petkruz:


Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained?

shegxi:
u guys will continue to deal with dis for d rest of d relationship.........whenever he acts up, u will always think it is because he now has money and punishing u for d past. to also be fair to him, he would always hide d tru state of his finance from u cos somwere in his sub-conscious, he thinks u are onli after his money.
the real question will now be to determine whether d relationship is worth d stress and headache? and onli u can ansa dat. but to be honest, i wn't get bck wit a lady who left wen i was broke.......

petkruz:

It's not that easy

Estharfabian:
He's just your boyfriend for crying out Loud!

If he can't deal with "Forgiveness"...? dump his Ass!

Besides, You guys should do a little "Communication"...It works wonders.

coolh3ad:


Ladies and their very annoying mind set...Na only man suppose call woman in a relationship....

Estharfabian:
He's just your boyfriend for crying out Loud!

If he can't deal with "Forgiveness"...? dump his Ass!

Besides, You guys should do a little "Communication"...It works wonders.

ronald4lif:


Well, their 'mindset' works only if you make yourself a willing tool. You see that the guy had to call after 3days of silence? He's amenable and she knows this hence her attitude. When you're not disposed to their silly mind games they can't be ahead. So I don't blame them but the guys.

ronald4lif:


Well, their 'mindset' works only if you make yourself a willing tool. You see that the guy had to call after 3days of silence? He's amenable and she knows this hence her attitude. When you're not disposed to their silly mind games they can't be ahead. So I don't blame them but the guys.

shegxi:
d lady shldnt have gotten bck in my opinion.......dumping a guy cos he his broke is a very big deal, communication wnt solve anything, they shld simply go dere way.......

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

Creamish:
Are u guys married?

D'u have a joint account?

If "NO"..then I see no reason why u should be pissed that he Dint tell u about his savings...esp since u once broke up wit him due to his financial status (or at least datz what he believes).

Secondly, he Dint call u on New year's day...did u call him? No. Wat if he had some issues? Ur being selfish IMO...

Nwayz... U need to calm d Fk down and think things thru only when calm. If u have nagging doubts, then address it with him. Communication is key in every relationship. Assumptions are relationship killers.

petkruz:


Since he decided to be proud I had to play along I didn't call simple

yomi007k:


U have given 2 bad points abt him. Im jus asking u to give 2 Good points.



...we all r humans. We hav both Good n Bad sides.

How do u knw d next dude wont be a serial cheater or a smoker?

Relationships r complicated, u gotta learn to make it simple.

ronald4lif:


I hope you're not the I must marry type or else you'll continue to be pompous and playing along till your biological limit elapses. I don't blame you though, but him.

Lucky to have met a manipulative tool for a boyfriend. Why should he inform before buying a car? Na your money?

petkruz:


I love him alot

francizy:



Are you his employee, mother and father combined? I don't just get the reason why you feel/felt he must have told you before buying a car? Have you been giving him pocket money or what? Are you his wife?

Geez! I don't know how some of you reason self...

On number 2, do you even call him or you're one of those that always waits for a man to call?

Rogerz007:
Well i think your bf is just rubbing it in ur face...Dont worry too much he will get over it..Buh if u are not quite satisfied then you should sit him down and discuss it.

petkruz:


Dude 4years is enough to forgive someone! Afterall he came back to start allover. If he wasn't ready he should have stayed back!

petkruz:


I didn't leave him because he was broke. I wanted to be free, he caged me, no friends, no hanging out, he was strict! As a crazy gal I couldn't stand all that hence I left but he thought I left cos he didn't have a job then.

petkruz:


So u think he's not manipulating me too? Or playing mind games? Don't be biased.

petkruz:


Oh God my head aches! He's a good guy, a very good guy, just proud.

ronald4lif:


Well, their 'mindset' works only if you make yourself a willing tool. You see that the guy had to call after 3days of silence? He's amenable and she knows this hence her attitude. When you're not disposed to their silly mind games they can't be ahead. So I don't blame them but the guys.

petkruz:


My dear I love u for this. Habaaaaaa 4years beef? Is it worth it? Why behave like a baby? Worst of all he refused to leave me alone.

4 good years??


Mehn, nigga is puerile! extremely childish!
You should talk to him tho...Do some heart to heart talk...


He seems like a good guy.

petkruz:


He's my boyfriend, he should have told me! And yes I don't have to be calling 247, he should call

shegxi:
so if i may ask, what has changed? have u stopped being crazy and stuff or is he no longer strict? see am nt judging u at all, am onli trying to see things from both perspective. is it a case of u coping now cos he now has money or wat?

daretodiffer:


Thirded! The first time I heard of this BS was a friend's. You seriosuly do not want to know her age.

@OP, who the hell do you think you are? You are in a relationship yet you expect your bf to do everything. I won't blame him if he ends up treating you like trash.

coolh3ad:


And dats how you ladies easily FORGIVE abiiii....

Why not??


We're blessed with Pure, forgiving, amenable hearts...

daretodiffer:


Thirded! The first time I heard of this BS was a friend's. You seriosuly do not want to know her age.

@OP, who the hell do you think you are? You are in a relationship yet you expect your bf to do everything. I won't blame him if he ends up treating you like trash.

shegxi:
d lady shldnt have gotten bck in my opinion.......dumping a guy cos he his broke is a very big deal, communication wnt solve anything, they shld simply go dere way.......

Uh...she's sorry!

Whatever happened to second chances?

She fûcked up, big deal!!! Who doesn't