VickyRotex:
Lobatan!!!!

""The God of my two innocent sons is already heaping coals of fire and brimstone upon your head.""

Na this part I like pass.

Mehnn i shuddered when i read it too. but the silly gold digger would not care until she starts reaping it in a hard way. that curse alone is too big.

raayah:
I simply do not understand why the woman is insulting the new wife.

You husband of 20 years and the father of your 2 Children decided to start a relationship with someone else. Who is breaking Home? Is it not your husband?
Why are you attacking this girl who may not have even known what was going on? Your husband decided to leave you, court her, pay bride price and marry her, and here you are screaming that she stole your husband??
How? Is your husband a toy? How is it stealing?

I am 100 percent sure that your husband didn't start cheating today, you must have known but you turned a blind eye, thinking he won't leave you.

Not only did he leave you, he went ahead to marry her. Do you think all your social media rants will bring him back? He doesn't want you. He has made it very clear.

To all the women out there, staying with cheating husbands thinking he will stay, keep dreaming, one day you will also see your husband marrying someone else.

To the man, what can I say. You have decided to embarass yourself, your children and your family because of lust. You should have done the honourable thing by not getting married or divorcing but instead you choose to be unfaithful and deceitful. Do I blame you? Not really! you and your stupid wife deserve each other

if girls like you stop opening legs for cheating husbands, pls who will they cheat with … …


grow up kid.

Young03:
D truth z dat i gat no tym to read ds note

bt na dia biz

and again husband snatcher bad oo

The man takes all the blame. A medical doctor and Nze Nkwerre in such mess? You dont learn wisdom like anatomy and physiology. You could take as many wives as you wish as an African but you must first sort things out with your wife who is sophisticated and looks tough. Dont muddle up the father and sons relationships u and those growing fine UK citizens. UK l
If I were u (God forbid) I will let money do the work.
The 2nd gal sure is a gold digger. She cannot say she did not know ur married status. Use money to free urself from her. A bungalow or a car to settle her since there are no children between u yet. Thereafter stay away from Nigeria for awhile. I am a doctor too. Goodluck.

amokeme:
Women will never learn...
She doesn't have any business with the woman but HER damn husband! It seems she can't even face the husband mtchw...

Most igbo women cant 'face' their husbands. Most igbo women were brought up with d idea of never talking back to their husbands even when the husband is d one at fault..the husband is seen as d 'boss' who u cant just talk to. Even if he is cheating, u just have to bear it without any complain and keep 'praying' for him to change. Even when some igbo husbands infect their faithful igbo wives with STDs, the wives keep treating d STDs without even complaining. U dare not complain. Thats y a lot of igbo women are suffering and unhappy in their marriages but dare not leave d marriage no matter what the husband does...cos even if d woman leaves her husband, she will hardly get another igbo man who will marry her, so she has no option than to remain in such marriage. igbo men hardly marry 'second hand' women unlike yoruba men who can marry a woman who has married even more than four husbands in d past..igbo men know this 'fact' and use it to their advantage..the type of igbo men who doesnt act like d typical bossy igbo man when it comes to women are those who grew up in d south west, cos they tend to be more enlightened than d 'typical' igbo man who was born/grew up in d east and probably does business outside d east..

Teddeebear:
if girls like you stop opening legs for cheating husbands, pls who will they cheat with … …


grow up kid.

Lol!! Blame the women, men are pure angels who simply cannot control the peenis.

