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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by bukatyne(f): 3:37pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:


I don't mean to be disrespectful but the Bible does not make much sense to me.

Ok then
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Feb 23, 2016
bukatyne:


Does God love unconditionally?

Nope. Hell fire is proof of that.

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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Chidoks(f): 3:59pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:


The question is whether you would still love him if he did.
The question has to be real
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Chidoks(f): 4:03pm On Feb 23, 2016
bukatyne:


Does God love unconditionally?
Yes

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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 23, 2016
Chidoks:

The question has to be real

I understand. smiley
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 23, 2016
Timbuktou:


Nope. Hell fire is proof of that.

Have you ever seen or been to this place? tongue
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:


Have you ever seen or been to this place? tongue


Well, everything we know about God, from the Christian point of view, is written in a book. And we've been told to neither subtract nor add to it. In essence, no hell no God wink
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 23, 2016
Timbuktou:


Well, everything we know about God, from the Christian point of view, is written in a book. And we've been told to neither subtract nor add to it. In essence, no hell no God wink

I am no longer a Christian so I will just respect your religious views and keep quiet. I do not want you to get angry with me again. sad wink
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:


I am no longer a Christian so I will just respect your religious views and keep quiet. I do not want you to get angry with me again. sad wink

We should be fine if you stick to arguing my comments and not those strange conflations you come up with. wink

Moreover, I've only summarised the bible's stand on its contents.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Feb 23, 2016
Timbuktou:


We should be fine if you stick to arguing my comments and not those strange conflations you come up with. wink

Moreover, I've only summarised the bible's stand on its contents.

I'll try. Peace. smiley smiley smiley
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Feb 23, 2016
MizMyColi,

come and join us here. cheesy kiss
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by bukatyne(f): 4:50pm On Feb 23, 2016
bukatyne:

Hmmmm....
Trying to juxtapose it with Him hating Esau without cause and a sinner ending up in hell if not repentant.

Chidoks:

Yes
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by mykaboo: 5:04pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:


Love feels good, it does not hurt.



Commiserating hurts, not love but you could instead take pleasure in uplifting them instead of being hurt because they are hurt, which won't help.



I don't. I understand that craziness is part of growing up.



I do not discipline my children in a way that hurts me.




I rarely argue with my loved ones and when I do, I do it in a way that is not harmful or disrespectful.



Maybe, so what?



I do not need pain to feel alive and I enjoy flying high.



Love does not hurt. Love feels good. You cannot feel love and pain at the same time.

I am happy for you that you are able to live your life with a simple range of human emotion. We will agree to disagree.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 23, 2016
mykaboo:


I am happy for you that you are able to live your life with a simple range of human emotion. We will agree to disagree.

Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by MizMyColi(f): 6:29pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:
MizMyColi,

come and join us here. cheesy kiss

Good evening Sweeteee Sissmiley

I saw the thread earlier, and didn't post a reply, because I wanted to be sure that when I allude to being an unconditional lover; it'd be nothing short of the truth.

I can. I do love unconditionally.
Especially to folks who aren't related by blood.

I have found though that it is not a "feat" one can achieve when tuned to a particular frequency/vibration.

For you to be a true unconditional lover, you must ascend, you must be renewed. One must Rise Above.

When people say true love don't exist, I think they are being truthful because, usually, at the frequency we operate, LOVE is a tad alien. It is usually tit for tat. While I agree that there's love in "tit for tat" I'm of the opinion that it is a tainted form.

To practice true love in its realest form, you must become God.
Not "Like God" Not "A God" but BE God.

Looking at the text above alone could make one feel heretic, but sometimes, in order to handle certain relational issues well, we need to become God.

So I declared today in my place of meditation...
"There is no distinction between my humanity and Divinity. I am God. Therefore I am incapable of bitterness, of hate and every form of negativity.
I breath love, I breath grace, and everything that is worthy and lovely to my world.
I have the capacity to be and be being...

These words transformed my day. Being human, I lived my God essence today, and it only gets better from here onsmiley

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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 23, 2016
MizMyColi:


Good evening Sweeteee Sissmiley

I saw the thread earlier, and didn't post a reply, because I wanted to be sure that when I allude to being an unconditional lover; it'd be nothing short of the truth.

I can. I do love unconditionally.
Especially to folks who aren't related by blood.

I have found though that it is not a "feat" one can achieve when tuned to a particular frequency/vibration.

For you to be a true unconditional lover, you must ascend, you must be renewed. One must Rise Above.

When people say true love don't exist, I think they are being truthful because, usually, at the frequency we operate, LOVE is a tad alien. It is usually tit for tat. While I agree that there's love in "tit for tat" I'm of the opinion that it is a tainted form.

To practice true love in its realest form, you must become God.
Not "Like God" Not "A God" but BE God.

Looking at the text above alone could make one feel heretic, but sometimes, in order to handle certain relational issues well, we need to become God.

So I declared today in my place of meditation...
"There is no distinction between my humanity and Divinity. I am God. Therefore I am incapable of bitterness, of hate and every form of negativity.
I breath love, I breath grace, and everything that is worthy and lovely to my world.
I have the capacity to be and be being...

