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'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Priscy01(f): 5:43am On Jun 29, 2018

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by NIGHTMARE0O7: 5:45am On Jun 29, 2018
Their love can't be compared because u .
I mean u can't say u love this one more/ this one less because they do different important things in yr life(except u married a bad woman or have a bad mum)

There are things ur mum can do for u and ur wife can't do and vice versa.
So the thought of who u love more should not even occur in ur mind as man.
JUST SHOW THEM ENDLESS LOVE.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Anigreat: 5:48am On Jun 29, 2018
shocked





I don't care!


It will be difficult for me to love my mum less and love my wife more. Not that I'm not going to love my wife, but mum comes first.


I'm so sorry future wife, but i can't help. That woman has pass through hell for me, sacrificing for me, so my days be better than hers. Mum love me so much, so why should i betray her because of one woman call wife?

If you dont like it that way, pack your useless things and get out of my house.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by AntiWailer: 5:52am On Jun 29, 2018
Oode.

Very f00lish generation.


What concerns you with how much he loves his mother ? On what basis is the comparison ?

I hope you plan to d1e young or not give birth to a boy cos Karma is real.

Selfish 1diot. Their type even love their brothers more than their Man.


Some Men are very foolish too.

You don't create a room for comparison. Each of them should feel special in their World and last of all, Work to make them a tag team even against you on some matters.

Several times, i give my wife cash to give my mum and she should tell my mum not to let me know she gave her.
She will tell her : "I just did a business and i have small cash. I want to share with you as my Mum. Take and don't let him know that i have money"wink.

I sit back and watch them form Best Of Friends Ochestrated by Me.

Go with a Man that have common sense and home training.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by emi14: 5:54am On Jun 29, 2018
Ladies and wives should leave mother inlaws alone. These mothers brought the husband to life nurtured him and most times made them. Mother's love is different from the husband wife love. Wives you have mothers , you can hate and kill your mamas if you like, I love my mother. Train and care for your male kids if you have so they can equally love you at old age.
If my wife interferes with the care and love of my mama divorce is imminent. Nonsense.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:56am On Jun 29, 2018
TWO DIFFERENT KINDA LOVE COME INTO PLAY HERE.

ONLY the WISE can juxtapose the two.

GOD BLESS my mama. GOD BLESS my bae!

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Nobody: 6:00am On Jun 29, 2018
Wisdom is key!

A wise woman should know a man cannot love his mother too much.
A wise man should know his wife is his topmost priority too.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by QueenSuccubus(f): 6:07am On Jun 29, 2018
cheesy

Abeeeegi, stop this NONSENSE sha..a man's love for a mother will always be different than the love he gave to his wife. undecided

But on the side note, some grownazz men are mama's boy. angry

A little argument with his wife, instead solving the problem he will run immediately to his mother & cry.. His mother will be his own defender against his wife ...#SMHundecided undecided

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by HeWrites(m): 6:09am On Jun 29, 2018
undecided

If my wife has everything I need in a woman, I will sure love HER more that my Mum.

Don't quote me to say Ladies are hoe and will Cheat.

All I know is I will LOVE my WIFE more than Mum.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by princeade86(m): 6:15am On Jun 29, 2018
though u can never stop loving ur mother, but don't say u love her more Dan ur wife. is bad, and she will feel bad.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by delugajackson: 6:48am On Jun 29, 2018
Mother's love is second to none. Sometimes I look at her and I say to myself "Lord, please don't take her away from me."

In this case, I'd like to make a very salient point. - Your mother is your side chick if you love a random bítch more than her. Any man who puts his bítch over his mother does not deserve to be called a man.

But a wife's love automatically replaces a mother's own the moment she gets the ring on her finger.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by eph12(m): 7:40am On Jun 29, 2018
Why should they be competing for love in the first instance? Can't they be loved equally?

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by IamPlato(m): 7:47am On Jun 29, 2018
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Its Very Possible For Me To Love My Mother More than My Wife but Very Wrong If I Give More Attention To My mother Than My Wife...


The Reason I Married My Wife Is To Raise a Family so Definitely i Have To Focus On My Wife More but Not Forgettin my Mother...



I Had Once Thought To Myself, how Would I Feel If My Father Loved His Mother(my Grand Mother) more Than My Mother(his Wife)... I Would Dislike My Father For That...



Every Wife Is Developing Into A Mother One Day And advancing Into A Grand Mother Too...



