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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Sparklequeen(f): 2:14pm On Mar 04, 2016

Brother, the love will die off one day then u realize what a great mistake you av done. HE SHOULD PRAY ABOUT IT.

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by tosyne2much(m): 2:23pm On Mar 04, 2016

Why not ? Only that the possibility of him having extra marital affairs is very high

I know what I'm saying

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by WintyAriks(m): 2:26pm On Mar 04, 2016

24 of age isnt a hold-up for marriage. what matters most is de understanding of both parties nd their ability to cope with their needs. God is very happy wen young people join togeda in matrimony. "He that findeth a wife finds a good thing nd obtains favour frm God" I Myself i'm 24 nd Happily married nd also blesed wit a baby boy. I've coped so far nd Doors hav been openin fr me becos of my faith. So if de young man is willing, let him get Married... sucess

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Alexgeorgebsg(m): 2:37pm On Mar 04, 2016

When ladies get married at 24 nobody complains or say anything but when a guy gets married at 24 they make him feel like he has commited a sacrilage.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by donjon: 3:03pm On Mar 04, 2016

allow him, b4 he stabs somebody!
abi una no dey read newspaper?

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by me69: 3:09pm On Mar 04, 2016

Michizzy:
24 is too early for a guy to get married (marriage requires psychological maturity from both parties) and he also don't have a stable source of income. I wouldn't support that, unless it's for good course.

when do u reach that psychological maturity huh

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Emmadel: 3:11pm On Mar 04, 2016

[quote author=Last2comment post=43466491]How rich are you guys to sponsor him. If marrying will keep him away from HIV and unwanted pregnancy.. why not? [/quot

I've thought about that too, but getting married without a job is just total irresponsibility, unless he is from a wealthy family.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by stanley000: 3:25pm On Mar 04, 2016

I had my first daughter at 22,today she's almost a graduate while I still dey blow guy,he should go for it joor

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Sexyolori(f): 3:51pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

Na wa, what does he want to use to feed the family?

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by dotun365: 3:58pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

he hasn't faced the realities of life yet. If he's lucky and has a good job by then no problem it's a good thib

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by NobleG1(m): 3:59pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

Where is the money for wedding coming and family upkeep going to come from? If he expects someone else to sponsor it, then he's a fool!
Tell him to chill until he starts working and get himself settled first!

His girlfriend is probably the one pushing him.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Nobody: 4:18pm On Mar 04, 2016

falconey:
@24 is he psychologically ready for HELL?

So you know marriage is hell and you people give us a lot of trouble ? Its more like a semi-prison for d male folks.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by dumie(f): 4:21pm On Mar 04, 2016

@ op are u Anna Banner? Flavour's babymama coz that's her pix in ur dp before she became a beauty queen

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Khayil(m): 4:52pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

@op there is an error:
pls change the "hard" to soft
it will be and "soft" no work.

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by DonaTee(f): 4:52pm On Mar 04, 2016

I knw some 40+ uncles who hav refused to marry. D beautiful ones r not yet born yet dey destroy gullible girls wit fake promises

Its not abt the age buh about maturity n focus. If d family disagrees n he insists nko? May Gof guide una as u tackle dis. I pray he's not under pressure to marry d said girl.

By 70yrs his 5th generation go don full d earth lol grin

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Philadelphia: 4:54pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

My daughter said she saw this question in her JAMB exam yesterday but can't remember if she picked "Yes" or "No". I'd ask her to print out her result today so I can check the answer to this your question. undecided

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by richidinho(m): 5:00pm On Mar 04, 2016

Okemmuo:
.......Duuuuuddeee.. no offence oh..buh slyk u Don give geh belle b4

belle keh

i don marry....if you no dey skull i advise u go do same

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by acada111(f): 5:04pm On Mar 04, 2016

Michizzy:
24 is too early for a guy to get married (marriage requires psychological maturity from both parties) and he also don't have a stable source of income. I wouldn't support that, unless it's for good course.