These words transformed my day. Being human, I lived my God essence today, and it only gets better from here onsmiley


This has been your most beautiful contribution so far. I so agree with every word. I feel you and I am with you on this. Life has never been more beautiful. kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by MizMyColi(f): 8:42pm On Feb 23, 2016
Mindfulness:



This has been your most beautiful contribution so far. I so agree with every word. I feel you and I am with you on this. Life has never been more beautiful. kiss kiss kiss

I tell you sweetestgrin

Upward/Divineward
That's the waysmiley

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Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Feb 26, 2016
crackhaus:
I love those I love unconditionally (very few), because I wouldn't even love someone if it wasn't unconditional in the first place...
I don't know how to deceive myself, I've tried to and I still don't know how to.

Quite impressive. Who are the lucky ones?
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by byvan03: 4:27pm On Feb 26, 2016
I don't believe any human love is unconditional.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by byvan03: 4:35pm On Feb 26, 2016
bukatyne:


Does God love unconditionally?



Thank you!
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by crackhaus: 12:32pm On Feb 27, 2016
Mindfulness:


Quite impressive. Who are the lucky ones?
You don't need to know, I'm sure.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 27, 2016
crackhaus:

You don't need to know, I'm sure.

I don't need to know. I want to know. tongue Anyway.

What does unconditional love mean to you?
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by crackhaus: 1:18pm On Feb 27, 2016
Mindfulness:


I don't need to know. I want to know. tongue Anyway.

What does unconditional love mean to you?
Unconditional love is love that transcends all negative outcomes and is independent of how the recipient(s) reflects it...all within the confines of common sense though cheesy
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by chiquitamyall(f): 1:42pm On Feb 27, 2016
mykaboo:
Yes, I love my fiance unconditionally. SOmetimes he lies to me a lot and sometimes makes the dumbest decisions but in my heart, I cannot hate him. He has unrealistic expectations of love in that he assumes that I am to give him money whenever he asks without question and hesitation. We argue but at the end of the day, I continue to pray for God to give him love in his heart and wisdom and understanding in things. It really hurts to truly love someone and to wonder if they can ever really love you back the way that you love them.

shocked shocked shocked shocked

You kidding right?
You still love him after all d lies?
U joking undecided
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by chiquitamyall(f): 1:46pm On Feb 27, 2016
mykaboo:


Love hurts all the time. When you love someone, you even hurt just when you see them hurt. You hurt when you see your kids doing craziness. It hurts when you discipline your kids. It hurts when you argue with a loved one. To always expect happiness is unrealistic. Hurting is how we know that we are alive otherwise we are merely high on whatever life even, high on whatever drug, high on whatever temporary, fleeting feeling that satiates our feelings. Love hurts, growing hurts, being strong hurts. Losing hurts, winning hurts. Does the hurt go to abuse? No. Does the hurt last continually? No.

shocked how do u tink
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Feb 27, 2016
crackhaus:

Unconditional love is love that transcends all negative outcomes and is independent of how the recipient(s) reflects it...all within the confines of common sense though cheesy

I like this definition. Thanks.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Patience5869: 7:04pm On Feb 27, 2016
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Cutehector:
all what st Paul defined love in his letter to the romans


Yes
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by mykaboo: 1:34am On Feb 28, 2016
chiquitamyall:


shocked shocked shocked shocked

You kidding right?
You still love him after all d lies?
U joking undecided

What you failed to ask is the type and magnitude of lie. Lies are bad, I get that. However lies are of two types malicious such as lying about cheating, and non malicious such as I wasn't at the bar. get my drift.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by mykaboo: 1:39am On Feb 28, 2016
chiquitamyall:


shocked how do u tink

It is called growth, self reflection, and wisdom. God didn't promise us happiness in the world. He didn't promise that everything would always be easy and he didn't promise us a life without strife either. We make a decision to love another each day. Can we see someone with their faults and still love him or her. Now I am not saying love someone who will beat you to death by any means, but a person who makes silly mistakes, and isn't where we are mentally yet or where we are financially, or where we are emotionally, are we able to pour into that person to help them grow, to help cultivate that person to bring out the best in him/her........ or are we out for our own selfish gain and characterize people as useless. If it is the latter, a person can count themselves to have no transcended being a mere animal in survival mode.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by NwaliE01: 8:38am On Mar 01, 2016
I have loved so much that I nearly lost my mind cos she is my first love. Why I Love her, i can't even say, despite I am planning to settle down with another person few months from now. We are both born again christains.
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Dyt(f): 11:08am On Mar 01, 2016
NwaliE01:
I have loved so much that I nearly lost my mind cos she is my first love. Why I Love her, i can't even say, despite I am planning to settle down with another person few months from now. We are both born again christains.

Confused
You still with her?
You still love her?
You want her back?
Re: Do You Love Anyone Unconditionally? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Mar 01, 2016
I loved my hubby unconditionally , but my love was taken for granted, I loved too much, cared too much, forgave too easily..I made him a priority in my life, but after going through pregnancy and child bearing , I have to take back my love. His attitude towards me only shows he doesn't need it. I v learnt my lesson, I don't think I will ever love him again unconditionally....

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