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Now, I dont know if I'm the only one experiencing this, so I'll like to know why some people just wont let other people be. Ever since I got separated from my girlfriend back in 2014, I've decided to be single for a while and use the time to work on myself. Now the issue is this: Ever since then, I've lived in two neighbourhoods. I keep hearing of rumors about me not having a girlfriend by the oc (observers clubs) in each area I've been. Some say maybe I'm scared of women, some say I have a secret mama. Now the latest going round right now that is making me furious right now is that I'm Gay!

Must I go and have a girlfriend just to make people take their eyes (mouths) off me?
I have a neighbour (a girl) that we used to discuss. She was at my place a day before val, and she asked when was the last time I had sex and when I told her, she exclaimed with her eyes wide open if I am sure that I'm alrite. I am single and I'm not complaining, na pple come dey help me to complain.Guys, anyone else experiencing this?

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Now, I dont know if I'm the only one experiencing this, so I'll like to know why some people just wont let other people be. Ever since I got separated from my girlfriend back in 2014, I've decided to be single for a while and use the time to work on myself. Now the issue is this: Ever since then, I've lived in two neighbourhoods. I keep hearing of rumors about me not having a girlfriend by the oc (observers clubs) in each area I've been. Some say maybe I'm scared of women, some say I have a secret mama. Now the latest going round right now that is making me furious right now is that I'm Gay!

Must I go and have a girlfriend just to make people take their eyes (mouths) off me?
I have a neighbour (a girl) that we used to discuss. She was at my place a day before val, and she asked when was the last time I had sex and when I told her, she exclaimed with her eyes wide open if I am sure that I'm alrite. I am single and I'm not complaining, na pple come dey help me to complain.Guys, anyone else experiencing this?

Work on your self, people will always talk, if you have a girlfriend and another visits you the will say you like women too much. In other words what ever you do they will talk, just do what makes you happy

Thanks a lot. It's just so funny how people start defining you without even knowing you, it's crazy.

Don't let these nonsense ppol around ruin ur life...u don't have to do everything to please them but do what pleases u...

Ppol will say something whether u doing good or bad, these are the type of ppol who are lifeless,everyday ,they mind others biznez...

I personally love to be single,less stress,no dramas & I juz spend my whole time with myself without a conflict

Do What makes u happy OP

If nobody talks about you then you are nobody shun them joor

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Mtcheeew

You must be a celebrity in those hoods. try live with it and ignore them.