Some 24yrs old men are more mature psychologically than most men of 30. My brother got married at 22, been married now for about six years, with a daughter. They are both doing well for themselves.
My take here is this: what does the girl do? She should be a hard working woman, who's ready to make sacrifices for her home to work because the guy has really not made it big presently. If that's the case, you guys should support the union but If she's the one that buys 150k Brazilian hair, my dear, na one chance your brother de enter o cheesy

.... Reject it.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Koinzino(m): 5:26pm On Mar 04, 2016

24 is not a bad age for marriage.. the question is are u ready financially and psychologically?

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Misterdhee1(m): 5:34pm On Mar 04, 2016

At 24, he should be matured enough to take his choices.. As dear ones, just try nd let him know the consequences that his choices might lead him to..

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by Michizzy(f): 5:35pm On Mar 04, 2016

acada111:
Some 24yrs old men are more mature psychologically than most men of 30. My brother got married at 22, been married now for about six years, with a daughter. They are both doing well for themselves.
My take here is this: what does the girl do? She should be a hard working woman, who's ready to make sacrifices for her home to work because the guy has really not made it big presently. If that's the case, you guys should support the union but If she's the one that buys 150k Brazilian hair, my dear, na one chance your brother de enter o .... Reject it.

That's why I said, both parties should be matured psychological and also it's a belief that with age comes maturity, people expect you to be more matured as you grow older. Your brother may be matured enough to handle marriage complexities but what about the OP's brother? You are using your brother to generalize other males.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by morganwizzy55(m): 5:38pm On Mar 04, 2016

I read many comments but all I can see majority of NL ladies disagree with it, ok all I understand is that, if guys start getting married as early as 22 upwards, some ladies might turn around toasting guys cos men are going to be scarce.. If u are not destiny to be rich, if u like no marry til u clock 40,all are d same...for me, I'm 25 and now I av started thinking of getting married.. Don't ask me what I do for a leaving, EFCC will look for me if I disclose it

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by maureen546: 5:39pm On Mar 04, 2016

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by petiteee(f): 5:44pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
no belle, just they too intimate.

have been reading your GBAGAUNS! shocked

Menh I can't hold it anymore

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by mamaafrik(m): 5:46pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
no belle, just they too intimate.

the lady causes it,she'z telling him "i wana settledown",sit him down and talk to him.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by rhymesnoni(m): 6:04pm On Mar 04, 2016

Allow him, afta 3 months dat tin dat z pushn hm 2 gt married. Wld clear 4 em eyes.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by swaggprofessor(m): 6:11pm On Mar 04, 2016

Sasuwa:
He Just graduated , waiting for youth services and hard no work. Should we allow him?

If u ask meeeee na who I go askkkkk?

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by swaggprofessor(m): 6:14pm On Mar 04, 2016

Philadelphia:
My daughter said she saw this question in her JAMB exam yesterday but can't remember if she picked "Yes" or "No". I'd ask her to print out her result today so I can check the answer to this your question.

Wait, really?? ur mumu is baffling.

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by buoye1(m): 6:17pm On Mar 04, 2016

Nothing bad with his age, the problem is the no source of income.....there's more to marriage than love and intimacy...

He should pray for a steady job and go ahead

Poverty makes us think marriage should be at 30-35¡!!

How old is Olamide and wiskid... Davido

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Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by idrezee(m): 6:28pm On Mar 04, 2016

tellwisdom:
So eating amala everyday plus once in a while coke to step it down now translates to you taking care of your family?
If i go look you very well, i know sey you go don look like your papa twins

thanks, i had a job last year as a sales manager, my wife is a graduate too and works too. We have money to feed a family of ten atleast. Its not about age, just believe, be determined and pray. Im very hardworking right from uni, I sale phones, computer, etc. So I was able to fend for them till I got a job last year.

Re: My Younger Brother Wants To Marry At 24 by vanvick247(m): 6:41pm On Mar 04, 2016

No hurry in Marriage. Is ur broda really prepare for d challenges and hurdles that come with this union called Marriage..?

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