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So I was in church yesterday determined to make the most of the service. However, sitting directly opposite me on the other side of the aisle was a 'sister' a very beautiful one, she made it almost impossible for me to concentrate on anything that was going on. I just couldn get my eyes off her, it wasn't because of her beauty or her charming smile, NO! It was simply because there was nowhere else to look. Her dress though fine, was not decent enough for church. No matter how much she pulled, it just wouldn't go down, no matter how decently she tried to sit, it was still in my face, her legs, her exposed legs (trying to sound decent) it was right there, staring me in the face. I was heavily distracted and uncomfortable. I don't believe she deliberately set out to distract anybody (coz she was pretty and didn't need any 'aggressive marketing' to sell) but that was what she ended up doing, she distracted me. Whenever our eyes crossed, she'd adjust herself as if i was some pervert. It was both embarrassing and unnerving. She kept on acting as if I was taking advantage of her or something, who even wanted to see what she was showing sef (I wish there was somewhere else to look). When I couldn't take it anymore, I had to change my position, it was a relief (some fresh air at last). Ladies please watch what you were and how you sit especially in church, it is a place where we go to worship (or pretend to do so) and where we are all presumed to be 'holy'. Please do not make others uncomfortable, why not sit at d back if you know your dress is short? Why not use a shawl? Please let not your dressing lead another to sin.
Anyway like I said earlier, the sister is very pretty, after service I seriously considered...

OP, I vehemently concur with thee. You don't have to dress provocatively to attract anybody. All you will eventually end up with are randuy men who will just fornicate with you and move on!

No responsible man will want to marry because of how provocative you dress. & to even think this happened in the "house of God?" With the way some girls dress to church, The one who even wants to get saved might even end up getting more lost in sin.

"Watch what you WEAR" not "watch what you were"
Op please take note

Nawa oo

Both of you are at fault.


You for looking and committing adultery with her in your heart and she for dressing seductively to a place of worship.

One adage says that if your ma-inlaw does not know how to sit down properly as a woman then you her son-inlaw show learn how to look away.

I have seen a lot of that.sometimes I wonder if they don't have eyes or mirror in their houses.they dress anyhow they like to church and end up confusing pastors

learn to take your eyes off things. not everything you see you must look at.

Krystof:
So I was in church yesterday determined to make the most of the service. However, sitting directly opposite me on the other side of the aisle was a 'sister' a very beautiful one, she made it almost impossible for me to concentrate on anything that was going on. I just couldn get my eyes off her, it wasn't because of her beauty or her charming smile, NO! It was simply because there was nowhere else to look. Her dress though fine, was not decent enough for church. No matter how much she pulled, it just wouldn't go down, no matter how decently she tried to sit, it was still in my face, her legs, her exposed legs (trying to sound decent) it was right there, staring me in the face. I was heavily distracted and uncomfortable. I don't believe she deliberately set out to distract anybody (coz she was pretty and didn't need any 'aggressive marketing' to sell) but that was what she ended up doing, she distracted me. Whenever our eyes crossed, she'd adjust herself as if i was some pervert. It was both embarrassing and unnerving. She kept on acting as if I was taking advantage of her or something, who even wanted to see what she was showing sef (I wish there was somewhere else to look). When I couldn't take it anymore, I had to change my position, it was a relief (some fresh air at last). Ladies please watch what you were and how you sit especially in church, it is a place where we go to worship (or pretend to do so) and where we are all presumed to be 'holy'. Please do not make others uncomfortable, why not sit at d back if you know your dress is short? Why not use a shawl? Please let not your dressing lead another to sin.
Anyway like I said earlier, the sister is very pretty, after service I seriously considered...

...WHA THA FOK??....you loookin at your sister's pant in church cos ther was no wear to look??...bro you a patvat & shot be jailed !! (No oofense).