This has got to be the joke of the year.

faustinalove:


Most igbo women cant 'face' their husbands. Most igbo women were brought up with d idea of never talking back to their husbands even when the husband is d one at fault..the husband is seen as d 'boss' who u cant just talk to. Even if he is cheating, u just have to bear it without any complain and keep 'praying' for him to change. Even when some igbo husbands infect their faithful igbo wives with STDs, the wives keep treating d STDs without even complaining. U dare not complain. Thats y a lot of igbo women are suffering and unhappy in their marriages but dare not leave d marriage no matter what the husband does...cos even if d woman leaves her husband, she will hardly get another igbo man who will marry her, so she has no option than to remain in such marriage. igbo men hardly marry 'second hand' women unlike yoruba men who can marry a woman who has married even more than four husbands in d past..igbo men know this 'fact' and use it to their advantage..the type of igbo men who doesnt act like d typical bossy igbo man when it comes to women are those who grew up in d south west, cos they tend to be more enlightened than d 'typical' igbo man who was born/grew up in d east and probably does business outside d east..

raayah:


Lol!! Blame the women, men are pure angels who simply cannot control the peenis.

my point is clear, if men can't control their peniss, why can't ladies close their pussiies.

if pussiess are closed, the erectiiion will collapse automatically, as long as they are open pussiess peniss must rise.

just look at a lady moving into a married man's home and taking selfies

Teddeebear:
my point is clear, if men can't control their peniss, why can't ladies close their pussiies.

if pussiess are closed, the erectiiion will collapse automatically, as long as they are open pussiess peniss must rise.

just look at a lady moving into a married man's home and taking selfies

The stupidity demonstrated by the parties involved in this saga, is simply mind boggling.

egobetatoday:


Mehnn i shuddered when i read it too. but the silly gold digger would not care until she starts reaping it in a hard way. that curse alone is too big.

I tell you! The sad part is, when karma starts to pay, even the innocent people around her will suffer for it.

Tuface don talk 'No be small thing oooo.' Oka fo straight, fowl yansh don open.

cococandy:
This has got to be the joke of the year.

Babe, thats how it is. How many igbo women hav u heard filing for divorce? Are u saying that all igbo marriages are perfect? U will hardly hear of an igbo woman filing for divorce unlike d yoruba women. Even d least educated yoruba woman knows her right as a woman. They arent scared of their husbands cos they know they can always remarry easily..but its different with our igbo women.

Eyekandi:



'The selfish acts of "some" ladies of today '

Ok "some". Lol

Teddeebear:
my point is clear, if men can't control their peniss, why can't ladies close their pussiies.

if pussiess are closed, the erectiiion will collapse automatically, as long as they are open pussiess peniss must rise.

just look at a lady moving into a married man's home and taking selfies

If we close legs, they use force and rape women. We as a society have to come together and solve this issue of lack of self control in men.

Women, both young and old Are living in fear because of the male sexual organ and their inability to control it.

Do you think castration might be the answer?

Well said bro. The woman fit don turn tiger since for the husband.

Clone2020:
The woman wants a ready-made UK doctor that's earning lots of pound sterling. Imagine when one pound is over N450, abeg who no like better thing? But why isn't the married Ngozi woman heaping blame on her husband? There has to be more to this story, maybe the couple are married but separated? Maybe they are in the process of a divorce? Maybe they just stayed married for the benefit of their 2 kids? Maybe the Ngozi wife has no intent of relocating back to Nigeria just like most women in the diaspora choose not to relocate to Nigeria? Many of these women want to work and retire overseas then possibly end up in a nursing home in their old age; something most men totally abhor.
Whatever the case, this makes for good drama and I would certainly like to know how it ends.

raayah:


If we close legs, they use force and rape women. We as a society have to come together and solve this issue of lack of self control in men.

Women, both young and old Are living in fear because of the male sexual organ and their inability to control it.

Do you think castration might be the answer?

thrash, who raped you …

is this a rape case

are you using rape as an excuse to open your legs wide to every Tom and Harry.

A lady moves into another woman's home and you are sprewing thrash.


It is obvious u have a problem with men, maybe from childhood and you were hurt still hurt, let it go and get healing.

Don't hide behind what happened years ago to form some strong feminist movement u are weak, very weak so As your points, if I lick your pussiess you will squirt in 5mins

Teddeebear:
thrash, who raped you …

is this a rape case

are you using rape to open your legs wide to every Tom and Harry.

