Certifiedboss:


Have you seen a woman in her 30s that says she's happy being single ? Be sincere to yourself .

I'm 36 single and definitely happy I'm not a man hater but I don't wanna go thru to all these annoying dramas made by men.

KashyBaby:



I'm 36 single and definitely happy I'm not a man hater but I don't wanna go thru to all these annoying dramas made by men.

Kashy

will u be ma suga mummy

joseph1832:
And if I go three days straight without any trouble, what will be my prize?

And mind you, don't string me on. You told me you'll let me know the controversial side of my diary as well as the contradictory post I've made. You've been silent ever since...

Lol. We'll soon get to hear from the MOD of this section.

VaselineWarrior:


Kashy

will u be ma suga mummy

Thats so terribly kind of u, but NO thank u...I doNT know where u soaked in that unprotected eggplant of urz..I don't want to acquire the so called free STD..

KashyBaby:



I'm 36 single and definitely happy I'm not a man hater but I don't wanna go thru to all these annoying dramas made by men.

Kudos to u... though i strongly doubt d definitely happy part.... but probably its time to think of d future... when u re much older... kids to take care of u and probably what ever investment u leave behind... imagine at 70 wit no kids and grand kids... u mgt just bore urself to death.... anyways... kids must nt come thru marriage

KashyBaby:




Thats so terribly kind of u, but NO thank u...I doNT know where u soaked in that unprotected eggplant of urz..I don't want to acquire the so called free STD..

kashy bae, d only STD i av is a Stif an Tik DiiK

but u on av to ride ma STD, u can ride ma face an jus soak ma face in ur cummm

ma mout is urs

VaselineWarrior:


kashy bae, d only STD i av is a Stif an Tik DiiK

but u on av to ride ma STD, u can ride ma face an jus soak ma face in ur cummm

ma mout is urs

Lol..tats very sexy..but I don't wanna derail this thread...

H2Ossss:


Kudos to u... though i strongly doubt d definitely happy part.... but probably its time to think of d future... when u re much older... kids to take care of u and probably what ever investment u leave behind... imagine at 70 wit no kids and grand kids... u mgt just bore urself to death.... anyways... kids must nt come thru marriage

Many people have been abandoned in old age by their children. Children are not a retirement plan unlike what most here think, she can adopt later if she decided she wants a child to give love to not because she needs someone to take care of her when she's old. Plus if she says she happy, she's happy. If a married women said she was happy I'm sure you wouldn't say you doubt it. We don't all require the same things to give us happiness

KashyBaby:



I'm 36 single and definitely happy I'm not a man hater but I don't wanna go thru to all these annoying dramas made by men.

Good for you, don't settle for just anything to make society happy. If you later meet someone worth marrying women are having children older and older these days. There are many options in today's world jare

tosyne2much:
Personally, I think it all boils down to jealousy.. However, people mouth-thrash successful single women just to console themselves of their misfortune

Gbam

KashyBaby:




Lol..tats very sexy..but I don't wanna derail this thread...

okie dok, mon amour

until nes time, le beau bébé kashy

Let me sight the following points as regards this issue:

1. Denigrating or belittling unmarried people is just immature and bad, simple...
2. Statistically, some nations are getting extinct given their prolonged practice of non reproductive culture (Esp. Europe).
3. If a healthy family is the smallest unit of a successful society, then GETTING the FAMILY RIGHT IS TOO IMPORTANT.
4. Given the 3rd point, INTENTIONAL SINGLE PARENTHOOD is just a JOKE, a main contention to successful marriages.
5. A quick rewind into the past 40 to 60 years ago, our forefathers successfully managed their families (monogamy or polygamy)
6. No one (man or woman) was created to be single neither do they want to be single in the real sense, WE JUST WANT TO BE FREE....
7. Yes, being Single and Financially buoyant is an option but why don't you try being Married and Financially buoyant?
8. Remember, MARRIAGE is an institution with RULES and SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE is HARD WORK with GREAT BENEFITS.

So where's this problem coming from?

To solve a problem, you must understand its terrain, causes and promoters, history and geolocation.

1. Why do women (successful or not) decide to remain single?
2. Who benefits when women decide to remain single?
3. Are you telling me u were never interested in any relationship since adolescence?
4. What's your kind of Ideal Man like?
5. How many criteria do you have on your list?
6. Does the economic woes influence relationships?
7. How much damage or effect has CULTURAL DRIFT had on the African Family Structure?

etc... (you can add yours).

We must answer this questions to get to the root of this problems and don't forget, an except from this material, "Protocols of the Elders of Zion", states that the FAMILY UNIT HAS TO BE DESTROYED, MARRIAGE MADE REDUNDANT and UNSUCCESSFUL and likewise GETTING THE WORLD UNDERPOPULATED to mention a few. These are some of the people responsible for many troubles globally however, we share a huge part of the blame too...

