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Where are those people who say men from this area are monogamous, not like polygamous counterparts from the "waste"?

So even with 2 children(boys) and a wife from "his side",he still went to marry a 2nd wife


Kikikikikiki

Later,his pple on nairaland will say only ofe mmanu are polygamous..mtcheeew

raayah:
I simply do not understand why the woman is insulting the new wife.

You husband of 20 years and the father of your 2 Children decided to start a relationship with someone else. Who is breaking Home? Is it not your husband?
Why are you attacking this girl who may not have even known what was going on? Your husband decided to leave you, court her, pay bride price and marry her, and here you are screaming that she stole your husband??
How? Is your husband a toy? How is it stealing?

I am 100 percent sure that your husband didn't start cheating today, you must have known but you turned a blind eye, thinking he won't leave you.

Not only did he leave you, he went ahead to marry her. Do you think all your social media rants will bring him back? He doesn't want you. He has made it very clear.

To all the women out there, staying with cheating husbands thinking he will stay, keep dreaming, one day you will also see your husband marrying someone else.

To the man, what can I say. You have decided to embarass yourself, your children and your family because of lust. You should have done the honourable thing by not getting married or divorcing but instead you choose to be unfaithful and deceitful. Do I blame you? Not really! you and your stupid wife deserve each other

Hey Sis, how many men have you successfully kept at a time? You're most likely still bedwetting when they started their love life, and here you are confusing yourself with pointless assertions and your obvious moral decadence.

Instead of you to learn a lesson, you dey form hybrid... well, maybe you don settle for alhaji as wife number 3

Common Sense Nairalander

Isn't polygamy a crime in the UK?

Madam if you play your cards right you'll be on top at the end.

Duru009:
I don't understand girls of nowadays. thy are soooooooooooooooo desparate. almost every girl wants to be baby mama des days.

the rate girls are breaking homes des days are soo alarming.

where is the sanity of a gud marriage.....

Bro you have a mail you are yet to reply for days sir

RaeMystix:
Harming him will bring nothing but pain on herself. All she needs to do is pray that God should bring him back to his senses and make him return home to his family. Most mistresses like that, do tend to trap such men with charms.

Nne, that yellow goat has disgraced the wife and kids both local and internationally. No point praying to Jehovah to salvage him. she should sue the goat ass off!He should face the full consequences of his actions.

Don't respect your husband anymore, don't cook for him anymore, Talk to him anyhow,become lazy and live I don't care life even when he try to put you in other and when such man finds joy outside and find out that some women out there are still very caring then come to naira land and start cursing men.

Women,try and always make your home a happy one.Dont be too full of your self after some years in marriage.

Only a foolish man will have a good wife at home and still want another one.The worst they can do is cheat secretly .

But at the end of the day,some men can be foolish even when they have good wife they will still want to marry more but only few men sha

Well i dont really know what to say here and theres no point blaming anyone but i dont really know why some ladies re so desperate to get married to already made men even when they know the man is married. I've seen this kind of issue and this one happened in Nigeria where a man who was nothing before he got married to his was became something and the best he could do was to start carrying women. He did it to the extent he went and got married to another lady and stopped sleeping at home. It took God's intervention to bring that man back home and now he keeps regretting claiming he didnt know what happened that he got married to the other woman. This life no pure

The Man self na yeye Man . Just look at his beautiful family, yet you still went ahead to bring in another woman.

Oya all my fellow igbo boys come and bash your brother ooo cos i am about to go hard on 'our tribe'.

How many times do we hear of such news in yoruba and hausa land? How many times have you heard our igbo sisters force their way into the home of poor men ? No. Its always the rich dudes. Our desire for money is so much that even our parents dont care what people have to say.

Imagine this rubbish girl now. I know this family. The couple are quite popular in nkwere. This fool knows that family very well, yet she went to pitch her tent in troubled waters.

I feel for her terribly. What is coming her way is beyond her imagination. Not too far from that village some years ago, another girl snatched somebody's hussy. She gave birth to two imbeciles thereafter.

