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I guess after 8 years of dating, on and off, the guy has come to the conclusion that the lady is not someone he can spend the rest of his life with and he simply use this Headies saga to dump her. How sad!
She shared are story with Stella. Read what happened between the lovers… I’m 33. I’ve been dating this guy since 2008. We served together but started dating after service. He left the country in 2008 but we have been dating since then. I’ve had a couple of “serious relationships” but somehow they keep getting messed up and I keep going back to him. He has been awesome and treats me well. He loves and respects me and sometimes I get irritated because he doesn’t have a mind of his own. We do anything I want to do, and I’d prefer someone who would make major decisions sometimes. I have visited him a couple of times in the UK.

so day before yesterday we were skyping and inside the gist he asked me what I think about the Olamide/Donjazzy ish. And I said I think they were both wrong, Olamide shouldn’t have thrown a tantrum and Don J should have just ignored. Boyfriend starts saying Donjazzy is a pretender, etc etc and as far as Olamide has apologized it’s ok. I told him not to judge as he doesn’t know what goes on in the life of these people but My crime was to say that saying sorry does not wipe away your f-up as you might say sorry and the person says it’s ok but it doesn’t change what you have done or the pain you have caused. Gbam.
My guy starts shouting that Im mean and unforgiving. At first I thought it was a joke because we were having a healthy argument till I realised he wasn’t joking. Like joke he ended the relationship saying he’s not sure he can be with someone who can make a comment like that (saying sorry doesn’t right your wrongs) and went off the line. I’m still confused. I can categorically state that I never disrespected him or raised my voice. A part of me is finding it funny cos if someone asks why we are not together am I supposed to say we broke up on top of Donjazzy and Olamide argument?

I called yesterday and all he said was that it wouldn’t work. I can’t apologize for having an opinion but I’m scared. Will I meet someone else? Or am I supposed to remove my heart from a 7 year relationship because of this? I know it sounds unbelievable because people have posted chronicles and I have rolled my eyes and asked myself “who dis one wan lie to”, but it is true. Please post this, Stella, under chronicles or in house gist I don’t even know. I shouldn’t be finding it funny because we were supposed to do our traditional wedding in April.
Someone Please help me make sense. Am I supposed to beg?

ok

now she go turn to feminist in the near future

OP.this story is stale

Michellla:
OP.this story is stale

stale...as in

to beg will be the best option my lady

What a lame excuse!

No be new thing, even 5 naira pure water fit breakup R/ship, and by the way the girl na idiiot 8 years dating abi 8 years imprisonment.

I understand the guy more she does, he did the right thing, sometimes u have to show people that u are incharge, not them

Hahahaha

ritababe:
No be new thing, even 5 naira pure water fit breakup R/ship, and by the way the girl na idiiot 8 years dating abi 8 years imprisonment.

na love

Ayoemrys:
to beg will be the best option my lady

abi

emmyluizzz:
na love

no thats lust mr, and after 8 years time to get married, instead of him to say hes tired of the R/ship, im dey talk nonsense.

God bears me witness, the same issue led to an hot arguement between I and my girlfriend. I had to handle it maturely very quick before it goes out of hand. We had to stopped chatting that day. She even called me names.

She said she was with Reekardo coz his music has good lyrics and makes meaning while Lil Kesh sang rubbish with foul languages also filled with almost nude video of ladies dancing.

My take was that Kiss or Korede should have it if not Lil Kesh instead of Reekardo. At parties, you'll see guys asking for Kesh's shoki, lyrically nd others, the same with Kiss Laye nd Woju not leaving Korede's Godwin behind. The last request will definitely go to Rekardo's katapot. Don't get me wrong, its a very good song but its not a danceable street song.

I agreed that Kesh's foul slangs could be a minus to him truly but that is what makes the street. He had several hits, more collabos, a dance style adopted by an american artist

Then my girlfriend said only tout will listen and support Kesh on this, moving further to say Olamide nd Kesh are my mentors.

I wonder what that had to do with me....then asked her if she is calling me a tout. She said she isn't but if I think I am then so be it.

I felt very angry, insulted and embarrassed. I wanted to say things, insult her and lash her but I know she'll reply and that would make me more angry and hence can led to a break up.

I just contolled myself, thanked her and bade her bye for the day. A day after she pinged nd chat with me but I didn't reply her. She asked me to call her yet I didn't. 2days after she called, text and chat to apologize....then all went normal

akinsmyk:
God bears me witness, the same issue led to an hot arguement between I and my girlfriend. I had to handle it maturely very quick before it goes out of hand. We had to stopped chatting that day. She even called me names.

She said she was with Reekardo coz his music has good lyrics and makes meaning while Lil Kesh sang rubbish with foul languages also filled with almost nude video of ladies dancing.

My take was that Kiss or Korede should have it if not Lil Kesh instead of Reekardo. At parties, you'll see guys asking for Kesh's shoki, lyrically nd others, the same with Kiss Laye nd Woju not leaving Korede's Godwin behind. The last request will definitely go to Rekardo's katapot. Don't get me wrong, its a very good song but its not a danceable street song.

I agreed that Kesh's foul slangs could be a minus to him truly but that is what makes the street. He had several hits, more collabos, a dance style adopted by an american artist

Then my girlfriend said only tout will listen and support Kesh on this, moving further to say Olamide nd Kesh are my mentors.

I wonder what that had to do with me....then asked her if she is calling me a tout. She said she isn't but if I think I am then so be it.

I felt very angry, insulted and embarrassed. I wanted to say things, insult her and lash her but I know she'll reply and that would make me more angry and hence can led to a break up.

I just contolled myself, thanked her and bade her bye for the day. A day after she pinged nd chat with me but I didn't reply her. She asked me to call her yet I didn't. 2days after she called, text and chat to apologize....then all went normal

oboi see gob
e...tank God u guys did not break up