I’m 28 years old and been married for 2 years with no kid.

My husband best friend who has been away for years came to Nigeria on the 3rd of this month for a project and I don’t know why but he was so caring and always complimented me even when my husband failed to notice my new hair or look. He had this beautiful girlfriend who always came to see him

On my birthday which was the 12th ,my husband traveled to England for what he called an urgent business deal leaving his friend and I. I didn’t plan on celebrating it but he forced me to go out to dinner. He said his girlfriend was going to be there. We went to the venue and he started telling me about their escapades in the University .

I was cool with it till he said my husband had a girl he wanted to marry but he couldn’t because she was Igbo. My hubby and I are yoruba. When I asked where she is now, he said she lives in London and has remained single since then.


I was heartbroken because I know my husband has been visiting the UK a lot and he never told me about her. He said I was his first love. I believed because we got married 8 months after we met.

I didn’t know when I started crying and we went home. I don’t know what happened but we slept together and it was after it was over I realized I made a big mistake and confronted him.

He laughed and said it was ok and told me it was a mistake and he would never ever tell anyone. My husband came back 4 days ago and I just couldn’t confront him and ask about his first love since I know what I did with his friend.

I was starting to push my fling to the back of my mind last week my hubby’s friend asked to borrow some money from me. I told him I didn’t have the money he was asking for which was 500k. He said it wasn’t a loan, he said it’s either I give him or he tells my husband what we did. He said I didn’t deserve his friend anyway and called me cheap.

I’m confused and can’t tell any of my friends because I don’t trust them. I also don’t know if to confess to my husband first before he blackmails me. Knowing my husband, it will be over and since I don’t have a kid, there is nothing tying him to me. Also I am not from a rich home though my husband spoils me a lot. Should I just pay his friend or tell my husband first? Please don’t judge me.

http://www.tellyouall.com/she-slept-with-her-husbands-friend-now-he-is-blackmailing-her/

Odikwa very risky o o,am coming lemme think

Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

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Don't give him money. Tell u hubby what happened and beg ur hubby to forgive u

This is strong, I have no advise .

Set him up..... Rape things! Then you open up that you have once noticed you woke up naked like u just had sex but cannot remember succumbing to sex when your husband wasn't around. your silence was because you had no proof.
... use this method if your sexcapade was not mutual....

This story is made in china soo fake

donogaga:
I’m 28 years old and been married for 2 years with no kid.

My husband best friend who has been away for years came to Nigeria on the 3rd of this month for a project and I don’t know why but he was so caring and always complimented me even when my husband failed to notice my new hair or look. He had this beautiful girlfriend who always came to see him

On my birthday which was the 12th ,my husband traveled to England for what he called an urgent business deal leaving his friend and I. I didn’t plan on celebrating it but he forced me to go out to dinner. He said his girlfriend was going to be there. We went to the venue and he started telling me about their escapades in the University .

I was cool with it till he said my husband had a girl he wanted to marry but he couldn’t because she was Igbo. My hubby and I are yoruba. When I asked where she is now, he said she lives in London and has remained single since then.


I was heartbroken because I know my husband has been visiting the UK a lot and he never told me about her. He said I was his first love. I believed because we got married 8 months after we met.

I didn’t know when I started crying and we went home. I don’t know what happened but we slept together and it was after it was over I realized I made a big mistake and confronted him.

He laughed and said it was ok and told me it was a mistake and he would never ever tell anyone. My husband came back 4 days ago and I just couldn’t confront him and ask about his first love since I know what I did with his friend.

I was starting to push my fling to the back of my mind last week my hubby’s friend asked to borrow some money from me. I told him I didn’t have the money he was asking for which was 500k. He said it wasn’t a loan, he said it’s either I give him or he tells my husband what we did. He said I didn’t deserve his friend anyway and called me cheap.

I’m confused and can’t tell any of my friends because I don’t trust them. I also don’t know if to confess to my husband first before he blackmails me. Knowing my husband, it will be over and since I don’t have a kid, there is nothing tying him to me. Also I am not from a rich home though my husband spoils me a lot. Should I just pay his friend or tell my husband first? Please don’t judge me.

http://www.tellyouall.com/she-slept-with-her-husbands-friend-now-he-is-blackmailing-her/

Please, confess your sins to God first and prayerfully tell your hubby you are sorry about what you did. You may wish to engage the counsel of your pastor accordingly. If you pay the money to your hubby's friend today, what makes you think he wont come back demanding another thing. You have made a mistake already, don't get blackmailed into losing more before everything falls apart because that will be too much of a disaster. May God help you.

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diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

And you think a man with such devilish and sinister plan won't have an evidence in this age and time?

Have you ruled out the possibility of a recording device like phone, wristwatch, pen, hidden camera etc.

My dear think

diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

Smh

donogaga:
I’m 28 years old and been married for 2 years with no kid.