I will wrap up my response with a simple advise,

1. Men PLEASE REDUCE YOU EGO, BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR WOMAN and you will gain her respect.
2. Women, work with your guy as a team mate, pray for him, be his counselor, forget PRIDE and reduce APROKO (i know u can't do wdt it).

I am married and my babe is getting her PhD soon with the support of God and myself.... I take care of her career interests and needs but she KNOWS, FAMILY FIRST...

amicable09:

Lol. Ok.
Those guys are real! You are more real hanging out with them, it's a very comfy hangout spot for you on NL... lol

You are really transparent to me. I know my followers by their comments on different threads and their shares. I can tell you a thing or two about most of them even though I have never met them offline, they unconsciously leave a trace of their real selves when they post stuff.

Gbam! Psychoanalyser of life!

abbey621:


No! Anybody can be unhappy either married or not, it's all about perception but when it comes to regrets more people are left without regrets when they experience a happy married life filled with a child or children than those who chose to remain single and childless!

How many people experience a happy married life?

H2Ossss:


Kudos to u... though i strongly doubt d definitely happy part.... but probably its time to think of d future... when u re much older... kids to take care of u and probably what ever investment u leave behind... imagine at 70 wit no kids and grand kids... u mgt just bore urself to death.... anyways... kids must nt come thru marriage

Lol! Its not today our society has acted as if they hold peoples reasoning and happiness in their own hands and can tell if you are happy, if you deserve to be happy, and if you are entitled to that happiness. Its very interesting. But society is d reason people make mistakes in a rush and cannot truly be themselves.

Anyway kids don't always bring this happiness. Why is it that in Africa we have kids for personal benefits not because of d love we share with our partner? Are kids brought to this world to serve as insurance for when we are old and gray?

Also what will be d plight of a sterile person if marriage is for bringing forth kids to avoid loneliness in the future?

An African man once said to his stubburn child "I'm glad God gave me five. If you die, I won't feel it."

Mindfulness:


How many people experience a happy married life?

You will be surprised his many people put concealer on their marriage issues and come outside flaunting what's not. They sleep in misery everyday and get a kick from making other people feel sad because they are not married.

Marriage is not easy doesn't mean some people aren't making it work.

But more often than not, the fact that you are married doesn't mean you are happy. Many people console themselves and say "my kids are my pride and joy. I'm sacrificing for them by being in this marriage.

akandejames:
Let me sight the following points as regards this issue:

1. Denigrating or belittling unmarried people is just immature and bad, simple...
2. Statistically, some nations are getting extinct given their prolonged practice of non reproductive culture (Esp. Europe).
3. If a healthy family is the smallest unit of a successful society, then GETTING the FAMILY RIGHT IS TOO IMPORTANT.
4. Given the 3rd point, INTENTIONAL SINGLE PARENTHOOD is just a JOKE, a main contention to successful marriages.
5. A quick rewind into the past 40 to 60 years ago, our forefathers successfully managed their families (monogamy or polygamy)
6. No one (man or woman) was created to be single neither do they want to be single in the real sense, WE JUST WANT TO BE FREE....
7. Yes, being Single and Financially buoyant is an option but why don't you try being Married and Financially buoyant?
8. Remember, MARRIAGE is an institution with RULES and SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE is HARD WORK with GREAT BENEFITS.

So where's this problem coming from?

To solve a problem, you must understand its terrain, causes and promoters, history and geolocation.

1. Why do women (successful or not) decide to remain single?
2. Who benefits when women decide to remain single?
3. Are you telling me u were never interested in any relationship since adolescence?
4. What's your kind of Ideal Man like?
5. How many criteria do you have on your list?
6. Does the economic woes influence relationships?
7. How much damage or effect has CULTURAL DRIFT had on the African Family Structure?

etc... (you can add yours).

We must answer this questions to get to the root of this problems and don't forget, an except from this material, "Protocols of the Elders of Zion", states that the FAMILY UNIT HAS TO BE DESTROYED, MARRIAGE MADE REDUNDANT and UNSUCCESSFUL and likewise GETTING THE WORLD UNDERPOPULATED to mention a few. These are some of the people responsible for many troubles globally however, we share a huge part of the blame too...

I will wrap up my response with a simple advise,

1. Men PLEASE REDUCE YOU EGO, BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR WOMAN and you will gain her respect.
2. Women, work with your guy as a team mate, pray for him, be his counselor, forget PRIDE and reduce APROKO (i know u can't do wdt it).

I am married and my babe is getting her PhD soon with the support of God and myself.... I take care of her career interests and needs but she KNOWS, FAMILY FIRST...

May the almighty God bless your home.
May God continue to give you the strength to be all you want to be in your home.
May your partner never take your uniqueness forgranted.

I wish more people had your point of view.

skytreader:

Made my day. Bless you, ma'am!

Bless you too Sir,have a nice day.

