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1. Quarrelsome attitude some ladies can be so quarrelsome that they are always exchanging words with neighbours, market women, even siblings. This is so bad that sometimes whenever they go out with their guys, there is always a high probability of them picking quarrels over frivolities with the cabman or gateman.

Some of the ladies don't hesitate to dish out a generous dose of verbal abuse to their guys even in the open. You can imagine winking at your girl to calm down and eventually dragging her away with her struggling and shouting on top of her voice.

2. Stinginess Some ladies have never given a gift to their guys for once. You can use this coming valentine as case study. All the ladies are expecting gifts and some would frown, nag and complain if the gifts are not expensive enough and some go as far as ending the relationship if they get nothing.

But when you examine them closely, you will discover some of them are planning to buy handkerchief and singlet. Ladies get a good gift for your man often, it won't kill you.

3. Chronic borrowers some ladies virtually owe almost everybody they come across, from the hair dresser to the food vendor to the cloth seller. They borrow from friends, colleagues and neighbours with no intention of paying back.

They keep giving excuses and dodging till the debtors lose hope. When you go through text messages of this ladies, you will see all manner of threats from different people. Some of the lenders trace their office or house and disgrace them or forcefully carry their properties while others approach their man and demand fro their money and often embarrass the man in the process.

4. Untidiness some ladies are so unkempt that their rooms are unkempt. Come into their rooms and you will see their bra and panties of different colours scattered all over the house, strands of hair from their weavon littered everywhere, make-up and Nigerian films on the floor.

Some of their hair nets smell so much that you can imagine how the hair itself smells. Imagine a scenario where a lady pulls her panties and a foul odour oozes out and keeps smelling hours after the lady had left.

5. Non-independent ladies some ladies rarely do anything or buy anything for themselves unless a guy does that. It's nice to get attention and receive gifts or help but ladies should not make it a habit to depend on guys to do everything for them. You can imagine where a lady will never call her guy....always flashing.

They manage to call only when they want to demand for something. You will see a lady that has never subscribed for data by herself ( I can remember those days a lady will update, "BIS about to expire" on her pm). I can understand the situation of someone being broke but I know most of these ladies have plenty money cooling in their account. Ladies surprise your guys by cooking with your own money for once. Don't wait for him to come back and give you N500 when you have thousands in your purse.

6. Incessant Lying some ladies lie so often that you don't know when they are serious anymore. Some exaggerate their background and wealth of their parents, prices of their personal belongings just to feel among.

Imagine a lady boasting she doesn't eat anyhow only for you to jam her in a local buka or she brags that she only shops in boutiques and wears just designers and you sight her at a popular bend down select. Some lie that they are virgins and some even lie that they are pregnant just to extort money from their guys. Ladies try and be real and natural and the guys will appreciate you for that.

7. Terrible cooks I once heard a story of a newly married wife that would collect money from the husband in the pretext of cooking food only for her to buy a full pot of soup or stew from a restaurant and present to the husband when he returns from work. This went on for a while till her husband found out. This goes out to all this fastfood ladies that can barely prepare a decent jellof rice or even indomie noodles.

Men will respect you more when you know your onions in the kitchen. Imagine when your guy refusing food on occasions or when he hangs out with friends because he knows you always prepare something special.

8. Poor dressers To the ladies, you have to have at least an average dress sense. Some of you wonder why your guys don't take you out at all or take you out only at nights. A guy might love you for other qualities but detest the way you dress. Some ladies look like a masquerade after applying heavy and make-up. Some wear dirty clothes and cover up with heavy perfume.

Some always wear one outfit or footwear because it looks fine on them while others don't mix colours well. When you have a good dress sense, your guys will always show you off, go everywhere with you and introduce you to everybody. Even casual and female friends will be proud to be associated with you because you are always representing.

All true

1, 4, 6 and 7 in fact All of 'em are true.....I fear Quarrelsome gelz ehhhh!!! Not to talk of Terrible cookers

Chatting wth another guy when u're wth him.
Saying thank you when he says "I love you u".
Showing up at his house later than scheduled.
Not showing up at his house as agreed by both of you.
Tellin him it's only sex he cares abt always.
U take her to party and she goes behind ur back to pix wth a celebrity.
U asks her wat she wants you to buy and she says" buy anything"

All True. I wonder the essence of some ladies certificate, brain and money, if they r totally dependent on guys. it seems its only their body thats relevant others r useless

Cooking, hmmmmm, i hate eating outside, my future wife hope your reading this.

Forming hard to get.. Trust me, every guy hates this one.

op u dey mad dia u hear .But truth be told u are right,some girls can be so dirty to the point that they will leave permanent odour anywhere they go,some cant cook ,the other day my friend cooked beans and the beans stand like boko haram ,oil and water be like say dem dey quarrel.

Kenzico:
1, 4, 6 and 7 in fact All of 'em are true.....I fear Quarrelsome gelz ehhhh!!! Not to talk of Terrible cookers

Cooks you mean




All true..




Thank God I don't have any of the traits listed by the Op....

One thing I've learnt in this life is that anything you are not willing to let go, don't lend it to a woman especially money. If a girl begs you to lend her money, just have it at the back of your mind that you will never get to see that money again.

CaroLyner:
who cares what they like and dislike.
we do what we want.

And dats ur biggest mistake, u beta take corrections now or u will regret it badly tomorrow

cruzita:
op u dey mad dia u hear .But truth be told u are right,some girls can be so dirty to the point that they will leave permanent odour anywhere they go,some cant cook ,the other day my friend cooked beans and the beans stand like boko haram ,oil and water be like say dem dey quarrel.

Lol..wat make me mad then?

AwesomeDuru:
Forming hard to get.. Trust me, every guy hates this one.

most ladies don't form hard to get. just obvious they don't like you

Hmmmm guilty of no 2

My rule no1. is don't snore! You're not a pig. if you can't control it, choke a piece of paper or cloth in there. I think I deserve a good night rest after a worrisome day!

80% of NL Ladies are guilty of this.

Tank God oooo I yam 80% perfect
My husby to be better be perfect too or else