I was 15 when i told my mum i will not marry an igbo lady, she tought i was joking. Today i am married to an urhobo, delta state lady.

I am not generalising. It works for some people. However, i was so sure i would die early if i marry from my side.

Bashers oya come oo, i wan laff.

plasgidy:
Robbish

Hey! Keep your opinion to yourself.

Why do I always believe that all women whose husband did this must have slept with married men when they were younger......

penisilin:
Hey Sis, how many men have you successfully kept at a time? You're most likely still bedwetting when they started their love life, and here you are confusing yourself with pointless assertions and your obvious moral decadence.

Instead of you to learn a lesson, you dey form hybrid... well, maybe you don settle for alhaji as wife number 3

Common Sense Nairalander

What lesson is to be learnt in this story, please enlighten me old man

MEN!!
MEN!!
Only heaven knows what the true story is but the man is the root of the whole drama!! He is the eye of the storm!! What was he thinking?!!!! Now the 'old' wife blames the new* one

scobaba:
Oya all my fellow igbo boys come and bash your brother ooo cos i am about to go hard on 'our tribe'.

How many times do we hear of such news in yoruba and hausa land? How many times have you heard our igbo sisters force their way into the home of poor men ? No. Its always the rich dudes. Our desire for money is so much that even our parents dont care what people have to say.

Imagine this rubbish girl now. I know this family. The couple are quite popular in nkwere. This fool knows that family very well, yet she went to pitch her tent in troubled waters.

I feel for her terribly. What is coming her way is beyond her imagination. Not too far from that village some years ago, another girl snatched somebody's hussy. She gave birth to two imbeciles thereafter.

I was 15 when i told my mum i will not marry an igbo lady, she tought i was joking. Today i am married to an urhobo, delta state lady.

I am not generalising. It works for some people. However, i was so sure i would die early if i marry from my side.

Bashers oya come oo, i wan laff.

You rarely hear Such stories with those tribes because they are for the most part very polygamous, we've heard some stories of yoruba women calling their husband's women out though

Forwetinnah:
You rarely hear Such stories with those tribes because they are for the most part very polygamous, we've heard some stories of yoruba women calling their husband's women out though

Yea we have heard women calling out on chics to leave their hussy. It happens in every tribe. However, cases like this for most part happens to thr igbo tribe. When the guy lives abroad, the small corner girls are ready to die in the matter. Their mothers all of a sudden will be at the background. But let one poor or average guy come for this lady's hand in marriage, thats when they wiuld investigate his background and say his people are evil, they are these and they are that. My dear, leave matters.

At this rate ...we'll be needing a Ministry of Marriage Affairs in this country soon

Kudos to 2Baba for tactically averting a serious issue, AY is waiting in the corner (still in denial tho), we all still watching out for the baby mamas to do their thing soon

chubhiee:
Most marriages in Nigeria are convenience based.I'm with the first wife to unleash hell 's gates on the baby mama after which she castrate her yellow goat of a husband.

You know, I am really happy an oversea nurse is dotting all over her husband unlike her colleagues who give hell to their husbands and leave them in murderous act.
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The reason is not far-fetched. This particular husband is way richer than her as a medical doctor. The other ones toil to earn monies.

raayah:
I simply do not understand why the woman is insulting the new wife.

You husband of 20 years and the father of your 2 Children decided to start a relationship with someone else. Who is breaking Home? Is it not your husband?
Why are you attacking this girl who may not have even known what was going on? Your husband decided to leave you, court her, pay bride price and marry her, and here you are screaming that she stole your husband??
How? Is your husband a toy? How is it stealing?

I am 100 percent sure that your husband didn't start cheating today, you must have known but you turned a blind eye, thinking he won't leave you.

Not only did he leave you, he went ahead to marry her. Do you think all your social media rants will bring him back? He doesn't want you. He has made it very clear.

To all the women out there, staying with cheating husbands thinking he will stay, keep dreaming, one day you will also see your husband marrying someone else.

