naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

First, let us agree that it is not right for any spouse (male or female) to assault the other spouse.... so, in this regard, the man is wrong.

But then, I can bet 100% that before they got married and after they did...and for a long time, they have been sharing the man's salary!
He pays House rent, NEPA bills,buy sfood in the house, e.t.c...I am sure he even financed a wedding!

So, he lost his job. Pity but the current economic climate means many have lost their job and many more will still do.
So, when he had a job, he assisted his wife to stand on her feet as well ... like most men do, for the 'rainy day".
[b]That is what marriage is all about, one spouse lifts the other spouse up, when he or she is down.

But what does this woman do when she got her own salary in December?
She holds to the money and even said "She wants to use it to go on vacation"!
Just imagine!! Vacation? ..when their are needs for the family and you know your husband is still job-hunting?

Let me ask all of you (and be honest): If it was this man that got his December salary when his wife has no job, no money and nothing to eat.... and he decides he will use it to go on vacation while she starves, what will you call the man? Wicked man, right?

But now, since it is being done by a woman, to her husband, it is acceptable!

You see the "double-standards" and wickedness that wives are subjecting their husbands to?
..and to think their are some men (women's wrapper" who dont think first before commenting, abusing the man?

Well, it will get to a time when men will no longer marry these women, its happening overseas already.
But for the time being, you silly men on Nairaland should use your brain before heaping blame on your fellow man, just because you want Nairaland women to give you "Likes"![/b]

misspicy:

I am yet to see where the woman has been accused of all this fallacies you typed here

so you mean,you would collect the money your pregnant wife worked hard even in her pregnant state to work for, just because she has been sharing yours with you? [/b]and then go ahead and beat her up with her big protruding tummy because she refused to hand over the money to you? all because you are frustrated, the next person to take out your frustration on is a pregnant woman carrying your own child o?

now I realise some Nigerian men has lost it

I smh and pity the woman that will end up with yoy

#tufiakwa **spits****

[b]..and where in the report did you see the man "plead guilty" to the accusations?
Is it not just the wife accusing him of beating her... and we took that to be true?

So, a woman who is about to give birth and knows her husband is not employed at the moment, uses her salary to go ON VACATION?
Is there a law which says your wife can eat your own money but when you are in need, you cant eat hers..... she is suppose to eat it alone?

What is good for the geese, is also good for the Gander afterall, Women boast that they are EQUAL to Men....

Thunder fire that your left bossom. I pity man day will mistakenly marry your type and thinks he has a wife.

Why would a man raise his hands on his woman for God sake. Probably the unmatured ones jumping into marriage. A man tht shows his strength on his woman by beating her isn't a man but an old boy.

kaziblake:
God in heaven will punish all wives beaters.

Na your type deserve that kind of beating!

God punish all these selfish women.

Excuzeme:


Na your type deserve that kind of beating!

God punish all these selfish women.

Any man that lay's his hands on me will die dat day.
Thunder fire dat man wey go beat me.

Amadihoha shrine go strike am.
No woman deserve's to be treated anyhow.

Abeg this is why I hate court cases, so why adjoin this type of case again. Just give ruling na.

Jobless man go dey beat me and I go still siDdon dey answer Mrs because. Of society.

Tufiakwaa!

If we ask Esther well and she will be truthful, the beating didn't just start today, she kept quiet and tolerated the domestic abuse.

Thumbs up to all the loving caring men. God bless you all.

HaneefahRN:

Don't worry we won't jump to conclusion when it happens to ur sister or daughter.


Let's stop being hypocritical, there are shameless, irresponsible, animals in men clothing out there, stop trying to justify or look for excuses where there is nothing to justify.

Just like there are cantankerous, devilish, quarrelsome, wicked, worse-than-animal things in skirt out there whose only qualification for being called a woman is because they have bosoms but even the devil himself will rather remain a Reverend Father, than marry them.

The type the Bible was referring to when it said "It is better to live on the Roof Top, than live with a quarrelsome woman".

Na God cause am, He created man and rested but since He created woman, He has been regretting it"!

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kaziblake:
Any man that lay's his hands on me will die dat day.
Thunder fire dat man wey go beat me.

Amadihoha shrine go strike am.
No woman deserve's to be treated anyhow.

Dont worry, be waiting for Christian Ronaldo to come and marry you!
Menopause is not far off!

Its no coincidence that "Action" and "Reaction", ....are equal and opposite"!
You deserve the kind of husband or wife that you get.

if you deserve a decent wife, you will get one
If you deserve a decent husband, your character will draw one to you but if you are a Bi.atch, then you deserve a Thug for husband!

