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| Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by crazyculture(op): 11:22am On Jan 09, 2016*. Modified: 12:10pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I am a regular user of nairaland, so I had to create a new account for this topic, so as not to have any problem here regarding this issue later. I was just posted down to a rural community in edo state for my NYSC program, and in my PPA I was paired with a guy as roomates. We haven't even spent up to a week together now and I have been having issues with him. The problem is that this guy is a chronic homosexualist, I got to know the second day after staying together when he confessed to me after I asked him about his girlfriend because I just finished speaking with mine. But to my amazement he started this confession about how he started the crazy act in is first year in school, he finished from one of the top private university in this country which I wouldn't want to mention. He said it was the school that caused it, that they must not see them alone with girls in school and they must not go to girls hostels. That there was no freedom for them at all. So he decided to be satisfying his sexual urge by having sex with his fellow guys in hostel. I can't even imagine I would come across someone like that in my life, cos I know how I use to abuse them when I see them in movies. I wonder if that's what all those private uni students do. After his confession I decided to approach the issue in a matured way and also told him his secret is safe with me, but adviced him that he should try and desist from the act. That I will also help him arrange one of the female corpers in the next lodge for him, He said okay. I couldn't even sleep well that night because I had so many things going on my mind because we share same bed, that he shouldn't go and mount on me in the midnight. The next morning he said he couldn't sleep well all through the night that he was cold, I felt like punching him. Ever since then he has been disturbing me, that we should try it once that I will like it. I don't want to be a murderer, cos anytime he says it, I always feel like stabbing him with a knife, cos I even hate to hear it. I have been thinking of moving out, but there are no better houses here, just mud houses in which I don't think i can stay except I wanna go to the next lodge in which I will have a lot of explanations to do to them and I don't wanna leak his secret. We are only the two corpers in this house we are staying here, If not I would have moved to the next room with the available corper. Please what do i do, because if it goes beyond my power I might be forced to harm him. Any advice please? |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:24am On Jan 09, 2016*. Modified: 11:42am On Jan 09, 2016 |
You said: "...he finished from one of the top private university in this country which I wouldn't want to mention. He said it was the school that caused it, that they must not see them alone with girls in school and they must not go to girls hostels..."  I think I know that school  1 Like |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Warn him never to mention it where you are ever again else he'll see a different side of you. That should settle it. 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Trust me, it would get to the point where he'd eventually rape you. To him, staying in the same room with you is just like you are in the same room with a girl who you are attracted to and you can't touch her or have sex with her. Sternly warn him to back off, if he doesn't, just move out of the lodge and do what you have to do, even if it means reporting him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:42am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Bro u wicked oooh  he said only once, allow him na.Abi u dey use yansh wey shiit full inside form? |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Oluwapresley(m): 11:43am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Hehehehehehehehehehe.. Baba, u better run for ur yansh! Konji is a bastard ooo! E shu nuh be that one night, after too much parading, u come tire sleep open everything for the guy.. Ah ba idi e fun e oo* ehhh |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Sept20:whats d name spill it |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:45am On Jan 09, 2016 |
. crazyculture:
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| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 09, 2016*. Modified: 1:02pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Sept20:It's either Covenant University or Babcock. But I think it's the former. So much for instilling a sense decency in their students. |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by sholikay(m): 11:57am On Jan 09, 2016 |
@op.you better go and do y@nsh insurance,or better start covering ur bom.bom with the blood of jesus..GOD WIL SEE U THROUGH. |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by tartar9(m): 12:14pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
he must be hegboè  .why not try it once and see if you'd change your mind? |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Vikky014(f): 12:14pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
crazyculture:ROTFLMAO still cant stop laughing....*clears throat abegi run for ur dear life HIV is rampant among homosexuals bfore he infects u by sharing a sharp object like knife with him. stop sleeping with him in dt room. make a friend outside whom u can sleep with since he no dey shame..pls dnt harm or leak his secret among ur fellow corpers 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by joliyp(f): 12:22pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I hate it wen same sex touch me 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Steal his parents numbr frm his phne and report evritin 2dem asap! ;DB4 u kie sum1 |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Eve62(f): 12:35pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I think after one punch he will know how serious you are. |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