To the man, what can I say. You have decided to embarass yourself, your children and your family because of lust. You should have done the honourable thing by not getting married or divorcing but instead you choose to be unfaithful and deceitful. Do I blame you? Not really! you and your stupid wife deserve each other

Thank you!!! Women should stop being silly to the shenanigance of their husbands. I don't see the 'old' wife wrecking havoc at the hospital her husband works. Go there and create a bloody scene Abeggiii!!

Let us hear the other side of the story.

chubhiee:
Nne, that yellow goat has disgraced the wife and kids both local and internationally. No point praying to Jehovah to salvage him. she should sue the goat ass off!He should face the full consequences of his actions.

You're bent on revenge sha. If she wants a fare punishment for both her husband and his mistress, then Prayer is the solution. You know there are some type of prayers that can make one's enemies to run like mad dogs.

If she sues, then the mistress still continues to benefit from the struggle she'd had both on her marriage and on him getting his degree. If she does take that woman's name to about 5 powerful pastors. Her life will never be the same again.

Cutehector:
girls be like, i"m in cally... ..
Dem wan form carlifornia.
Mumu pipo.

You have started your madness. Topic should know that your ain't very bright'-\

RaeMystix:
You're bent on revenge sha. If she wants a fare punishment for both her husband and his mistress, then Prayer is the solution. You know there are some type of prayers that can make one's enemies to run like mad dogs.

If she sues, then the mistress still continues to benefit from his hard work on her marriage and on him getting his degree. If she does taje that woman's name to about 5 powerful pastors. Her life will never be the same again.

What prayers?

akike:
You have started your madness. Topic should know that your ain't very bright'-\

u r very stvpid.. u comprehend?

tpiar:
like I said, it is polygamy!

Flavou, no. The other man, yes of course.

Odikwa problem everywhere. Husbands are scarce this days so you see a lady after another woman's husband.

Cutehector:
u r very stvpid.. u comprehend?

You are very daft!

Ode!

abeg ,you know the kind juju all this small girls dey carry, if the man was so in his senses, why would he follow his wife back to U.K

even me self anytime I dey come, i go see all them small girls they try me, once I sound it to them,i am not a Christian oh but a traditionalist, you go see them dey arrange themselves

raayah:
I simply do not understand why the woman is insulting the new wife.

You husband of 20 years and the father of your 2 Children decided to start a relationship with someone else. Who is breaking Home? Is it not your husband?
Why are you attacking this girl who may not have even known what was going on? Your husband decided to leave you, court her, pay bride price and marry her, and here you are screaming that she stole your husband??
How? Is your husband a toy? How is it stealing?

I am 100 percent sure that your husband didn't start cheating today, you must have known but you turned a blind eye, thinking he won't leave you.

Not only did he leave you, he went ahead to marry her. Do you think all your social media rants will bring him back? He doesn't want you. He has made it very clear.

To all the women out there, staying with cheating husbands thinking he will stay, keep dreaming, one day you will also see your husband marrying someone else.

To the man, what can I say. You have decided to embarass yourself, your children and your family because of lust. You should have done the honourable thing by not getting married or divorcing but instead you choose to be unfaithful and deceitful. Do I blame you? Not really! you and your stupid wife deserve each other

papauju:
if she is respecting her husband and do what she is supposed to do I don't think the man will go for another wife

no I disagree.No matter how much submissiveness and respect u give ,a man that will cheat will cheat.

akike:
You are very daft!

Ode!

good... nw if I catch u mentionin me again... i'l show u what daft is. Bitchh.

Cutehector:
good... nw if I catch u mentionin me again... i'l show u what daft is. Bitchh like my mother

Ode!

RaeMystix:
You're bent on revenge sha. If she wants a fare punishment for both her husband and his mistress, then Prayer is the solution. You know there are some type of prayers that can make one's enemies to run like mad dogs.

If she sues, then the mistress still continues to benefit from the struggle she'd had both on her marriage and on him getting his degree. If she does take that woman's name to about 5 powerful pastors. Her life will never be the same again.

Nne, I fear you o!

The man is as useless as the third hand whor*e he married, I just hope the first wife didn't invest a dime with her public husband .