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Hello nairalanders,
Pls I need your thoughts and advice on this pressing issue,really trying to put my self together,am going to meet my INLAWS for the first time,they my inlaws r from abia state from olokoro,d man seems tough!I don't really know d kind of questions to expect since he is bent on me not marrying the daughter.pls I need all your experience on this.tnks house

Why is he bent on you not marrying the daughter?

He claims she is d only child of her mother,dat if e had anoder e wud av allowed me

Pls moderators pls help push to front page I need advice plsssss cos am nervous

malawi14:
He claims she is d only child of her mother,dat if e had anoder e wud av allowed me

Are you from malawi?

But these were your comments a month ago

malawi14:
Am realy so angry and depressed,pls nairaland pls and pls I need advice.first is the lady I want to marry is from abia state,olokoro ita-ja,d parents r problems on their own,a family that insist I have to buy a land before I marry their daughter,that aside,her aunty who is the dads junior sis talks anyhow,there is nothing that hapens in my fiances house that the father won't tell d sister,if de mess the father will call d sister married to another family nd stat spilling all dat is goin on in his house,d mother is like a vegetable in her own husband house,she can't talk and defend her daughter,cos she as no male son,am so so so tired wit everytin hapening around this lady,cos I love her so much,pls she is here wit me pls advise her and me what to do.tnx

You're still going ahead?

Okay...

Am from edo state

Promise d fada u 'll take care of hs dauta like 'kwoi' ie egg !
Chai c wahala! Many watas cannot quench love.

Yes am still goin ahead cos I locve her,am seeing the parents tomorow

malawi14:
Yes am still goin ahead cos I locve her,am seeing the parents tomorow

So I guess that means you're going there with deeds and C of O for a piece of land in her father's name bah

malawi14:
Yes am still goin ahead cos I locve her,am seeing the parents tomorow

Why nervous Oga? Is the man not a man like you? You're going on a good note, so why scared? Loosen up please. . No need being unnecessarily nervous, it's a huge turnoff. . Be bold!!!

Ok tnks pal,ill brief u guyz abt the turn out of tinz tomorow,all I pray for its God's favour

Op,I wish you well. Just be calm abt the whole thing cos trust me,it will work out fine if you do. Ur would-be inlaws wants to be convinced their daughter will be in safe hands.
Get ready to be tasked though since you are an outsider. "onye-ebo".
Hmmmmm,dis one that edo guys are seriously going for abia ladies...it is well ooo.

Take small alcohol before going and wash your mouth so it doesnt reek alcohol

Just go ahead and freestyle

raumdeuter:
Take small alcohol before going and wash your mouth so it doesnt reek alcohol

Just go ahead and freestyle

Even if the OP were a drinker, it still may not be advisable for him to do that, and that's because alcohol seeps through the pores when taken. Simply put, you 'sweat' a little amount of alcohol when you take it. As such, washing his mouth with hypo wouldn't stop him from reeking of alcohol. On a second thought though, perhaps he should take some alcohol before going, so his in-laws to-be see him as he is. That way, they know straight-out that he is no teetotaler. We have enough pretence in the world as it is already.

My Take op: Be confident; think before you talk. Lastly, make sure before leaving that house you convince her father that you love his daughter and would take good care of her. Good luck

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Gaborone:
Even if the OP were a drinker, it still may not be advisable for him to do that, and that's because alcohol seeps through the pores when taken. Simply put, you 'sweat' a little amount of alcohol when you take it. As such, washing his mouth with hypo wouldn't stop him from reeking of alcohol. On a second thought though, perhaps he should take some alcohol before going, so his in-laws to-be see him as he is. That way, they know straight-out that he is no teetotaler. We have enough pretence in the world as it is already.

My Take op: Be confident; think before you talk. Lastly, make sure before leaving that house you convince her father that you love his daughter and would take good care of her. Good luck

Tnk u so much,ill gist u guys lata in the day