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After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obisunny1(op):
I received the most shocking news of my life, the girl I met during NYSC, we've dated for four years now. Am ready for marriage...I propose to her; do you know what she turned me down for no reason!!! please Advise me on what to do for am going mad here.

When I wanted to engage her last year she told me that she doesn't want to wear ring that is straight to marriage! I wasn't ready then. We love each other so well, she is the only one in my life, I call her "my light" or "the one" my four years of investment....am going wako, my leg can't not carry my body anymore!
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by goodmorning40: 9:07pm On Jan 10, 2016
maybe she's doing shakara, they say u don't say yes the first time maybe she's practicing that. give her time and ask again
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by yinkus4u2c(f): 9:11pm On Jan 10, 2016
4 years of friendship or courtship? Please be detailed
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by zyzxx(m): 9:17pm On Jan 10, 2016
Ogaa y u tell her since
Girls are not smiling
U just want to keep her as a friend for 4years not making ur intention known. Mba she don move on
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 10, 2016
If you are Going Mad because of that it means you are Destined to be Mad! Don't Blame it on the Poor Girl
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by onstelly(f): 9:21pm On Jan 10, 2016
Are you sure you guys were actually in a r/ship
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by IamLEGEND1: 9:22pm On Jan 10, 2016
e mean say another guy don chance you
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by fulfillbill(m): 9:27pm On Jan 10, 2016
1. How much did you invest?

2. Are you broke now?

3. Is she the only one in your life?

4. Why is it hard for you to move on?
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by fulfillbill(m): 9:28pm On Jan 10, 2016
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Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obiorathesubtle: 9:34pm On Jan 10, 2016
[color=#990100]guy.. Calm down.. Just kill yourself[/color]
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by Chanchit: 9:54pm On Jan 10, 2016
For a lady to reject a guy's marriage proposal in this dispensation weh husband scarce, just know you are ......pls remind me the opposite of useful.
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by flokii: 10:11pm On Jan 10, 2016
obisunny1:
I received the most shocking news of my life, the girl I met during NYSC, we've dated for four years now. Am ready for marriage...I propose to her; do you know what she turned me down for no reason!!! please Advise me on what to do for am going mad here.

When I wanted to engage her last year she told me that she doesn't want to wear ring that is straight to marriage! I wasn't ready then. We love each other so well, she is the only one in my life, I call her "my light" or "the one" my four years of investment....am going wako, my leg can't not carry my body anymore!
make I laff small abeg

grin grin cheesy


yeah!... so she said no?

are you sure she z not whyning you or could it be that you've been scammed

4 good years

CHAI!
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by onlineresource: 10:22pm On Jan 10, 2016
Boss. Trust me... That's her final answer.
Let me just tell you this. You have been friend zoned for 4 years of your life. While you thought you were in a relationship. She simply took you as her friend.

There is nothing else to it.

Was definitely in your shoes before. Mine to was 4 years. Though iIgot over it.

Don't worry. You will get over it. Because, the truth is that she's already dating someone else or has dated several others while you thought she was your light.

Peace
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by Laveda(f): 10:29pm On Jan 10, 2016
4years? embarassed
You both need to sit down and sort things out..if she doesn't accept you..please move on even if its hard..try cry you don't force love... cry

But that babe harsh sha cry.....
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by joliyp(f): 10:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
let her go
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obisunny1(op): 8:21am On Jan 11, 2016
yinkus4u2c:
4 years of friendship or courtship? Please be detailed
all put together!
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obisunny1(op): 8:22am On Jan 11, 2016
joliyp:
let her go
easy said than done
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obisunny1(op): 8:24am On Jan 11, 2016
flokii:
make I laff small abeg

grin grin cheesy


yeah!... so she said no?

are you sure she z not whyning you or could it be that you've been scammed

4 good years

CHAI!
I don't know what to believe!
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by obisunny1(op): 8:31am On Jan 11, 2016
onstelly:
Are you sure you guys were actually in a r/ship
yes!
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by flokii: 8:38am On Jan 11, 2016
obisunny1:
I don't know what to believe!
m really sorry bro...

it's quite painful... buh then shit happenz

you have to move on... God will shine another light in ur path
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by onstelly(f): 11:39am On Jan 11, 2016
obisunny1:
yes!
Well I don't know what to say again but maybe just maybe you are not really what she wants (which might not be the case oh) cos four years is a long time for her not to know
I guess you guys really need to talk, ask her reasons after everything if she still insist then is time to let go
Shit happens life goes on
Re: After Four Good Years Of Friendship!!! by MrCork: 8:48pm On Jan 11, 2016
yinkus4u2c:
4 years of friendship or courtship? Please be detailed
angry
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