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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:02am On Jan 25, 2016
ChynoBEATS:



He used you to get a permanent Entry ....


Sue him if you have too


...... And 2ndly which registry did you Guys register your marriage?

...


This is so unfair ...he used you angry

Some men ehn..

Please explain to me if you care:

1) Sue him exactly for what?

2) Is there a precedence suit that you can reference?

Even if she can sue, that's going to be like throwing good money after bad money but I wait to learn from you.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:19am On Jan 25, 2016
ChynoBEATS:



He used you to get a permanent Entry ....


Sue him if you have too


...... And 2ndly which registry did you Guys register your marriage?

...

















This is so unfair ...he used you angry

Some men ehn..

You're so dumb.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:29am On Jan 25, 2016
With your written English, i know fully well you ain't no goddam American.

I know how Americans write.
Secondly, you want to know if the marriage certificate is fake or not ??
If it's fake, you said you will contact your lawyer and have your alleged husband deported because he used you.

OK, what if we tell you the marriage certificate is genuine, what will you do ?? Still go after him ?? Or will you allow him stay in America ??
So, why do you wanna know if it's fake or genuine if you will still get him deported the end of the day.

I know your ulterior motives, you want to potray Nigerian men as evil.

You claim to be an American but the Nigerians here are telling you how your laws work in America.

Fucck out of here.
Only dogs and goats will fall for this scam

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:31am On Jan 25, 2016
ChynoBEATS:



He used you to get a permanent Entry ....


Sue him if you have too


...... And 2ndly which registry did you Guys register your marriage?

...

















This is so unfair ...he used you angry

Some men ehn..

I'm so sorry to say this.
You're a dumb ignorant motherfucker.

Why don't you stick to the ewudu and Amala ?? That's the only thing you can do.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:36am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women.....Wow, harsh words. You wishbto see me and strangle me to death, huh? You have to find me first. I'm in Chicago....come find me, I'll be waiting.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:41am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Addicted2Women.....Wow, harsh words. You wishbto see me and strangle me to death, huh? You have to find me first. I'm in Chicago....come find me, I'll be waiting.

Give me your home address.
Fake ass hoe

Biitch, I'm not a kid.
I see scam written all over your face

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:45am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women Find me.....I came in peace and spoke the truth. Evidently you ignorant and think I'm lying. Well, I wanna see how you gonna make your desire a reality. So, I will be expecting you.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:47am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women Also, what face? You ain't seen me YET. LOL
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:52am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Addicted2Women Find me.....I came in peace and spoke the truth. Evidently you ignorant and think I'm lying. Well, I wanna see how you gonna make your desire a reality. So, I will be expecting you.

OK
You came in peace ??
Your written English is perfect, that sold you out, you ain't no goddam American.

Just give me your home address or do you want me to you mine ??
You can fix a place we can meet.

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 6:56am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Addicted2Women Find me.....I came in peace and spoke the truth. Evidently you ignorant and think I'm lying. Well, I wanna see how you gonna make your desire a reality. So, I will be expecting you.

I live in Wentworth
You can show up at the Chicago police department tomorrow.
If you ain't a scam, just show up.

If you want that your alleged husband deported, just come to the Chicago police department

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Lexusgs430: 6:56am On Jan 25, 2016
I am sure Portsmouth86 would soon navigate to this thread!!!

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Lexusgs430: 7:01am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women:


Give me your home address.
Fake ass hoe

Biitch, I'm not a kid.
I see scam written all over your face

Is it your addiction pulling you towards LAjibade? I hear you are called addicted2women.
Pls take it calm with this lady, she has a right to ask questions.

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:03am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women yeah, OK
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by FemoLondon: 7:06am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women:
....
Just tell us the name of the alleged husband if this is true.
I practice law in two states, New York and Pennsylvania and I'm Nigerian.
Please, try this elsewhere........

Very good point .... you have exposed a possible scam here by the OP .....

Though, I do not think you are a lawyer in America ... no self respecting lawyer will put a picture like you have on your DP ... a selfie with your shirtless body, sticking your tongue out and grabbing your junk .... good grief lad

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:07am On Jan 25, 2016
Lexusgs430 Thank you Lexusgs430, I appreciate that
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:11am On Jan 25, 2016
Addicted2Women I already gave you his name....go back and look it up
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 7:11am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Addicted2Women yeah, OK

Are you gonna show up or not ??
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by tafrica(m): 7:13am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Lexusgs430 Thank you Lexusgs430, I appreciate that

You wish to know if the marriage is fake, people are asking salient questions like the pictures, which court did it take place and all other relevant issues, but you chose to unlook them.

How do they help you in this situation? You seem like someone that just wants to scam Nigerians by appearing as an American woman in your story.

Can you meet Addicted2Women at Chicago police station as he asked you?
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 7:16am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Addicted2Women I already gave you his name....go back and look it up

This is the name you gave me.
I called the guy on phone, he will like to know how you got his name.

Ok, he might be the alleged Nigerian who dumped you.
Why can't you come to the Chicago police department so we can help you get him deported

Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:24am On Jan 25, 2016
tafrica Are you outta your mind? Addicted2Women just posted a threat to strangle me to death if he can only see my face, and I am just gonna help him? One thing is "Come find me and try" and another is putting myself in his hands.....I'll just sit here and wait to see how he gonna find me...
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 7:26am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
tafrica Are you outta your mind? Addicted2Women just posted a threat to strangle me to death if he can only see my face, and I am just gonna help him? One thing is "Come find me and try" and another is putting myself in his hands.....I'll just sit here and wait to see how he gonna find me...

