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Good day everyone, There's an issue I'm not really comfortable with right now and I am stock on what decision to make. I will try to be brief and straight to the point as possible.

I have a childhood friend we grew up in the same area as well.

I leave in Lagos and work in a hotel, last year after my friend finished his Bsc, I helped him in applying for jobs in Lagos for him to have something to hold on to before service later this year.

Fast forward to January ending this year, I found a place for him and invited him over to lag. To run d job I secured for him.

Barely 2 weeks when he came to Lagos, I returned home from work this faithful morning after night shift.
He told me that his girlfriend is paying him a visit from another state, and she's already in transit enroute lag. Just like dat without my consent she's coming over??
I was silent cos he said she will be spending a few days with him.

2weeks counting down, now the lady is still with us in d house, and my friend said he want her to stay with us for him to help her secure a job too, since they are course mate in the school.
I called him to advice him and make him see reasons why she can't stay with us but he gets angry each time I talk to him about the girl's issue. And also tell the girl whatever I told him, this makes her look at me with scorn always.

Fast forward to last week, he went to work and was paid half salary based on the fact that he didn't start work exactly 1st of d month.
He got angry and started insulting the manager the manager over heard him and it almost led to a fight.
He was sacked immediately.
He's at home now doing nothing with the girl too. I talked to him about the girl again and he said I should help him talk to one of my female neighbor so she could stay with her. I told him its not normal but he gets angry again told his girlfriend all my words.
I can no longer sleep well in my room cos it's a single room apartment,
I have given him tomorrow as ultimatum to send her back or I will send them both out of my house.

I'm still perplexed over the decision I'm about to take,
because we are good childhood friends and he may look at me as being wicked.

Please matured advice and critics are welcome.

Pardon my long story, I just wish to make sure you follow the story line. Thanks...


Cc: Lalastical, Pls make it FP for quick response.

JuniorGenuis:
Good day everyone, There's an issue I'm not really comfortable with right now and I am stock on what decision to make. I will try to be brief and straight to the point as possible.

I have a childhood friend we grew up in the same area as well.

I leave in Lagos and work in a hotel, last year after my friend finished his Bsc, I helped him in applying for jobs in Lagos for him to have something to hold on to before service later this year.

Fast forward to January ending this year, I found a place for him and invited him over to lag. To run d job I secured for him.

Barely 2 weeks when he came to Lagos, I returned home from work this faithful morning after night shift.
He told me that his girlfriend is paying him a visit from another state, and she's already in transit enroute lag. Just like dat without my consent she's coming over??
I was silent cos he said she will be spending a few days with him.

2weeks counting down, now the lady is still with us in d house, and my friend said he want her to stay with us for him to help her secure a job too, since they are course mate in the school.
I called him to advice him and make him see reasons why she can't stay with us but he gets angry each time I talk to him about the girl's issue. And also tell the girl whatever I told him, this makes her look at me with scorn always.

Fast forward to last week, he went to work and was paid half salary based on the fact that he didn't start work exactly 1st of d month.
He got angry and started insulting the manager the manager over heard him and it almost led to a fight.
He was sacked immediately.
He's at home now doing nothing with the girl too. I talked to him about the girl again and he said I should help him talk to one of my female neighbor so she could stay with her. I told him its not normal but he gets angry again told his girlfriend all my words.
I can no longer sleep well in my room cos it's a single room apartment,
I have given him tomorrow as ultimatum to her back or I will send them both out of my house.

I'm still perplexed over the decision I'm about to take,
because we are good childhood friends and he may look at me as being wicked.

Please matured advice and critics are welcome.

Pardon my long story, I just wish to make sure you follow the story line. Thanks...


Cc: Lalastical, Pls make it FP for quick response.

either u kick him and that girl out or both will kick u out. the decision is yours.

bro, pls bear with him, no one knows tomorrow. today the person who accommodated olajumoke when she came to Lagos is not regretting. take it easy and talk to him as matured people and sort it out

Is he the type of guy that would have done the same help for you? If so be patient with him, but with girl issue, that is bad on friend's part.

missdebs:
bro, pls bear with him, no one knows tomorrow. today the person who accommodated olajumoke when she came to Lagos is not regretting. take it easy and talk to him as matured people and sort it out

Each time we talk about it he gets angry and the bae looks at me as a bad person.