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IndianaJay:
I pity the women that will end up marrying some of these men here..

So...in this age and time men are still going uppanddaann looking for another full grown adult to kneel and feed them all in the name of marriage and submissiveness to her man?

Are you a child that she has to kneel to feed you? Are you her grandfather or a handicapped man that cannot help and look for ways to make your woman's life easier??

What does any man who loves his woman wholeheartedly wants to do with her kneeling down to feed him every day??

Did any of your younger sisters at home kneel down to feed you as a show of honour to you being their elder brother??

I did not marry my grandfather or father....why do I have to kneel to feed my husband, my friend, my partner in life, the father of my children?

Please you people should reduce the display of stupidity on this site, it's getting too much.

donpata:
I knw i will be bashed. Still yet, i no sen. Someone reminded me that this is 21st century; of coz, it is. Thats y marriages struggle to last this days. These are little spices that add beauty to marriages.. My girl does it and the day she 4gets, d kind eye i go look her go make her apologize sharply. Trust me, it's fun. I never meant she shld hit her knee on d ground but just bend am low a bit. many bashing me grew to c their mums doing it. Guys bashing me, una miss Road

donpata:
Na u get stupidity ohh. I never said she should feed him dummy. Besides, u cant claim to b 21st century lady and c feeding your husband as a senseless thing. And yes, my sisters show courtsy when giviing or takimg anything frm me- they bow teir knees. they dont even notice they do it- it's a part of them and a part of Nigerian culture which they were trained to uphold. Ive stayed for upward of 3yrs in the SW, a year in SE and the North is my abode. It's simply our culture-take it or leave it. Na advice i give.

Treasuredlove:
So that after she has finished kneeling down, uncle will go and meet one opelenge elese chewing gum not old enough to be his daughter who will be calling him "boo" ba?
Infact, she should have knelt down and put the tray on her head so that he can eat from it then use her scarf for napkin

IndianaJay:
Pocket your advice pls....it's not everyone that has married a village man or planning to marry one.

REDBUNNY:
Most busy body men like the poster who goes around demanding respect from women are suffering from serious inferiority complex.
I bet your uncle is not bothered about his wife kneeling or not but you are there losing sleep over it.
If your wife decides to kneel to take or give you something,how much exactly will it add to your bank account?
how tall will it make it?
will it make your manhood bigger?
will it give you more sense?
Get over your low self esteem and stop thinking that you deserved to be worshipped because you've got one small penis between your legs.

Gbadebo01:
@ donpata, Ha? this ur alpha male attitude wont get you any where. u must have the brain of a toad. you sef talk am my girl does it! marry finish u go hear wien! i sure say u go don dey plan abt ow to beat her anytime she makes mistakes. the geh sef na im wan put her sef for slavery. i pity you and ur mentality. And for women who likes that kind of attitude Good luck to you and MAY GOD GIVE U THE STRENGTH TO ENJOY UR PUNISHMENT !

donpata:
To the "mind ur bizness" crew, of coz, i did mind my business and thus never interfered by telling him anything. But this is a discussion forum and anyone can come here to express sentiments. Some claim their husbands prefer going 2 the kitchen to carry their food. To such men, i say "pele". Most of us in this whasapp generation act as if its a new thing in our society. We see elderly men bow a bit as they shake/greet their elders and women bow their knees a bit in like situations.


These extends to situations where u take or give something to an elder or superior/head.. These are things deeply rooted in not just nigerian societies but Africa and the world at large. So ladies, if its so much a problem for u 2 simply bend that stiff knee 2ru some 5° when taking or giving something to your husband or bf, i think u got some humility iss. Id understand if u say its not done in ur place. But that u wont do it cos we ar in d 21st century or cos its "slavery" needs u to rethink. Doing that is another medium of Expressing respect to your hubby/bf. Try it. plus except he says STOP that, which is less likely, keep doing it cos you've just added a spice to the relationship. It's done even in many cultures d world over. "Curtsey" or "knee bowing"-google is our friend.
PS, my visit was to their benefit, not mine. am no parasite. :S
herboshedhe, daretodiffer, cococandy and co, Learn!!

jejelady:
I guess the op is looking for attention and front page things. Busy body... Op go back to ur own house and get busy

dangotesmummy:

falls from the bench

daretodiffer:
Can you blame me?

He says it is not a big deal ‘to kneel‘

We say it is not a big deal ‘not to kneel'

Yet the is huffing and puffing like a

johnson232:
Your mate dey sit down for sofa, u dey sit down for bench, u no dey shame...

Abeg remove dang-OTE from your moniker, put igbo for there....

Igbo mummy...

herboshedhe:
Dear,are you minding him?
We know their kinds,his type dare not look into his wife's face to talk,yet they keep faking the real man on this faceless forum here


Real men don't force their wives to respect them!!!

donpata:
Even the civilised Europeans do it. They teach their kids too. and some village 'escapees' wey just dey tear eye dey won come claim civilization pass those wey don reach there. It dosnt matter whether u call me villager or not; who no know say naija na Village.

missKiffy:
You better employ an househelp for your uncle so that she will be kneeling when giving him his food

donpata:
Even the civilised Europeans do it. They teach their kids too. and some village 'escapees' wey just dey tear eye dey won come claim civilization pass those wey don reach there. It dosnt matter whether u call me villager or not; who no know say naija na Village.

donpata:
I knw i will be bashed. Still yet, i no sen. Someone reminded me that this is 21st century; of coz, it is. Thats y marriages struggle to last this days. These are little spices that add beauty to marriages.. My girl does it and the day she 4gets, d kind eye i go look her go make her apologize sharply. Trust me, it's fun. I never meant she shld hit her knee on d ground but just bend am low a bit. many bashing me grew to c their mums doing it. Guys bashing me, una miss Road