I will strangle you to death at the Police station ?
How foolish are you ??
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:32am On Jan 25, 2016
My question is a general one. I can not post actual documents.with personal information in it, his photo and so on online. That is not legal to expose someone like that. One can face charges for putting someone's personal info on the internet without his/her consent. I just came here for a general answer as to does Nigerian actually put an expiration date on marriage linceses. When I say I'm an American, I mean an American citizen. Smh!!

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by tafrica(m): 7:43am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
tafrica Are you outta your mind? Addicted2Women just posted a threat to strangle me to death if he can only see my face, and I am just gonna help him? One thing is "Come find me and try" and another is putting myself in his hands.....I'll just sit here and wait to see how he gonna find me...

I won't trade insult with you but I'm sure you could read "Chicago police Station" I wasn't asking you to give him your home address.

The onus lies on you to prove your story is not fake. You sound like a scammer and I won't join other Nigerians to help you achieve your missions of painting us black in our faces and also getting the potential clients you want to scam by faking American woman.

Tell us the court where the wedding took place in Nigeria.

Did any member of your family partake in the wedding?

Did any member of your 'claimed husband' partake?

Post your wedding pictures?

With which certificate did you petition for him to come over to USA? if it is what you posted, you as well know US won't honour it.

Untill you clear our doubts, you're a scammer.

AGAIN, I CHALLENGE YOU TO GO MEET ADDICTED2WOMEN AT CHICAGO POLICE STATION.
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 7:47am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
My question is a general one. I can not post actual documents.with personal information in it, his photo and so on online. That is not legal to expose someone like that. One can face charges for putting someone's personal info on the internet without his/her consent. I just came here for a general answer as to does Nigerian actually put an expiration date on marriage linceses. When I say I'm an American, I mean an American citizen. Smh!!

Ok.
If the answer is yes.
What are you gonna do about the guy who played you.

If the answer is no.
What actions would you take ??

Why won't you come to the Chicago police department and file some charges against your husband ??
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Bishops10(m): 7:50am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Hello everyone. I have a question and was hoping you could shed me some light in a matter. I am in America. I went to Nigeria in 2011 and married my husband. I petition for him in 2012 and he arrived to America in 2013. Three months later he left. He is here in America, just not with me. He just left once he received his social security number, his permanent visa and a job in two months of being here. I haven't heard from him nor seen him again. I been wondering for a long time if my marriage to him is valid. In the marriage license it says it expired in 2013. I don't understand that.

Was our marriage set up or arranged to be temporary? I don't really understand Nigerian law or customs concerning marriage. (I am not Nigerian) I know my husband was rushing me to get him here before that expiration date. I am very confused. I also went to the office of public records here in America and they couldn't find any marital records of me and my husband, nothing. On the back of my marriage license issued in Nigeria, there is a website of marriage records, I entered my name and his name and didn't find anything. It just says no records found. Am I married to him or was it all fake? Can you please help me find out? I'd appreciate it. Even if it was all a scam, I still have Nigeria in my heart and will never have anything against Nigeria and Nigerians. Just my husband. Thank you in advance.
This a scam,he used you as a ladder to crossover
Dearie,am also interested in going over to that side.you can be of help....Jahbless
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Addicted2Women: 7:56am On Jan 25, 2016
Bishops10:

This a scam,he used you as a ladder to crossover
Dearie,am also interested in going over to that side.you can be of help....Jahbless

Dream
Dream
Dream

Kid, wake up
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Lexusgs430: 8:01am On Jan 25, 2016
tafrica:


You wish to know if the marriage is fake, people are asking salient questions like the pictures, which court did it take place and all other relevant issues, but you chose to unlook them.

How do they help you in this situation? You seem like someone that just wants to scam Nigerians by appearing as an American woman in your story.

Can you meet Addicted2Women at Chicago police station as he asked you?


If they meet, let's also remember to inform Chicago fire department. Some fires would need to be doused!!!

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 8:02am On Jan 25, 2016
Is up to each individual whether he/she chooses to believe me or not, to label me a scammer, etc. God knows my story is genuine. I don't blame anyone who choose to not to believe me. I tried to clear some doubts but many of you chose to insult me, to label me, to threaten me and to speak harshly and abusively. Simply because I refuse to post personal details and photos here. Even though I am the victim and my husband the scammer, posting his personal information such as photos and so on, it's against the law in America. I won't do it. I just wanted to know if a Nigerian marriage lisence has expiration date or not....OMG!! I married him in ikoyi at a registry. Anyway, never mind. At least I had many ones who clarified the issue through private msgs.

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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 8:53am On Jan 25, 2016
This cock and bull story is a big lie? I don't believe the OP, the US immigrations are very competent they do not joke with this kinda case, if what OP have written on here was true, which i doubt it isn't, the US authorities would have found out.

So OP you are a lier! If you telling the truth give me his name and i promise you i will track him down in 2 hours
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by franugo(m): 9:35am On Jan 25, 2016
Sugarhugs:


LAjibade scam alert o. Don't fail for the second time.

Y u hurting a niqqa's hustle na?grin darling ko, enemy nigrin
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 9:45am On Jan 25, 2016
LAjibade:
Unbelievable, how one question has led to many of you to reply with such rudeness and ignorance. I just wanted to know why would a Nigerian marriage license have an expiration date. What does that mean. But never mind. I will get my answers through an immigration lawyer. There is no reason for me to lie. Also, I can not and will not post his photo here. That will not answer my question anyway. I'm out!!!
yea! run away! You fuccking lier! I thought you wanted help to track him down? Not even sure you ve been to America before

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