether she exacts her job than her family or not, its not your business..right?
Except if have been reading something else all along.
Anyways, good luck to you bro..

Being a Lawyer is one. In the business/corporate world, what we have is employee & employer; principal & agent. No one cares whether you have PhD in Law. A Lawyer can either be an employee or an employer.

Now my point is: whether we like it or not, your organization employed you to work for the company, to achieve its aim and objectives. An organisation is not rocket science, it was founded by one or more persons, so you're to uplift the person/persons' dreams.

In marriage, you cannot abandon your home for your company's objective (your dream). Your family should be your 1st dream, others can come after.

Mind you, I'm not against career-driven women. I actually don't believe in the concept of 'career women'. I had to use this term to pinpoint my views on this thread. All I see is women striving hard to make ends meet (in the marketplace, school, or in a bank).

quivah:
Smiles... You still don't get it, do you? I thought we were doing an analogy here! Hmm I understand now. And sorry to disappoint you, I will marry a good man. Btw, who's a good man.. Hope you are not referring to men like you here o.. And marriage is about US... DONT PREACH WHAT I KNOW ALREADY.

Good to know you corrected that bad notion.
Lol, so what if I call myself a good man?

Acidosis:
Being a Lawyer is one. In the business/corporate world, what we have is employee & employer; principal & agent. No one cares whether you have PhD in Law. A Lawyer can either be an employee or an employer.

Now my point is: whether we like it or not, your organization employed you to work for the company, to achieve its aim and objectives. An organisation is not rocket science, it was founded by one or more persons, so you're to uplift the person/persons' dreams.

In marriage, you cannot abandon your home for your company's objective (your dream). Your family should be your 1st dream, others can come after.

Mind you, I'm not against career-driven women. I actually don't believe in the concept of 'career women'. I had to use this term to pinpoint my views on this thread. All I see is women striving hard to make ends meet (in the marketplace, school, or in a bank).

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quivah:
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kaboninc:
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KB 4 Kaboninc

quivah:
KB 4 Kaboninc

Quivah - like Queen Vaheeda?

quivah:
KB 4 Kaboninc

You mean, Kabo Snoop?

francizy:
You mean, Kabo Snoop?

Aproko.....


Is she the one?

kaboninc:
Aproko.....


Is she the one?

Don't know her oh!

Btw, this's my first time of quoting that moniker..

francizy:
Don't know her oh!

Btw, this's my first time of quoting that moniker..

Better....

I came before you na

kaboninc:
Better....

I came before you na

I no follow you drag oh!

kaboninc:
Quivah - like Queen Vaheeda?

Wait That's cool
But not like that

francizy:
You mean, Kabo Snoop?

KB.. How e take resemble kabo snoop.. Olodo
How u dey?

Miami11:
When did men start picking maids, end time husband

What would be his reason for him not wanting an elderly maid, why can't he make breakfast himself for the kids, some of this bushmen husband masquerades smh,

I only hire elderly women in my house, no young maids for hubby to abuse and impregnate, ( that hubby probably has hidden agenda)

How should she live her job, will he provide all the household needs, I thought the more income in the family the better

The wife is right

my dear maid or no maid a man dt wants to cheat will surely cheat. D wife shd knw dt her loyalty is first to her hubby/family b4 her boss/job. Job can always be replaced but family can neva be replaced. Its her duty as a wife to prepare food for d kids n d hubby not maid. Anytym she cums back by 11pm den man shd send her back to her work since is now married to her job. D children upbring is mainly hers and d man supportin. Oga wich ever way u cn u beta cut her wings if nt ur family wud suffer at d expense of her job.

She could make calls from work and do interviews on Saturday and Sunday.

phabulous88:
What time does she have to hire a maid when she leaves the house at 4am & comes back at 11pm?

byvan03:
Lol,your wife is funny, you brought a 19years old to intimidate her but you see, you can't give everyone conditions. Send this girl away first of all, sit her down and talk like a matured individual. Power tussle is a dangerous thing in a marriage, you won't know when you have flipped on the wrong switch. Dialogue saves lot of trouble, try a sensible dialogue session but send home the teen.


Wanting a teenage help tells a lot about you. she doesn't even trust you and that is why she is holding tenaciously unto her job than quit to serve you breakfasts.

my dear a man dt wants to cheat will surely cheat whether d maid is a teen or an elderly person. Afterall he sees lots of women daily in diff shapes n sizes. Bt why wud a wife n mother be coming home by 11pm? Dt shd b a no no for any man dt values kids. Both of dem jst hv to comprise.

jabojafa:
my dear a man dt wants to cheat will surely cheat whether d maid is a teen or an elderly person. Afterall he sees lots of women daily in diff shapes n sizes. Bt why wud a wife n mother be coming home by 11pm? Dt shd b a no no for any man dt values kids. Both of dem jst hv to comprise.

My post has nothing to do with who wants to cheat, only few people burst their brains over cheats these days. The point remains that his wife trusted her job more than her husband. He should address his issues and find out why wify chose job over everything else.

quivah:
Wait That's cool
But not like that

Lol. At least I tried.

So tell me.....

francizy:
I no follow you drag oh!

You no follow me drag but she dey do like say she sabi you....

You don learn pass the master oh...

quivah:
KB.. How e take resemble kabo snoop.. Olodo
How u dey?

Looll...


Like you two have a history....

cococandy:
You want to catch a doctor But also want one who will be willing to do whatever doctorate degree she wants and come drop the cert in your house to go open a roadside business.

Confused man.

hilarious!!!

quivah:
KB.. How e take resemble kabo snoop.. Olodo
How u dey?

I dey fine oh.. How are you celebrating the season? Hope on the highs?

kaboninc:
You no follow me drag but she dey do like say she sabi you....

You don learn pass the master oh...

Hehehehe! Attentive, inquisitive, resourceful and brilliant students often become better than their teachers..