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I often ask myself how come there are still many single ladies out there considering the large number of guys who are ready and willing to get married. I am one of these guys with all the basic things (A good job, well furnitured flat, a car etc) expected in any home. There are also several of my colleagues and friends in this category.

The fundamental question we should now ask ourself is "how come these guys are still single despite being ready for marriage". The answer is simple: although there are many single ladies , only few of them are either ready or really marriageable. If am to use myself as an example again; I have three ladies who am currently with now and all are ready to say yes if I propose today. However each time i sit down to think about the possibility of spending the rest of my life with any of them, " fear dey always catch me" they simply lack the simple basic things guys expect from their wives. For example all I want from my potential wife are just: An averagely beautiful lady, with good interpersonal r/ship with people arnd her and able to Manage both her career and home. LOBATAN


Despite the fact the expectations of most of guys like moi are not really out of place, getting a good woman to marry has become AN ULTIMATE SEARCH with no ending. Although there are several guys too with many frivolous expectations from their potential wife. If our ladies genuinely let go of most of the bad traits we see in them today, i believe the number of both single guys and ladies we significantly reduced. Wearing skimpy dress, drinking and smoking, fighting over every little things, being unnecessarily jealous , turning ur guys to ATM, and lacking other basics character of a virtous woman will only make guys to see u as irresponsible and a no no for them

So let us all work on ourself (both guys and babes) and the society will be better for it.

You want the society and the men to be better but u are dating 3 ladies at a time. What happened to the men who never dated the girls but always knelt down to God to pick for them and never regretted it today?
You're looking for a change, start from yourself

Because the ladies are not wife materials

Na greed/Karma make some men no marry! You wan taste all the babe for your office, area and church! After that you come dey find good chick to marry, wh come marry the one wey you do scatter?

the men are the cause of their problems

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Clap 4 dat guy wen first comment ...only u three babe n u dey find good girl...wen u gah na bad guy sorry bro start d moment we go follow...mcheeeeew gerrarohere

ChappyChase:
Na greed/Karma make some men no marry! You wan taste all the babe for your office, area and church! After that you come dey find good chick to marry, wh come marry the one wey you do scatter?

Na lie, women want made men for dis harsh economy. So, we are still hustling to make it big, but body no be fire wood, so we keep sampling some punnies @ d mean time.

chigoizie7:
Na lie, women want made men for dis harsh economy. So, we are still hustling to make it big, but body no be fire wood, so we keep sampling some punnies @ d mean time.

Then why not go for olosho instead of promising marriage every linda, ada and mary you meet!?

doomsdayII:
You want the society and the men to be better but u are dating 3 ladies at a time. What happened to the men who never dated the girls but always knelt down to God to pick for them and never regretted it today?
You're looking for a change, start from yourself

Guy, no be my fault o, I end up with three cos am still finding a good woman to marry. If I find her today. Na to move the ministry to the permanent site ASAP.

ChappyChase:
Then why not go for olosho instead of promising marriage every linda, ada and mary you meet!?

And who said I ve been promising marriage to any Linda, ada or mary?

Haba, why Ee de pain you like this? Na me open them legs for them?

Cutehector:
Because the ladies are not wife materials

I concur

chigoizie7:
And who said I ve been promising marriage to any Linda, ada or mary?
Haba, why Ee de pain you like this? Na me open them legs for them?

Hahahahaha!!

The ladies don't wana suffer with any young dude..

I dated a lady for a year, she still left me for a richer guy.so until I make enough money, ama keep on sampling punnas

Smellymouth:
The ladies don't wana suffer with any young dude..

I dated a lady for a year, she still left me for a richer guy.so until I make enough money, ama keep on sampling punnas

That is the power of money; its not easy to resist