Jealousy ni...in actually fact, most of these castigating people are single younger girls whose idea of marriage is seen as ill-informed third parties, married unhappy women or the male counterparts in both versions.


Yes, I wanna be married someday. However, I would rather stay single forever than be married to a man who isn't after my heart. Take your time to look into the eyes of a handful of married women...what you will see will scare you. May God help us choose right.

amicable09:

How

How?

You were quick to point out how irresponsible men are at the same time telling us not to take a woman as an object.

So am saying maybe the women want to be seen as an object....

sisisioge:
Jealousy ni...in actually fact, most of these castigating people are single younger girls whose idea of marriage is seen as ill-informed third parties, married unhappy women or the male counterparts in both versions.


Yes, I wanna be married someday. However, I would rather stay single forever than be married to a man who isn't after my heart. Take your time to look into the eyes of a handful of married women...what you will see will scare you. May God help us choose right.

Single with a kid.....

kaboninc:


Single with a kid.....

No sweetheart, if I were then there will be no more seeking the marriage institution. It's as simple as that.

sisisioge:
Jealousy ni...in actually fact, most of these castigating people are single younger girls whose idea of marriage is seen as ill-informed third parties, married unhappy women or the male counterparts in both versions.


Yes, I wanna be married someday. However, I would rather stay single forever than be married to a man who isn't after my heart. Take your time to look into the eyes of a handful of married women...what you will see will scare you. May God help us choose right.

You are so right. Judgements are clouded by the falsehoods society has painted. Experience is d best teacher.

KashyBaby:



I'm 36 single and definitely happy I'm not a man hater but I don't wanna go thru to all these annoying dramas made by men.

Being happy is relative.

Happy because you've money, you're successful, you've attained an education height, you've got a beautiful kid even though out of wedlock...


Or happy that you're single, not married or never going to get married?

Or happy that there's no one guy to come cuddle you when its cold...

kaboninc:


How?

You were quick to point out how irresponsible men are at the same time telling us not to take a woman as an object.

So am saying maybe the women want to be seen as an object....

Lol. So you agree men are becoming irresponsible, what do we do then so as to go back to the time of old, when men were men.

teechudleyy:


You are so right. Judgements are clouded by the falsehoods society has painted. Experience is d best teacher.

Abi o my sis

amicable09:

Lol. So you agree men are becoming irresponsible, what do we do then so as to go back to the time of old, when men were men.

As there are irresponsible men, so also are there irresponsible women.

But its so funny when women spend their entire time blaming the men for their own irresponsible acts.

sisisioge:


No sweetheart, if I were then there will be no more seeking the marriage institution. It's as simple as that.

Hmmmm...

There's no guaranty that after marrying the supposed "man of your heart", there won't be statements like "had I known"....

Or wouldn't you love to have a child of your own?

kaboninc:


As there are irresponsible men, so also are there irresponsible women.

But its so funny when women spend their entire time blaming the men for their own irresponsible acts.

We share in the blame too.

amicable09:

Lol. We'll soon get to hear from the MOD of this section.

You see what I mean about stringing me on. LOL. When a challenge is issued to you, you shy away from it, even though you're the one who successfully planted the seed that lead to the issuance of that challenge.

I'm starting to believe you're a tease. You remind me of a certain moniker here, punkyveer.

Good morning.

When you are about to marry, many married women will give you a million advise. The advise will be enough for an observant person to know what they are getting into.

They'll say... People change o.
Be patient
Be humble
Persevere
Don't talk too much
Respect your elders
Be hardworking.
A woman must know how to look away.

There's usually little advice for the man. Even when there is... Its halfhearted like yeah we are supposed to tell u this but u know what bro... You are d boss. You can do as you please.

It always sounds like you are going into a war room for a woman.

Nobody walks into marriage with so much temerity and doesn't pinch themselves few months later like... Things aren't what I thought they'd be. I thought I knew this person so much. I thought I read all the books and gained all the wisdom.

Women lose a lot in marriage. Your shape changes after childbirths. You can't change that. Your name changes and for a split second you go thru a small identity crisis however proudly you think ur stressing that Mrs Somebody somewhere ur brain is like yo! This is gonna take some getting used to.
You have no choice but to grow all the wisdom expected and they tell u whatever he does... U have to take it or else you will be termed as illtempered and immature.
On the other hand... The family will always cast you for any signs of imperfections on your side.

Marriage is a lot of pressure on a woman.
I don't blame anyone who isn't rushing into it.

Doesn't mean marriage is bad or that people don't want it.

Older women who aren't married made a choice between mental stability, self love and happiness versus child bearing, someone else's surnname and societal acceptance. Its a tough choice to make... But happiness is one of the things we all strive for in the end. We should let people find their happiness in whatever works for dem and not compare dem to people who might have forfeited their happiness in order to achieve something else.

bukatyne:


tatucci will undergo a sex change

lol.. naaaaa.. i too like booty to do dat..