A guy once told me he would not marry a woman who cannot financially take care of him. I was going to berate him, then I remembered he is uroboh. Growing up in warri, I saw it's in them to sit home, play draft, drink ogogoro while the woman hustle for the family.

Excuzeme:


Dont worry, be waiting for Christian Ronaldo to come and marry you!
Menopause is not far off!

Its no coincidence that "Action" and "Reaction", ....are equal and opposite"!
You deserve the kind of husband or wife that you get.

if you deserve a decent wife, you will get one
If you deserve a decent husband, your character will draw one to you but if you are a Bi.atch, then you deserve a Thug for husband!

Funny dude.
Yea,i deserve a decent husband and not a thug.

Excuzeme:


..and where in the report did you see the man "plead guilty" to the accusations?
Is it not just the wife accusing him of beating her... and we took that to be true?

So, a woman who is about to give birth and knows her husband is not employed at the moment, uses her salary to go ON VACATION?
Is there a law which says your wife can eat your own money but when you are in need, you cant eat hers..... she is suppose to eat it alone?

What is good for the geese, is also good for the Gander afterall, Women boast that they are EQUAL to Men....

Thunder fire that your left bossom. I pity man day will mistakenly marry your type and thinks he has a wife.

Mr. man , I don't know what's your own, you have only read one side of the story and you are already condemning the man. How are you sure the man even beat the woman. I wonder the type of judge you'll be if you were to be a lawyer. I know people like you ,you talk sweet and simply lose your senses when you see a woman. There is a lot of difference between theories and real life experience. Woman wrapper.

yeah someone opened a thread today about how marriages break because women refuse to submit, i'am guessing its her fault for not submitting

You can't turn a o into a house wife and you can't turn a p*imp into a husband

The judge sef funny. Dem say person no get work n u dey give am bail of 50000 apalapala. Anyway, him go wait for the wife January allawee. But this kind one go sit call himself hubby

Men are just hopeless.
Waste of sperm

sonnie10:


It is the prosecutors not lawyers, except the police now uses only lawyers for that purpose.

A prosecutor is a lawyer/attorney/representative presenting a case against the defendant.

Excuzeme:


First, let us agree that it is not right for any spouse (male or female) to assault the other spouse.... so, in this regard, the man is wrong.

But then, I can bet 100% that before they got married and after they did...and for a long time, they have been sharing the man's salary!
He pays House rent, NEPA bills,buy sfood in the house, e.t.c...I am sure he even financed a wedding!

So, he lost his job. Pity but the current economic climate means many have lost their job and many more will still do.
So, when he had a job, he assisted his wife to stand on her feet as well ... like most men do, for the 'rainy day".
[b]That is what marriage is all about, one spouse lifts the other spouse up, when he or she is down.

But what does this woman do when she got her own salary in December?
She holds to the money and even said "She wants to use it to go on vacation"!
Just imagine!! Vacation? ..when their are needs for the family and you know your husband is still job-hunting?

Let me ask all of you (and be honest): If it was this man that got his December salary when his wife has no job, no money and nothing to eat.... and he decides he will use it to go on vacation while she starves, what will you call the man? Wicked man, right?

But now, since it is being done by a woman, to her husband, it is acceptable!

You see the "double-standards" and wickedness that wives are subjecting their husbands to?
..and to think their are some men (women's wrapper" who dont think first before commenting, abusing the man?

Well, it will get to a time when men will no longer marry these women, its happening overseas already.
But for the time being, you silly men on Nairaland should use your brain before heaping blame on your fellow man, just because you want Nairaland women to give you "Likes"![/b]

shameless, I'll rather die than be surviving on my wife's salary, when I'm not sick or handicap.

Excuzeme:


Just like there are cantankerous, devilish, quarrelsome, wicked, worse-than-animal things in skirt out there whose only qualification for being called a woman is because they have bosoms but even the devil himself will rather remain a Reverend Father, than marry them.

The type the Bible was referring to when it said "It is better to live on the Roof Top, than live with a quarrelsome woman".

Na God cause am, He created man and rested but since He created woman, He has been regretting it"!

I hope this happens to your Brother or even your son.

Same goes for men, not all women are considered good-hearted but men are no saints either. Stop painting a picture as if women are always d bad ones and men are the goody two shoe saints tht is far from the truth.

Ehn ehn, interesting, God told u tht? Probably ur own God, mine doesn't regret.

