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Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by WhatOnEarth: 5:20pm On Jan 16, 2016
You are yet to tell us what you are calling for help for. Here are three question to help you think it through.

Are you having a problem with the man's profession?
Are you having a problem with the man's education (you didn't even bother to mention that in your post)?
Are you having a problem with the man's financial status?

Until you answer each of these, you'll persist in calling for help to no avail. By the way, you say your sister is 28. How many more years you think she can spend at home. Or do you have some doctor man you want to marry her to? Just beware cos in two years' time she may turn sugar mummy carrying young hustlers around in her fine jeep. That time you go see fight fight tire.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ewizard1: 5:20pm On Jan 16, 2016
badostic:
You guys will do yourselves a great deal by rushing to Mountain of Fire and Miracles ministries for a 5 days Deliverance programme on her bahalf. The guy has used heavy charms on our Doctor and wants to cause your family pains. Please do not forget to keep me informed on the outcome and thank me.
Please sir, what do you DO?
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2016
ADENIKETINA2015:
He could be a professional Shoe Cobbler you know. Don't just conclude

Don't mind him fashion industry guys and photographers out earn me a photographer I know gets like 500k monthly OP you're being small minded
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2016
Its a pity op, you and your parents are shallow minded.. am a graduate Bsc Marine biology but due to the passion I have in fashion.. I then delved into dressmaking.. I started as a dressmaker but in the recent years I became a top fashion designer.. I drive a nice lovely Jeep car. I reside in one of the posh estate on the island, I opened a fashion company some years back on the mainland ... all these I made through dressmaking in a space of two years.. and my brand name is everywhere online.. have been interviewed both in nija and abroad..
All these through sewing and rebranding ..

Pls allow your graduate sister marry her choice.. it's love...she's sees beyond what U guys see in her man...
Don't undermine any profession or skill.. pls

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Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by davewhizy: 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2016
2kay no see dis girl wen he sing who no like beta thing....make you see bah....in warri ascent...see 'en dia. grin
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ChynoBEATS: 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2016
Dotmax53:
a SHOE MAKER for a Medicine graduate...
Guy R u sure of it... Or they're both pretending?

Try Deep scan the guy to see if it's true........












These days peeps pretend ....
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ChelseaDr(m): 5:27pm On Jan 16, 2016
Abraham Lincoln's father was a shoe maker!!

Op in case you don't know him, he was and still is the greatest President America has ever had!
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ideyhere(f): 5:27pm On Jan 16, 2016
First of all, what led him to that situation? Like failed business? Went to school but couldn't land a job? You know all these normal Nollywood kinda stories grin

Second of all, please enlighten us...Shebi na original shoemaker abi naa all these roadside shoe repairers? You know like the nursery rhyme "cobbler cobbler mend my shoe" lipsrsealed

Third of all grin what is your sister, apart from a graduate that is? After all we all know that to become a graduate in Nigeria isn't that much of a big deal again. And that there are graduates with a mighty BUT attached to theirs grin
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Mhizkel(f): 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2016
CELEBRITIZ:
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he asked for a cogent opinion not insult.
i still don't know y Nigeria can't advice someone without being inimical, can't ur reply b didactic?
He asked for help rather.
Which means he's seeking for a way to stop his sister from getting married to a shoe maker.
Hope this one is didactic enough?
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Lexusgs430: 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2016
Hugo Boss, Armani, Louis V, H.Bass, Russell and Bromley, Church, etc etc
Are all shoemakers, so what's your headache?
Love goes skin-deep than material worth!!!
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 16, 2016
I know you and your parents wont have reacted that way if perhaps he is based in Uk or US while engaging in his shoe maker's trade. ABI NA LIE ?

Moral of the Lesson
It pays to be a shoe maker and Mechanic in UK/US than in Nigeria.

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Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by baaliyah(m): 5:31pm On Jan 16, 2016
I am a tailor, and ur sister who is a fresh graduate is not qualified to be my wife, if I want to marry today.

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Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by mikki123(m): 5:34pm On Jan 16, 2016
I think your sister loves his future... The man has a great future, i can feel it
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Sleekyshuga(f): 5:35pm On Jan 16, 2016
I thought there was a difference from a shoe mender and a shoe maker undecided..

If he is a shoe maker, then what's the fuss about? I have a church bro who started with mending shoes, moved on to making his.. The last time I passed his shop, I was surprised.. In 5 years, he has grown and expanded his business..

It's her choice and her life.. Do not be a stumbling block to her happiness.. She is seeing a greater person in him..
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by UjSizzle(f): 5:36pm On Jan 16, 2016
Amazing how guys like to moan about ladies choosing to marry men of considerably high standard, yet cry for help when their own sister chooses to marry supposedly beneath her standard.