A lady moves into another woman's home and you are sprewing thrash.


It is obvious u have a problem with men, maybe from childhood and you were hurt still hurt, let it go and get healing.

Don't hide behind what happened years ago to form some strong feminist movement u are weak, very weak so As your points, if I lick your pussiess you will squirt in 5mins

Maybe you didn't read the post, the man's family is based abroad while the woman is in Nigeria.

It's safe to say that this woman may be the victim in all this.

Why is it hard for men like you to agree that the person who erred in this situation was the man?

Why are you encouraging cheating and cheaters?

Why do you encourage indiscipline in men?

Why are you personally attacking me?

Back to my original question, what do we do about the lack of self control in men?

chubhiee:

Nne, I fear you o!

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scobaba:
Oya all my fellow igbo boys come and bash your brother ooo cos i am about to go hard on 'our tribe'.

How many times do we hear of such news in yoruba and hausa land? How many times have you heard our igbo sisters force their way into the home of poor men ? No. Its always the rich dudes. Our desire for money is so much that even our parents dont care what people have to say.

Imagine this rubbish girl now. I know this family. The couple are quite popular in nkwere. This fool knows that family very well, yet she went to pitch her tent in troubled waters.

I feel for her terribly. What is coming her way is beyond her imagination. Not too far from that village some years ago, another girl snatched somebody's hussy. She gave birth to two imbeciles thereafter.

I was 15 when i told my mum i will not marry an igbo lady, she tought i was joking. Today i am married to an urhobo, delta state lady.

I am not generalising. It works for some people. However, i was so sure i would die early if i marry from my side.

Bashers oya come oo, i wan laff.

if you truly know the families as well as you claim
Then you should know that

1 The couple has been unhappily married and separated for sometime
Why? This tendency of naija wives disrespecting their husbands once the man has married them brought them over to Uk and then they manage to become a nurse and also gain citizenship.
2 the new wife is not a gold digger as she is very rich on her own. She has her own house too both in the city and the village . hee family is very wealthy and learned too
She is the younger sister to Justice Chioma Nwosu Iheme
You can google that name to know her better
3 Doc came home met her and fell head over heels in love. and who wouldn't
She's a total package beautiful, intelligent, rich and humble
4 No man of such repute a renowned medical doctor practicing in the UK would ever get married without divorcing his existing wife.
Finally ladies need to learn humility nor matter the status they think they have attained
You simply cant eat your cake and have it
Whenever a man remarries and everyone around him is happy for him instead of trying to discourage him or trying to reconcile him with his wife then you know that something is wrong somewhere

tpiar:
Is it just me, or are Igbo men getting more polygamous.


Eg flavour, now another one.

They've always been just as promiscuous , dont let the parallel universe of NL deceive you. What seem on here is not what is happening in real world.

This is a place where people come to relax from their daily frustrations, a jobless man claims to be wealthier than Adenuga here.

Stainlessbabe:
if you truly know the families as well as you claim
Then you should know that

1 The couple has been unhappily married and separated for sometime
Why? This tendency of naija wives disrespecting their husbands once the man has married them brought them over to Uk and then they manage to become a nurse and also gain citizenship.
2 the new wife is not a gold digger as she is very rich on her own. She has her own house too both in the city and the village . hee family is very wealthy and learned too
She is the younger sister to Justice Chioma Nwosu Iheme
You can google that name to know her better
3 Doc came home met her and fell head over heels in love. and who wouldn't
She's a total package beautiful, intelligent, rich and humble

But she could not get an unmarried man to date her despite all these?

It had to be the jazzed doctor in far away London to attempt to wife her?

Clearly, you are not telling the whole story.

