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yetseyi:
The words in bold is exactly how I feel
I really do not understand why people are very touchy about this virginity issue, let the virgins be its that simple. The fact that unmarried people are having sex doesn't make it right, its wrong and we all know it. If the virgins are not having problems with someone who is not a virgin then why the noise over virgins Everyone is living his/her life the way they want it and please let them have a breathing space. All these analysis over how good a virgin wife/husband will be is unnecessary.


If you are a virgin and you are thinking "It seems I am alone" know that you are not alone there are quite a lot of people that are trying to be decent, don't be discouraged by sexualization of everything around you. If you have made that decision stand by it.

I saw this few words from a friends facebook page and I think it is very relevant in this discussion.

"When you choose to live a godly life, haters around you will try to make you feel like you got a problem with them. They try to blackmail you with the "judge not" phrase. But in the real sense, they are d ones who's got a problem with you because you prove to them that it is possible to lead a more decent life compared to d one they live. The truth is they can't handle this and so they just want to make you feel bad so that they may feel better. That shouldn't bother you, Keep doing good!"

If the devil isn't going about looking for whom to devour, I think many people will heed to this wonderful piece of advice.

no one sees a borehole and fetches from a well.....intelligent minds would understand...

Bin a virgin is morally & probably help ur mkt to sell well especially to d man or intending husband but it doesn't & wud neva make u a beta person if u didn't undergo character building frm ur homes during childhood......bin virgin does makes u a beta person

Lolz nairaland is a funny place. different attitudes is displayed here well I think this guy dat told us dis fascinating story is medically inability in sexual ground if not so than I can derive dat the very girl he is talking about is not sexy in body stature[color=#990000][/color]

Dahveydson:
Your comment deserves 1000 likes.

OP please kindly add the link to the initial thread on the opening post.

yetseyi:
The words in bold is exactly how I feel
I really do not understand why people are very touchy about this virginity issue, let the virgins be its that simple. The fact that unmarried people are having sex doesn't make it right, its wrong and we all know it. If the virgins are not having problems with someone who is not a virgin then why the noise over virgins Everyone is living his/her life the way they want it and please let them have a breathing space. All these analysis over how good a virgin wife/husband will be is unnecessary.


If you are a virgin and you are thinking "It seems I am alone" know that you are not alone there are quite a lot of people that are trying to be decent, don't be discouraged by sexualization of everything around you. If you have made that decision stand by it.

I saw this few words from a friends facebook page and I think it is very relevant in this discussion.

"When you choose to live a godly life, haters around you will try to make you feel like you got a problem with them. They try to blackmail you with the "judge not" phrase. But in the real sense, they are d ones who's got a problem with you because you prove to them that it is possible to lead a more decent life compared to d one they live. The truth is they can't handle this and so they just want to make you feel bad so that they may feel better. That shouldn't bother you, Keep doing good!"

. Gbam! Very True

HaneefahRN:
No, they don't even care if u exist, but u're the one tht feels inferior to them, and need something to justify it by painting them in a bad light. U were once a virgin weren't u, u chose to lose it, so leave those who chose to hold on to theirs be.
Virgins ain't losers, u are the one tht has lost somethn afterall.
Virginity doesn't make one a good wife, it doesn't make one a bad one either. A virgin is even more likely to be a better wife as compared to a non-virgin.
I know u're part of the crew '' this is 21st Century, we av every right and freedom to let go of shame, decency and dignity and those who hold on to these are the losers and outcasts'' . Good thinking

I so much love this comment.

Those who chose to remain virgins have every right to do so and are under no obligation to explain or justify it to anybody.

NemzySeries:
Bin a virgin is morally & probably help ur mkt to sell well especially to d man or intending husband but it doesn't & wud neva make u a beta person if u didn't undergo character building frm ur homes during childhood......bin virgin does makes u a beta person

Bros go siddon jare.

What are you saying? Being a virgin is a good yardstick for a young lady's level of discipline, her ability to handle temptations and is sure a sign of good character building from home during childhood.

I personally don't judge non-virgin ladies because they have a choice to their lives and they can't all be that bad. Besides everyone deserves a second chance, but what irks me is the attitude of the non-virgins towards the virgin leadies is all about hate and bitterness. One will then begin to wonder, weren't the non-virgin girls at one point in their lives virgins?

numericalguy:
Bros go siddon jare.

What are you saying? Being a virgin is a good yardstick for a young lady's level of discipline, her ability to handle temptations and is sure a sign of good character building from home during childhood.

I personally don't judge non-virgin ladies because they have a choice to their lives and they can't all be that bad. Besides everyone deserves a second chance, but what irks me is the attitude of the non-virgins towards the virgin leadies is all about hate and bitterness. One will then begin to wonder, weren't the non-virgin girls at one point in their lives virgins?

so u follow me back to back to tell me crap ova ma own opinion abi?.....wuz it dat painful?
if u pick virginity ova charater den gud 4 u but I ain't following same foolish path.....Ma point is wedasa virgin or not wat I'm concern wit is character bkos ur virginity wud last jst a nite but character is a life time mr senseless

yetseyi:
OP please kindly add the link to the initial thread on the opening post.

Alright.

yetseyi:
OP please kindly add the link to the initial thread on the opening post.

Done.



Lalasticlala, what do you think?

NemzySeries:
so u follow me back to back to tell me crap ova ma own opinion abi?.....wuz it dat painful?
if u pick virginity ova charater den gud 4 u but I ain't following same foolish path.....Ma point is wedasa virgin or not wat I'm concern wit is character bkos ur virginity wud last jst a nite but character is a life time mr senseless

You hate (and most likely envy) for virgin is just senseless.
If anyone chooses to remain a virgin, its their personal choice and they don't owe you any obligation whatsoever to justify or even explain their reasons to you. You and your ilk should get that into your thick sculls.

numericalguy:
You hate (and most likely envy) for virgin is just senseless.
If anyone chooses to remain a virgin, its their personal choice and they don't owe you any obligation whatsoever to justify or even explain their reasons to you. You and your ilk should get that into your thick sculls.

U talk like U've neva seen a sch gate.......b4 u make more stewpid outta ursef, all I'm saying is dat weda virgin or virgin I dunt care........character is d altimate.....abi av u won any award 4 bin virgin?......baba leave crap, trash & useless mentions 4 lawma

torqque7:
Lol..Abi?and someone will now come and tell me they prefer her type that opens her kitty for every tom dick and harry that she just meets online cos he is popular on NL to a virgin?tufia,Godforbid bad thing in my life IJN AMEN..let's not deceive ourselves

I wonder what your point is.

However, virginity does not make one a loser, it doesn't make one a good wife either, it doesn't make you better than a non-virgin, it just makes you, You. A normal girl who have not had sex, no special marital reward attached to it

I think it's better virgins stop thinking they are doing their husbands a favour by getting married to them as virgins because this is where the whole trouble comes in

There is a bunch of amazing wife materials out there who are non-virgins, same goes for virgins

Let virginity not be a standard for picking a good wife because me I prefer a woman to be non-virgin and loving and respectful to a virgin who is disrespectful and thinks she's one in a million because she's just a virgin