Some Men Have Allowed Their Mothers To Run Their Marriage. The Mother Makes The Final Decisions. I Am So Sorry For Such Individuals...



Men Be Wise...

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Nobody: 7:50am On Jun 29, 2018
the way most ladies like to compete with their mother inlaw is shameful.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Bluezy13(m): 9:00am On Jun 29, 2018
BleSSedMee:
Wisdom is key!


A wise woman should know a man cannot love his mother too much.

A wise man should know his wife is his topmost priority too.



The love for mother is different from the love for wife.
You love them differently for their rôles in your life. None can take the position of another.
It is unwise to compare and contrast them.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Bluezy13(m): 9:04am On Jun 29, 2018
BleSSedMee:
Wisdom is key!


A wise woman should know a man cannot love his mother too much.

A wise man should know his wife is his topmost priority too.



The love for mother is different from the love for wife.
You love them differently for their roles in your life. None can take the position of the other.
It is unwise to compare and contrast them

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Nobody: 9:11am On Jun 29, 2018
Bluezy13:


The love for mother is different from the love for wife.
You love them differently for their roles in your life. None can take the position of the other.
It is unwise to compare and contrast them


No comparison whatsoever my dear!


Mother is supreme!!!

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Bamidey: 9:16am On Jun 29, 2018
Time/Attention is different from Love.
Me staying up to that age with the struggles and hustle wouldn't have been possible if it wasn't for mums care, love and protection, coupled with that of her husband.
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Jimi23(m): 9:35am On Jun 29, 2018
As long as she loves me more than her daddy.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 29, 2018
Anigreat:
shocked





I don't care!


It will be difficult for me to love my mum less and love my wife more. Not that I'm not going to love my wife, but mum comes first.


I'm so sorry future wife, but i can't help. That woman had pass through hell for me, sacrificing for me, so my days be better than hers, mum love me so much, so why should i betray her because of one woman call wife?

If you do like it that way, pack your useless things and get out of my house.
You're not married yet so quit saying you'll love your mum more. In reality, how you feel about both can't be compared.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Nobody: 9:54am On Jun 29, 2018
eph12:
Why should they be competing for love in the first instance? Can't they be loved equally?
It's outright childishness cum foolishness for any woman or man to draw a comparison between his wife and mother or herself and mother in-law. Any woman who does this has got serious issues as I don't get why one would think her husband loves his mother more than her. If a man loves you, he loves you. Dragging love with his mother means you're not even sure of your place in the man's life. Both are your family, treat them right. None comes before the other and none should be displeased for the other when there can always be a balance.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by PaperCoach(f): 10:01am On Jun 29, 2018
Many thanks for this post, this is what I need, I will definitely try.
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by PaperCoach(f): 10:03am On Jun 29, 2018
Many thanks for this post, this is what I need, I will definitely try. cool
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by TrueHeart365(m): 10:06am On Jun 29, 2018
be like sey this one dey craze
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by doeeyed: 10:54am On Jun 29, 2018
kimbraa:
It's outright childishness cum foolishness for any woman or man to draw a comparison between his wife and mother or herself and mother in-law. Any woman who does this has got serious issues as I don't get why one would think her husband loves his mother more than her. If a man loves you, he loves you. Dragging love with his mother means you're not even sure of your place in the man's life. Both are your family, treat them right. None comes before the other and none should be displeased for the other when there can always be a balance.

Well said..
Stay ur lane, I stay mine...

Need I say more??

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Laple0541(m): 12:25pm On Jun 29, 2018
If she wan be side chik make she be na her wahala, i love my mom more.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by midehi2(f): 12:25pm On Jun 29, 2018
Totally not agree
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Mhizdellea: 12:25pm On Jun 29, 2018
You expect someone to love another woman more than their mother?
Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by Patented: 12:26pm On Jun 29, 2018
Some of these Ladies sef!!! Everything be like competition to them. Always comparing this to that.

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by drchuks1234(m): 12:26pm On Jun 29, 2018
Is better my wife remain a side chick than to love her more than my mum

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Re: 'If You Love Your Mother More Than Your Wife, You Made Your Wife Side Chick' by pweshboi(m): 12:26pm On Jun 29, 2018
Personally I think this girls head is seriously paining her.
That's how one (Idiot) was telling me she prays which ever man she's going to end up marrying his mother should die before their marriage. And I was just speechless at how stupid she sounded but the painful thing was that she was still bragging and repeating it. Someone else's mother fah, how I wish her supposed daughter in-law will pray same for her when it's her turn.

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