Clone2020:
The woman wants a ready-made UK doctor that's earning lots of pound sterling. Imagine when one pound is over N450, abeg who no like better thing? But why isn't the married Ngozi woman heaping blame on her husband? There has to be more to this story, maybe the couple are married but separated? Maybe they are in the process of a divorce? Maybe they just stayed married for the benefit of their 2 kids? Maybe the Ngozi wife has no intent of relocating back to Nigeria just like most women in the diaspora choose not to relocate to Nigeria? Many of these women want to work and retire overseas then possibly end up in a nursing home in their old age; something most men totally abhor.
Whatever the case, this makes for good drama and I would certainly like to know how it ends.

All is see is a husband snatching incident here. The husband is just like many men , after 20 years he wants a young fresh bride to dey flex.

The girl is only around for his money. Who no wab flez inside mansion with marble floor

sweetgala:


They've always been just as promiscuous , dont let the parallel universe of NL deceive you. What seem on here is not what is happening in real world.

This is a place where people come to relax from their daily frustrations, a jobless man claims to be wealthier than Adenuga here.

I just checked a thread where a lot of male Igbo nlers were claiming they'd marry another wife sha?

A man got in trouble due to frequent trips abroad of unknown purpose, and many of the males were insisting they would marry another wife if it were them.

OneManLegion:
Why is our agricultural sector still in a mess?



When we have so many hoes!

Speaking in parables? Please decode for me(us) jor.

OneManLegion:
Why is our agricultural sector still in a mess?



When we have so many hoes!

This is the best comment I have read since time immemorial

raayah:


Maybe you didn't read the post, the man's family is based abroad while the woman is in Nigeria.

It's safe to say that this woman may be the victim in all this.

Why is it hard for men like you to agree that the person who erred in this situation was the man?

Why are you encouraging cheating and cheaters?

Why do you encourage indiscipline in men?

Why are you personally attacking me?

Back to my original question, what do we do about the lack of self control in men?

as the story goes the have a house in Nigeria, and the husband snatcher has moved into the house.


i repeat, men can't cheat without open pussiess, close the pussiess, married men will return to their wives

raayah:


When did men stop being virtuous, when did they loose self-control? When will they stop thinking with their peenis?

He decided to throw away 20 years of marriage and a beautiful family for a woman? How do you know this woman is not virtous? How are you sure she wasn't deceived and lied to seeing that his family was abroad?

When are men going to start taking responsibility for their actions?
When are men going to be held accountable?
Why have men been stop being faithful?
Why have men lost their integrity?

I can conclude she was not deceived, and if at first he was not generous with the truth I'm sure she knew after a while. Her intentions are obvious she wants a life of riches and comfort, that is why after the bruhaha atvtge wedding she has not asked her father to return the bride price.

She sees herself as a traditinally married wife and has moved into the man's home he built with his legal wife.

As my aunt so vividly pointed out to me, under Nigerian law, unless the man explicitly states in his will that all his possessions be given to the traditional wife ( there can only be one legal wife, at any given time) , the UK wife gets everything, and can contest the case in court and win

Eyekandi:
Indeed husbands are scarce

rich husband u mean?

Does the man resemble someone who is not married?

The people who attended that "wedding" sef, na wa for una.

So much for "investigating background".

All na farce.

tpiah2:


I just checked a thread where a lot of male Igbo nlers were claiming they'd marry another wife sha?

A man got in trouble due to frequent trips abroad of unknown purpose, and many of the males were insisting they would marry another wife if it were them.

It is the nature of men the world over, especially in communities where it is socially acceptable.

I just find that in the past and maybe present, Igbo men are less likely to formalise their polygamous lifestyle by marying a second wife because of the cost and bureaucracy involved, unlike their SW and northern brethren

Life goes on and the world keeps spinning.

sweetgala:


It is the nature is men the world over, especially in communities where it is socially acceptable.

I just find that in the past and maybe present, Igbo men are less likely to formalise their polygamous lifestyle by marying a second wife because of the cost and bureaucracy involved, unlike their SW and northern brethren

The ones on the other thread insisted they dont mind polygamy, and they even sounded so eager about it.