Such an irony cheesy
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by UjSizzle(f): 5:38pm On Jan 16, 2016
mikki123:
I think your sister loves his future... The man has a great future, i can feel it
Abi o. He could be the next Loubs as far as Africa is concerned and this fella has refused to see ahead with his sister.

OP free the girl. If this is what she wants, allow her.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Forwetinnah: 5:38pm On Jan 16, 2016
If to say him tell OP and him parents say him study "footwear engineering" ; dem for clap for am and ask am which day him go bring the Bride Price
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Dindondin(m): 5:39pm On Jan 16, 2016
ADENIKETINA2015:
Maybe she didn't have shoes while growing up











Or Could this be LOVE NairalandERS?
its fiction.
the op is an attention seeker
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Socketbet: 5:45pm On Jan 16, 2016
Those days that she will call for some money and you tell her nothing at hand and same shoe maker gives her kwan..,...
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by bigtt76(f): 5:45pm On Jan 16, 2016
Na her choice and besides with her degree she can help mould the husband to be into a more productive shoemaker .....leave her alone!
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by ElCapone(m): 5:45pm On Jan 16, 2016
Ahmed0336:
Since u no reveal their level of education i ll assume that he is Primary school certificate holder and your sister a secondarian. If na my family we go dey postpone the matter till him give up grin
Kama tadinun tidanun, Quranic verse saying as u do to others, expect same in full measure.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Ehinmola(m): 5:50pm On Jan 16, 2016
Love is blind o. Where love has gone. No charm joo. She must marry him or do u want to marry her urself?
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by TruthHurts1(m): 5:50pm On Jan 16, 2016
Thank you for sharing your Nollywood script with nairalanders
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by amokemi(m): 5:51pm On Jan 16, 2016
If you have never been in such situations you can't really appreciate what the op is saying. All the people condemning the op and his family are just ignorant of the situation on ground. As long as the shoemaker guy is not as educated as the lady, their marriage will continue to experience some level of issues. It would have been a bit better if it's the guy that is more educated than the lady, but with the lady more educated than the guy, there will be perennial problems.

Op, please u and your family members should take this matter to God in prayers. The love your sister claims to have for this guy is not natural, there are some elements of juju in it.

I'm in your shoes also at the moment. Mine is even worse cos my own sister has given birth to a child for the guy, a secondary school dropout panel beater and she has absconded with him. It's over a year that we have not known her whereabouts. No form of communication.

Please pray very well. I trust God to intervene and set your sister free from the bondage she's in.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Ayauche(f): 6:00pm On Jan 16, 2016
My dear it depends on the level of shoemaker he is but the way u put am, make am be like say na all dese N10, N20 shoe mender u dey talk which I doubt and if he's that kind then Eleyi gidi gan. On the other hand if he's a big tym cobbler as in making shoes, has a big shop and even pple working 4 him then let her be. All the same whether small or big, the most important thing is "is he a graduate?" Cos wahala fit happen if he's nt later in that marriage.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 16, 2016
At least the school dropout has a job.. he's a panel beater.. if everyone shies away from such jobs.. who will panel beat our cars for us at moderate price.. at least she's not begging family to feed her child and husband.. as you guys are not supporting her.. she needs to keep clear from U guys.. let her live in her destiny pls
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Coolguy89(m): 6:03pm On Jan 16, 2016
Shoemaker no be human being,maybe she sees a lot of potentials in him.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by tpiah2: 6:04pm On Jan 16, 2016
She should make sure she is the panel beater's wife though, not his baby mama.


Go to the nearest registry and legalize the union.

If you're going to do it like that, then do it well.

lord have mercy.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 16, 2016
For crying out loud,the guy is an entrepreneur,a CEO and chairman of his firm. Let your sister follow her heart desire. It's unfortunate folks like you kill people's dream faster than Nigeria.
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 16, 2016
There's a panel beater on my street.. he does his job so well that people from far patronizes him.. he s 28 years. He has a pretty wife a kid and recently now new twins boys.. his first kid attend a private school.. his wife own a supermarket shop.. he works so hard and so good.. and his kids very fresh.. so what r we talking about here..
Abeg no make me vex angry
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by Godmother(f): 6:09pm On Jan 16, 2016
firstking01:
Hmmm...e be like say i don watch this nollywood film before...the guy na ramsey noah why the girl na omotalasad

No be only 'omotala' na 'omotalo' you go see
Re: Help!!! My Graduate Sister Brought A Shoemaker As Her Husband To Be by mathewmozay: 6:16pm On Jan 16, 2016
You people should leave her alone because she might turn the guy to a certain person eventually. Let her help the guy , God will bless her abundantly.

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