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The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken.

I can’t really blame guys who are
involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major
concern here.

Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an
irresponsible husband.

1.Extremely stingy

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night
calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through Whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.

2.Highly promiscuous

This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt.
These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.

3. Very lazy

Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like Bet9ja,Nairabet,
etc. to make money.

4.Ridicule ladies

I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on social media some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare
and good ones.

5.Habit of alcoholism and smoking

For a guy that consume too much
alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children’s school fee and other
budgetary money to drink and smoke.

6.Wrong lifestyle

Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area
touts.

7.Careless attitude

The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any
sex journey that becomes foetus.

8.Poor financial planning

Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc.
Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.

9.Bad listening habit

Most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the
productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation
usually results in conflicts and
misunderstandings among partners, and it creates a negative environment.

10.Lack of Self control

Some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires.
Guys should constantly be striving
towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need tounderstand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain
fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.

11. Interrupting a conversation

Guys are good at Interrupting a
conversation with improper body
language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. Some does this a lot and it annoys me.

12.Dirty

Some guys are so dirty that if they
should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able to breathe for hours and most of them terms it sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ,taaah…go and sleep it’s a
turn off to most ladies. They love
guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home.

13.Bragging

Some guys brag a lot. I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to
treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, They like money, just like most men, but that doesn’t mean you should also shout it…. Brags are turn off for them(Farano and Ishilove can attest to it).


Tosyne2much,Wristbangle,Lalasticlala

I drop my pen here. You can add yours.

''Eventually'' become irresponsible you say? All these signs show he's ALREADY irresponsible! And not even marriage can change that...

Seconded

60% of nairaland guys are guilty of no. 4

thesicilian:
''Eventually'' become irresponsible you say? All these signs show he's ALREADY irresponsible! And not even marriage can change that...

simple.

I BOLDLY disagree wif you,what happens to the saying 'when you're in Rome ,you behave like the Romans '....enjoy your youthful years,when you get married you behave like a married man...you can't behave like a married man while you're still single.......
Op go out and enjoy your youthful years..stop wrapping yourself in jealousy.

unfounded facts,that is all i can say,because there is time for everything.

OMG! See serial bashing!! Op thoroughly flogged this topic so much so I feel is it embarrased now in fellow alpha positives who might fall in line in most these egregiously foppish and insalubrious attributes so well instituted... Anyway, to err is human. Ladies shouldn't expect 100 or they'll just be chasing shadows... That's the Wooorrd!

Irresponsible husband you say?

Let him become someone's boyfriend first, then fiancé, to husband.


Cos I am sure no lady will want that type of guy as a friend

Funny enough...even as i try to form bad guy...i dont have any of these behaviours...people with these traits make bad children to their parents, bad friends to peers, bad neighbours to people around them and are a menace to the society...

i understand what i'm saying so nobody should dare mention me for unnecessary reasons....


lalasticlala duty calls...no let this thread rot here

amzee Dont tell me that a guy is lazy, just because he is seen in betting shop. Am not agree with that. Like u said guys should take hold of every opportunity around em, dont u know football betting is an opportunity to get rich? I agree with every other point though.

pablobellins:
amzee Dont tell me that a guy is lazy, just because he is seen in betting shop. Am not agree with that. Like u said guys should take hold of every opportunity around em, dont u know football betting is an opportunity to get rich? I agree with every other point though.

some guys spend all their time in betting shops and expect God to bless them...it wont happen cos those guys are LAZY...Betting is even ADDICTIVE which leads to more LAZINESS...which in turn multiplies the number of USELESS and IRRESPONSIBLE YOUTHS

Jblaiseboy:
I BOLDLY disagree wif you,what happens to the saying 'when you're in Rome ,you behave like the Romans '....enjoy your youthful years,when you get married you behave like a married man...you can't behave like a married man while you're still single.......
Op go out and enjoy your youthful years..stop wrapping yourself in jealousy.

Old saying dat "wen u r in Rome behave lyk a Roman". You can enjoy your youthful years and become a good husband without doing whats listed above.
I am not jealous cos I am also guilty of some of the signs.