My husband best friend who has been away for years came to Nigeria on the 3rd of this month for a project and I don’t know why but he was so caring and always complimented me even when my husband failed to notice my new hair or look. He had this beautiful girlfriend who always came to see him

On my birthday which was the 12th ,my husband traveled to England for what he called an urgent business deal leaving his friend and I. I didn’t plan on celebrating it but he forced me to go out to dinner. He said his girlfriend was going to be there. We went to the venue and he started telling me about their escapades in the University .

I was cool with it till he said my husband had a girl he wanted to marry but he couldn’t because she was Igbo. My hubby and I are yoruba. When I asked where she is now, he said she lives in London and has remained single since then.


I was heartbroken because I know my husband has been visiting the UK a lot and he never told me about her. He said I was his first love. I believed because we got married 8 months after we met.

I didn’t know when I started crying and we went home. I don’t know what happened but we slept together and it was after it was over I realized I made a big mistake and confronted him.

He laughed and said it was ok and told me it was a mistake and he would never ever tell anyone. My husband came back 4 days ago and I just couldn’t confront him and ask about his first love since I know what I did with his friend.

I was starting to push my fling to the back of my mind last week my hubby’s friend asked to borrow some money from me. I told him I didn’t have the money he was asking for which was 500k. He said it wasn’t a loan, he said it’s either I give him or he tells my husband what we did. He said I didn’t deserve his friend anyway and called me cheap.

I’m confused and can’t tell any of my friends because I don’t trust them. I also don’t know if to confess to my husband first before he blackmails me. Knowing my husband, it will be over and since I don’t have a kid, there is nothing tying him to me. Also I am not from a rich home though my husband spoils me a lot. Should I just pay his friend or tell my husband first? Please don’t judge me.

http://www.tellyouall.com/she-slept-with-her-husbands-friend-now-he-is-blackmailing-her/

cut the crap woman and confess to your husband. its your actions, you weren't forced into it so face the consequences of your act in good faith. to he'll with your blackmailer, he is not your hubby's friend but his enemy in disguise. no matter how long you pay him the truth will still be out sooner than you expect. He will keep coming back to ask for more SeX. better you open up to your man yourself than him earing it from elsewhere. If he is your God choose husband you both will be back together, if not then move on with your life. BUT WAHALAI YOU NO TRY O.

diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

are you a woman you must have a wicked heart. You are even worse than the blackmailer. Christ!!!!!

How many times will this same story feature on NL?

cococandy:
How many times will this same story feature on NL?

Every month

freshvine:


And you think a man with such devilish and sinister plan won't have an evidence in this age and time?

Have you ruled out the possibility of a recording device like phone, wristwatch, pen, hidden camera etc.

My dear think

That was why I stated it there. Did you read my post well at all? Secondly there is also a probability he might not have evidence, he's probably just instilling fear into the woman so that he can manipulate her. I mean you weren't there, so don't act like you know everything

taryour:



are you a woman you must have a wicked heart. You are even worse than the blackmailer. Christ!!!!!

Sorry for you! Unfortunately you are the wicked soul here. It's people like you that will mislead this lady into ruining her marriage when if you were in her shoes you would have done worse. Hypocrite!! you are expecting me to advice her to confess to her husband, my dear, when you get married if you aren't already , you will know that it's not everything you tell your husband. She has made a mistake that she is remorseful for. So why lead her to make a second mistake that can potentially ruin her home

diva90:


Sorry for you! Unfortunately you are the wicked soul here. It's people like you that will mislead this lady into ruining her marriage when if you were in her shoes you would have done worse. Hypocrite!! you are expecting me to advice her to confess to her husband, my dear, when you get married if you aren't already , you will know that it's not everything you tell your husband. She has made a mistake that she is remorseful for. So why lead her to make a second mistake that can potentially ruin her home

Oh i see how less a hypocrite you are. So you would rather leave under a roof with your husband and sleeping on the same bed, eating from same plate and keep such info from your man. And you claim you love him? Its the likes of you that poinson thier husbands to prevent them from knowing the truths.

I repeat you have a wicked heart and if you can do what you have typed then your are worse than the blackmailer. How can you leave under same roof with a man you claim you love with such event eating up your heart? yes it could be true that you dont disclose everything ( which i personally dont believe in and yes i am a married woman with kids ) but not in this type of thing.

What happens when the husband eventualy finds out the truth What will you do You can lie for years bit definately one day the truth will catch up with you.

SHAME on you if you are a woman. I hope you dont go planting such thoughts in your daughters head.

diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

Madam, and u think men are that dumb? If only u were a guy u would know her hubby will start suspecting when she starts talking. The truth of the matter is to tell the truth. One lie begets another so tell the whole truth. Madam let me tell u there are men that can joke with their friends about almost anything including their wives so if her husband and his friend are those types believe it when I tell u that her hubby may already know from the friend what happened.

diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

You sound like a woman who has passed through such before.

taryour:


Oh i see how less a hypocrite you are. So you would rather leave under a roof with your husband and sleeping on the same bed, eating from same plate and keep such info from your man. And you claim you love him? Its the likes of you that poinson thier husbands to prevent them from knowing the truths.