| .. Na this kind thing dey make person dey craze/.. Imaqine you coming out of d bathroom with towel wrappedround your waist..You kon see the fool d1ck dey rise..# Bro,abeg dey sleep with one small heavy stick for ya side.. "Always dey conscious iff you dey sleep,nodey give am face sef..The day he tries to enter ya poo hole while sleeping,,give him a heavy-short for him prick balls..# 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by cruzita(f): 12:43pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
| just one word for u bro *RUN FOR UR YANSH* |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by AyamBlaze: 12:54pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Egbon crazyculture , fvck dat shiit! Which one be "his secret is safe with u"?  Borrow d guy one punch below d belt or why not just spill d beans.. Is it until he drugs u b4 you'll know what to do ni? I sha don talk my own finish. *drops mic* |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by balash(m): 2:00pm On Jan 09, 2016*. Modified: 2:15pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Dude Can drug either your drink or food O!! Na after he don successfully destroy your yansh before you go know whatsapp abi. 1. When next you wanna talk stylishly get it on video without his knowledge and let him spill more secrets, how many people he has been down with etc. 2. Get his parents number on his phone without his knowledge. 3. You sef get someone you can confide in and reveal everything and show the video or transfer to someone else's phone then sit him down for the last time and give him a stern warning that you are strictly straight and when next this kind of situation occurs you won't find it funny. And tell him that you already inform some people about it already and they are on his radar because if you succeed in him not touching you, have you imagined if he tricks someone into your room and drug the person and anything silly happens? Nobody will understand you are not his partner in crime o? And don't underestimate such dudes they would have a very powerful father and they might push everything on your head. I don't know the solution to all this but brother this is a real poo O!! And it can turn into anything silly O. Be wary |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
So irritating.. Dis Gays should respect themselves.
Men are made for Women.. Lol |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by adexsimply(m): 2:18pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
As a guy, it's not really advisable to sleep very close to a homophile (male). It's just equivalent to you(straight) sleeping very close to a very hot girl. |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by adexsimply(m): 2:20pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
AyamBlaze:So you're advising him to spill the beans? it's not like you don't know our society's view on homosexualism |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by adexsimply(m): 2:21pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Adaure4ever:Who says men are made for women? BTW, are you related to Christina Milian? |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by AyamBlaze: 2:24pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
adexsimply:if DAT will force his homo roomie to get off his case, then, I don't see how spilling d beans isn't an option |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Gosh this is a tough one.You're talking about hurting him, your worried about your saftey -move out.Have you told him your uncomfortable with the idea of you and him together ? Maybe he needs a stern talking to,warn him that this is sexual harassment and you will report him of it if he doesn't stop.But if you still feel threatened you should move out, or report him if he won't stop bothering you.You shouldnt have to live in fear of rape. |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by Sammyblaq(m): 3:07pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Op don't leave the room instead the bastard leaves...
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Next time knack am elbow FOr head... no be blow |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by ShadowM(m): 3:32pm On Jan 11, 2016*. Modified: 7:38am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Well the best solution i can think of now is for you to leave the room because in either ways you kill or succumb to his act your future hangs in the balance... you could tell the other room members you prefer staying with them cook up a white LIE |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:49pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Why?
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| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by schumastic(m): 4:52pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Adaure4ever:too much make over but still cool makes you older cus am sure your younger than you look |
| Re: Help Me From An Homosexualist Roomate!! by torqque7(m): 5:08pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Hmm I know how u feel,experienced something close to that b4,u self get mind o to still sleep for same bed with am,mehn u could get drugged,I'll advice u to move out and warn the guy with all seriousness and tell him if he doesn't stop telling u crap ul expose his gay ass..its annoying thinking y a guy would be attracted to u,smh,guy give urself plenty brain. |
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