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Just started dating this young beautiful girl. Am her first boyfriend. And she's seems to be a good girl, from my own lil assessment. Its a distance relationship. But she came around of recent to visit her sis,who happen to be a close friend of mine. Was really hapi cos i felt wow,i will get to know more .
The whole saga happened yesterday. Went to their place to check on her. So i tried to show her a new video i downloaded, olamide- dab. As she was seeing the vidoe,i asked if she has any recent pictures. She gave me her phone to check. Surprisingly, when i opened the gallery, i saw her nude pics like 10 ,was really amazed,and check again if she ain't the one. I returned the phone to her and ask what's going on, she apologized and said she do that attimes whenever shes alone.
I av this curious nature,i like digging alot.i sense foulplay ,so i wana to clear my doubt. I opened her WhatsApp, i saw an unsaved number conversation of her,i opened the chat and saw that she actually some of those pictures to the person. I was like what the Bleep,i tried to keep my cool and i carefully study the conversation and noticed the contact is a girl. They been doing for God knows how long,got to know when reading the chat,that it was her first time her nude pics to her. I was dumbfounded, so i readjusted so she wont knw what am doing.
Later,after like 1hr i asked about it again, and ask if she did not send the pics to anyone. She denied faster. She lied to my face. So i copied the contact,and called,to my surprise i heard a male voice. But the chat show the user is a girl. Im so confused .
Should i confront her about. Ive known her for over 9months now, we started dating not quite long. Please i don't knw what to do. Was spying on em yesterday, they chatted till almost 2am this morning. My head self no dey Boot. Pls help me guys. Thanks in ad

Keep your cool, she might have not accepted you fully as her guy, so there is limit to what you can ask, most ladies see you as their just friend if you have not had any romantic section with them.

Second taught, you said, you are her first bf, well the person she's chatting with maybe her female friend or perhaps a married man, almost everybody want to have a dirty time with whom you feel safe with.

But if you decide to break your curiosity, then be ready to whatever might happen, just say it straight, you've been chatting with Wazobia for almost everyday and you even sent your unclad pics to him, who is he?

picture of the unclad pix and u viewing it or ADONBILIVIT...

Guy, if she can send her unclad pic ,as in her unclothedness to another guy, then something fishy is going on, be sure before u make a decision

She is still young, she needs to explore life, u r nt her husband, so she can flirt with whoever she wants. U might nt even b de one she ends up with anyway. She she grows, she might meet other partners who one, can even b her soulmate. Unless u marry her asap, if u want her to stop flirts wit other men

ZeeAfrica:
She is still young, she needs to explore life, u r nt her husband, so she can flirt with whoever she wants. U might nt even b de one she ends up with anyway. She she grows, she might meet other partners who one, can even b her soulmate. Unless u marry her asap, if u want her to stop flirts wit other men

Olosho detected

callMeAlpha:
Olosho detected

lolest. U shud actualy say ''truth teller detected''

Things like this just make me despise girls.

God, thank you, my sisters are both hapily married. Now, it is me and naija girls. I just pray karma won't come knocking someday.


All d same, I go help those who no wan dey usefull to themselves spoil wella.





Shey na toto? Men must d chop and in diff sizes and colours,

a woman's phone is a short cut to HBP

ZeeAfrica:
She is still young, she needs to explore life, u r nt her husband, so she can flirt with whoever she wants. U might nt even b de one she ends up with anyway. She she grows, she might meet other partners who one, can even b her soulmate. Unless u marry her asap, if u want her to stop flirts wit other men

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Its apparent your girl is cheating on you (because of the long distance? I dunno). But how you handle it determines if you still want the relationship. You said she's young, maybe she's trying to explore other options.

Confront her with your evidences and tell her u ain't up for those. If she really loves you, she should be ready to be with just you. But if she can't, she should be ready for breakup.

Which option she agrees on will determine on your further action.