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I return for the weekend again at her request, I enter my home and for the umpteenth time meet unwashed dishes, yes I know she was wearing bum shorts with that perfume urs truly loves. I maybe should have not entered the kitchen, but na hunger cause am. I drove 190km to see her. On empty stomach as it's necessary to purge out the rubbish I have been eating so as to eat soup better woman wash hand cook. She was all smiles with a pose by the door after pretending not to have heard me enter (she hid). Instead of grabbing her with a welcome hug I didn't know when my mouth opened and mentioned the unwashed plates in the sink, something I hate. Like a turgid penis suddenly gone limp, na so bae slump shoulders, she didn't bother responding to my mood killer question according to her. I fiend small anger and entered the bedroom. Only to be told later in the night when I attempted to carry out my manly duties that am a nag. My very own woman calling me a nag. Say it's been two weeks and instead of jumping on her I was looking at sinks, abeg Wat was wrong in pointing out dat which i have always complained about. Is bae becoming rebellious or did I really mess up. The action last night was poor as she showed almost no interest and I feel hurt. Abeg answer me so I know if an apology is needed plus a good rendering of a better performance tonight

Your bae is lazy.

Get ready to hire house helps.

That's all I can say.

Old habits die hard

You are finally startin to see you bae for what she really is.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you did, you should be bothered by her personal hygiene, now who would want to raise a child in that kind of environment? You only left for two week and your kitchen (a womans favorite place) is a mess.

Llanthony401:
Old habits die hard

You are finally startin to see you bae for what she really is.
Theres nothing wron with what you did, you should be bothered by her personal hygiene, now who would want to raise a child in that kinda enviroment? You only left for two week and your kitchen (a womans favorite place) is a mess.

my point exactly, how she doesn't see it from that angle baffles me. Me a man is a nag. I felt small

[color=#990100]your bae Lazy..


Dump her![/color]

Get ready to wash plate tire...! A responsible woman won't leave dishes unwashed.......Infact,she might be lazy and clumsy.

Llanthony401:
Old habits die hard

You are finally startin to see you bae for what she really is.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you did, you should be bothered by her personal hygiene, now who would want to raise a child in that kind of environment? You only left for two week and your kitchen (a womans favorite place) is a mess.

Lol the kitchen is not a woman's favourite place. Infact a lot of women don't like to cook. They just do it cos they feel it is a responsibility

Eddygourdo:
my point exactly, how she doesn't see it from that angle baffles me. Me a man is a nag. I felt small

People say stuffs they don't mean when they are angry
And women are not an exemption, she probably said that because you called her out on her inadequacy.

But seriously, who listens to women when they're angry.

u should have just held your anger a little longer after the usual welcome stuff then u tell her gently .maybe she has dreamt if how to welcome u in a sexy way only for your mood to spoil everything

misspicy:
Your bae was wrong for keeping dirty plates in the sink,someone like me,wash plates immediately after eating,its a manner I have learnt right from childhood,try and advice her to adopt it since the sight of dirty plates irritates you but the manner with which you presented your case is really not proper,you could have just do the do when you first saw her and point the plate issue to her later,when you both must have been sated and for her to tell you that you nag,you might have been nagging even before this incidence...

just call her and explain how you want things to be run,this is not a bad problem,it can be corrected

guess I need to apologise?

charlemon:
Lol the kitchen is not a woman's favourite place. Infact a lot of women don't like to cook. They just do it cos they feel it is a responsibility

Am talking about matured responsible woman.
Not your regular run of the mill average lackluster chick

cruzita:
u should have just held your anger a little longer after the usual welcome stuff then u tell her gently .maybe she has dreamt if how to welcome u in a sexy way only for your mood to spoil everything

she said this. Maybe I was wrong. I didn't know when it slipped from my mouth. I have complained repeatedly and most times she orders me out of the kitchen that Wat happens there isn't my business

Llanthony401:
People say stuffs they don't mean when they are angry
And women are not an exemption, she probably said that because you called her out on her inadequacy.

But seriously, who listens to women when they're angry.

shey. It's true. I just felt really small to be called such. A nag of all things.

She can't grab plates and wash buh she will willingly grab a dīck with both hands.

Eddygourdo:
guess I need to apologise?

Not really an apology but we call it petting....you need to learn to control your woman through petting eg when she is in a good mood,just point it out to her,if she is not the temperamental type,she will understand and adjust to your taste

Llanthony401:
Am talking about matured responsible woman.
Not your regular run of the mill average lackluster chick

That's the word -"Responsible". They do it cos it is considered a responsibility and not cos they love it or it is their favourite place in the house. Some love to cook (same with men) while some don't. Cooking or having the kitchen as your favourite place doesn't make you or show responsibility in any form or manner.

Maturity isn't judged by being present in the kitchen. Lmao

charlemon:
Maturity isn't judged by being present in the kitchen. Lmao

How did you manage to twist my whole post upside down?

Llanthony401:
How did you manage to twist my whole post upside down?

Lol ok bro. Sorry and respect

U should have been more subtle in your approach,I am not in anyway justifying her Q cations tho.

You even acted maturedly. I know of some guys that would have turned a whole tongues of venoms and poison on their fiancee. But me I think she did that to tempt you. How will she know that you're coming home and still not do the kitchen even if it were to pretend That was a test bro believe me.

misspicy:
Your bae was wrong for keeping dirty plates in the sink, someone like me,wash plates immediately after eating, its a manner I have learnt right from childhood,try and advice her to adopt it since the sight of dirty plates irritates you but the manner with which you presented your case is really not proper,you could have just do the do when you first saw her and point the plate issue to her later,when you both must have been sated and for her to tell you that you nag,you might have been nagging even before this incidence...

just call her and explain how you want things to be run,this is not a bad problem,it can be corrected

See original wife material
Over a thousand yards

Eddygourdo:
I return for the weekend again at her request, I enter my home and for the umpteenth time meet unwashed dishes, yes I know she was wearing bum shorts with that perfume urs truly loves. I maybe should have not entered the kitchen, but na hunger cause am. I drove 190km to see her. On empty stomach as it's necessary to purge out the rubbish I have been eating so as to eat soup better woman wash hand cook. She was all smiles with a pose by the door after pretending not to have heard me enter (she hid). Instead of grabbing her with a welcome hug I didn't know when my mouth opened and mentioned the unwashed plates in the sink, something I hate. Like a turgid penis suddenly gone limp, na so bae slump shoulders, she didn't bother responding to my mood killer question according to her. I fiend small anger and entered the bedroom. Only to be told later in the night when I attempted to carry out my manly duties that am a nag. My very own woman calling me a nag. Say it's been two weeks and instead of jumping on her I was looking at sinks, abeg Wat was wrong in pointing out dat which i have always complained about. Is bae becoming rebellious or did I really mess up. The action last night was poor as she showed almost no interest and I feel hurt. Abeg answer me so I know if an apology is needed plus a good rendering of a better performance tonight

She dey dull you because you are still broke! If you were paid, the omoge for dey keep your kitchen looking spotless like transcorps kitchen! Better get rich or die trying!

Luckygurl:
See original wife material Over a thousand yards

LMAO
thank you

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Misspicy has said it all [/color]

afternoon Dee

Thanks for the advice. I don pet am, walking naked around the house helped my cause, I ensured I started push ups once I notice she is watching. Guess it did the trick. Pointed it out to her. To help matters I will stay our of the kitchen from now on.