Lolz, u hope what happens to my brother or son really? First I don't av a brother, 2, God will not give me an irresponsible, dependent, wicked, beast of a man as a son and he will sure get his perfect rib.
But u can always wish ur daughter or sis, an irresponsible, wicked, shameless, 'frustrated', wifebeater (since u support them so much), don't worry, we'll be here to call her a troublesome woman

It's unfottinate that this is not an isolated incident. Most useless Nigerian "men" have the same horrible mentality this id*iot has.

This man should be sentenced to 20yrs in Guatanamo Bay. That's all!

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

So what u r trying to say is that d man is justified for beating up his pregnant wife?. Maybe u should read d whole story once again.

The story na finish oooooo........dis na husband nd wife matter, no jump inside ooooo......but very very bad to beat a woman

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

may all your sisters and daughters be beaten mercilessly while they are heavily pregnant, lets see if you will come and preach the same sermon!

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

So?? dat gives him the liberty to beat his wife? A pregnant one at that?

The woman lack good upbringing, she wasn't tutored on the ethics of marriage. Every average woman should know that any man that is broke is an angry man.
This his difficult time is suppose to avail you the opportunity of proving how muchyou love your husband instead you chose to bring him out to the public for people to call him names and you the angel. That prosecutor and other adviserss can never be your husband.
That bail of 50k that the court grannted him does it make sense to you? Don't you think that if the man had like 5k to himself, he wouldn't have approached you for money that particular time. Pls my fellow women, let's continue to be the helper god created us to be and for the ppl that are commenting, be careful cos what goes around will always come around

Excuzeme:


First, let us agree that it is not right for any spouse (male or female) to assault the other spouse.... so, in this regard, the man is wrong.

But then, I can bet 100% that before they got married and after they did...and for a long time, they have been sharing the man's salary!
He pays House rent, NEPA bills,buy sfood in the house, e.t.c...I am sure he even financed a wedding!

So, he lost his job. Pity but the current economic climate means many have lost their job and many more will still do.
So, when he had a job, he assisted his wife to stand on her feet as well ... like most men do, for the 'rainy day".
[b]That is what marriage is all about, one spouse lifts the other spouse up, when he or she is down.

But what does this woman do when she got her own salary in December?
She holds to the money and even said "She wants to use it to go on vacation"!
Just imagine!! Vacation? ..when their are needs for the family and you know your husband is still job-hunting?

Let me ask all of you (and be honest): If it was this man that got his December salary when his wife has no job, no money and nothing to eat.... and he decides he will use it to go on vacation while she starves, what will you call the man? Wicked man, right?

But now, since it is being done by a woman, to her husband, it is acceptable!

You see the "double-standards" and wickedness that wives are subjecting their husbands to?
..and to think their are some men (women's wrapper" who dont think first before commenting, abusing the man?

Well, it will get to a time when men will no longer marry these women, its happening overseas already.
But for the time being, you silly men on Nairaland should use your brain before heaping blame on your fellow man, just because you want Nairaland women to give you "Likes"![/b]

Who is the head of the family? The woman? If the man wants to be so dependent on the woman, he shld just relinquish the title of the head of the family to her.

Don't bet 100% on what u know nothing abt. There are irresponsible men out there, even a blind man knows. There are men tht even when they av the money wld rather spend it on mistresses and alcohol and yet still molest the wife, there are men who wld rather waste away time than look for something meaningful to do to contribute to the family finances, yet still molest their wives even right in front of their children, there are so many cases of such. The man has no right, I repeat no right whatsoever to take her salary from her not to talk of beating her for it! I know families where the wife earns more and both couple combine their money to hold the family, even with the children not realizing their mum takes care of most of their needs, so don't make it seem like women are demons, there are men out there worse than demons.

Tht man might av been taking her money from her for long, and I won't be surprized if he is the type tht squanders it on frivolities and tht cld be why the woman stood her ground. Being pregnant and the finances required is no joke. The vacation the report points to might be her maternal leave since she is said to be near term.

Don't marry women, pls remain celibate. I don't want to imagine the misery any woman who marries someone wt ur mentality will go thru

A jobless man granted a bail of ¥50,000!!!!!.... I hope the judge is not wishing the man a happy jobless life in manifold?

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

that's the most stupid thing to say there's a difference between sharing and demand. besides she is pregnant according to the story. no one has such right over anyone. he's infringing on her freedom of freewill and that is against the law too.

Heartlessness. Potential husbands please be careful

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

Oga, what ever the matter, it is a mans responsibility to provide for his family. He that cant do that is worse than a prostitute (now that's scripture)