I repeat you have a wicked heart and if you can do what you have typed then your are worse than the blackmailer. How can you leave under same roof with a man you claim you love with such event eating up your heart? yes it could be true that you dont disclose everything ( which i personally dont believe in and yes i am a married woman with kids ) but not in this type of thing.

What happens when the husband eventualy finds out the truth What will you do You can lie for years bit definately one day the truth will catch up with you.

SHAME on you if you are a woman. I hope you dont go planting such thoughts in your daughters head.

No! SHAME ON YOU!! Because you don't think like a wise woman.
Okay! She confesses, he sends her packing... What next Marriage done end... You have succeeded in helping her ruin her marriage. She even specified it in her write up that the man will send her packing if he finds out, read it again.
In this world we all have our secrets including you... Including her husband. Do you think the man doesn't have things he has kept to himself that the wife doesn't know?? Or Can you honestly say that you have never lied in this life or hidden a truth that would have deprived you of a benefit?? Answer na! Because you are a Saint that can never do wrong Abi?
You are entitled to your silly opinion but I'm trying to be as practical and as realistic as I can be with the Poster. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. When you run into your own problems, handle it the way you have prescribed and let's see if you will survive it.

cococandy:
How many times will this same story feature on NL?

I tire ooo. This story is more than 2 years old for here naaaa

diva90:


No! SHAME ON YOU!! Because you don't think like a wise woman.
Okay! She confesses, he sends her packing... What next Marriage done end... You have succeeded in helping her ruin her marriage. She even specified it in her write up that the man will send her packing if he finds out, read it again.
In this world we all have our secrets including you... Including her husband. Do you think the man doesn't have things he has kept to himself that the wife doesn't know?? Or Can you honestly say that you have never lied in this life or hidden a truth that would have deprived you of a benefit?? Answer na! Because you are a Saint that can never do wrong Abi?
You are entitled to your silly opinion but I'm trying to be as practical and as realistic as I can be with the Poster. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. When you run into your own problems, handle it the way you have prescribed

Spare me all this rant abeg and say it to the dogs.

taryour:


Spare me all this rant abeg and say it to the dogs.

Whatever bit*ch! Unfortunately the truth hurts!

diva90:


Whatever bit*ch! Unfortunately the truth hurts!

I have better things doing than exchanging words with a retarded fool on a faceless forum.

taryour:


I have better things doing than exchanging words with a retarded fool on a faceless forum.

Evidently you do for you to have replied that last post and I'm sure your worthless self will still come back here to reply this one. acting like you are busy when we all know that you are nothing but a jobless idiot seeking so badly her 5 mins of fame. Educated illiterate with no common sense

You are now scared of telling him the truth because you know he will send you packing, but same thought never occurred to you when your legs where widespread. If your hubby is smart, he will definitely find out because you will loose guard when the wind of doubt (not knowing if he has or hasn't told ur hubby) come crashing on you.
Well the matter is simple, you give money once, he will keep coming back (even asking for additional kpekus). You don't give he will indirectly blackmail you and you still get kicked out.
Worst even is that no kids in the marriage, which is even a passport to your exit. So pack you luggage as you will be on ur way soon or even soonest.

In summation, YOU LOST THIS BATTLE.....

taryour:



are you a woman you must have a wicked heart. You are even worse than the blackmailer. Christ!!!!!

wicked heart indeed



It's not a single to implicate anybody who's trying to ruin you so before he even does that give him a rapist tag.then he'll have no power over her or would you rather have his friend ruining her marriage by what he caused

HIDDENSECRECY:
You are now scared of telling him the truth because you know he will send you packing, but same thought never occurred to you when your legs where widespread. If your hubby is smart, he will definitely find out because you will loose guard when the wind of doubt (not knowing if he has or hasn't told ur hubby) come crashing on you.
Well the matter is simple, you give money once, he will keep coming back (even asking for additional kpekus). You don't give he will indirectly blackmail you and you still get kicked out.
Worst even is that no kids in the marriage, which is even a passport to your exit. So pack you luggage as you will be on ur way soon or even soonest.

In summation, YOU LOST THIS BATTLE.....

it's only a daft woman that will follow this stupidity typed here.Op accept this at your own peril.you have to follow divas suggestion if you still love yourself. That's where your emotional strength is needed moreso he doesn't have evidence since there was no picture taken it will only make ur hubby friend look stupid

diva90:


No! SHAME ON YOU!! Because you don't think like a wise woman.
Okay! She confesses, he sends her packing... What next Marriage done end... You have succeeded in helping her ruin her marriage. She even specified it in her write up that the man will send her packing if he finds out, read it again.
In this world we all have our secrets including you... Including her husband. Do you think the man doesn't have things he has kept to himself that the wife doesn't know?? Or Can you honestly say that you have never lied in this life or hidden a truth that would have deprived you of a benefit?? Answer na! Because you are a Saint that can never do wrong Abi?
You are entitled to your silly opinion but I'm trying to be as practical and as realistic as I can be with the Poster. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. When you run into your own problems, handle it the way you have prescribed and let's see if you will survive it.

you have said it all