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Re: Early Marriage In Islam by HCF(m): 10:20am On Jan 22, 2016 |
Thoughtful and apt piece!. But,there are many challenges standing in the way of many Muslim singles these days...May Allah help us. |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by captaing59(m): 10:22am On Jan 22, 2016 |
Deejay1000: I only subscribe to your second point....the rest are not problems 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by HCF(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2016 |
JackBizzle:I quite agree with all your points,especially the 4th. May Allah make it easier for us to carry out our earthly responsibilities. 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by Deejay1000(m): 10:30am On Jan 22, 2016 |
captaing59: tell me about it |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by sms87: 10:52am On Jan 22, 2016 |
personal59:Aameen, thanks 4 d good write up |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by dazsolution(m): 10:59am On Jan 22, 2016 |
Marriage is Sunnah, part of our religion. (A) Marry & be rewarded (B) Fornicate & be punished. A good Muslim should not even 'go near' the option B.
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Re: Early Marriage In Islam by muhakeem(m): 11:07am On Jan 22, 2016 |
ilyas26:but u can have sex.. but u like the word early fornication..., do what pleases God and not yhu 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by tng(f): 11:07am On Jan 22, 2016 |
balash: Much as you are right, we cant shy away from the fact that early marriage has been bastardized by some Muslims to a large extent. I guess that what he was trying to say. @OP Marriage has not stopped anyone from committing zina or adultery so its only the fear of Allah that can do this. 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by muhakeem(m): 11:10am On Jan 22, 2016 |
Ayaba03:nice one from u.... my elder sister did same and she graduated with two kids and her result Insha'Allah 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by gaffig: 12:02pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
. Marrying early is great but we must consider the variables, especially the kind of partner we want before we enter into it. Salaam. Well there are things to learn b4 going into it but ur points don't tally wt them, u are speaking from ur View but Allah's view is the perfect one, Pls learn more abt Islam, Salam alaeykum [/quote] |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Mehn... So with all the high incidence of vvf raging over underdeveloped countries, people are still talking of child marriages?... More sickening is the weak attempt at disguising it in the name of early marriage Pls Nigerans, let's stop sacrificing common sense, humanity and literacy on the altar of religion. Condemn what is evil. Let this young girls go to school to make a future for themselves. They weren't called to be slaves or to be locked up in our kitchens 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by SweetSoup(m): 12:04pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Jazakallahu Khairan Op, i totally believe in the concept of early marriage by mutual consent (not forced marriage ooh). May Almighty Allah bless all men and women who are still praying for a life partner, and may Allah bless all those who are praying for children and bless us too. |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by nijabazaar: 12:18pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
OldJohn: Yes o, Seconded.... GALS SHOULD GO TO SCHOOL AND BE ABLE TO DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES....A trained woman (educated in modern education) is a great blessing to the nation. An educated gal makes informed decisions especially on the number of children she can have and take care of. An educated woman will understand the need for family planning and not breeding for breeding sake. An educated woman often, repeat often , ensures her children goes to school...not just Arabic education. STOP VVF at all cost....even if it means going against tradition. 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by verycheese: 1:26pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
May Allah help us to be better muslims. 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by ridious(m): 1:53pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
[color=#006600][/color][size=8pt][/size]5) Pedophilia has to be mentioned here. How early is "too early"? This is because, it is common now both in the north for some people to look for brides as young as 14. Say "NO" to such practices. Say "NO" to VVF. [/quote] [b]5) but pls let me ask you a question, HOW OLD WAS AISHA WHEN SHE MARRIED THE PROPHET? Let try to understand this concept that; if you can't do better in your act of ibadah, don't critise those trying to accomplish theirs. EARY MARRIAGE IS SUNNAH |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by balash(m): 1:56pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
tng: Yea I understand that, but I guess that issue is with the government, they need to have a specified age for marriage in nigeria and surely without the intent of the prophet married young. We need to understand nigeria is not an islamic country as well as marriage for little girls are bastardized sincerely. That thoughts of marrying girls less than 18 is absurd. Poverty and lack of education is surely part and parcel of this problem. And surely needs been visited. May the Good lord guide us to the right Path. 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by AABT: 2:26pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
jazakallahu khairan! very well written... may Almighty Allah bless us with d best of spouses |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by Trottle: 4:02pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
OldJohn: Such nonsensical generalization. A girl in modern times can be through with her studies at 21, could have gotten a job or become self- employed at 22. And she Can MARRY at that 22. A 21-22 year old is fit to marry and this is an EARLY marriage. Stop skewing things to suit your assumptions. we are no morons here, Good day. |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by muraj1(m): 4:59pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
JackBizzle: Salaam alaykum, No matter the variables, our sincerity is the most important. If we have good intention and sincerely put our trust in Allah, we will certainly succeed in all our endeavors. Islam is not particular about age but the people involved should be matured and of sound mind. As Muslims, we should educate themselves (and our children) worldly and religiously. We all try to rely on our intellects to make every decisions like non-muslims forgetting that Allah (SWT) blessed us with a divine compass (solatul istikhara) to be used for divine guidance in all our endeavors. Lastly, let all of us know that whatever we do sincerely for the sake of Allah, we will never regret. Maa salaam |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by Walexz02(m): 5:05pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
Nice write up op, may Allah reward you |
Re: Early Marriage In Islam by PHEMIEY(m): 5:59pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
daretodiffer: yh..so on point |
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