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Hello, I'm a final year student in the university of Lagos, and there is this beautiful girl I've been hanging with for a while, she happens to be a calabar girl, and I feel lucky to have her because im not a very handsome or Rich guy but........... It's just that she doesn't dress good. And here it's how it all started
Well, months back, I noticed she liked one of my friends and was always trying to seek his attention, but he didn't just like her and I guess it was because of the way she dressed cos she actually looked rough with squeezed clothes, unkept hair, and she happened to have unshaved BEARDS which was a major turn off for many guys including me.
Until about a month ago when I was in a Brt bus going to ikorodu and I decided to stand up for her to sit cos she was standing and since then, we've been getting closer and closer and closer and we're are now very close, but my friends have been making jest of me cos of her beards(but I don't care) and I just want her to shave it and maybe start dressing more neatly, but I don't know how to tell her without offending her cos she gets offended quickly and I don't want to do anything that will offend her cos this girl is my miss world, she's beautiful and extremely intelligent and I want other guys to know what they've been missing.
so girls do you have any idea how I can tell her to shave her beards without offending her ?

Give her a link to this page and let her view it.

On a serious note, you can tell in a joking way.
" You are beautiful, I believe you look more beautiful if u shave your beards".... Make sure you stress the word Beautiful..

After that, use complementary words to make her do things you love to see her do!!!


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Are u the one dating her or she's the one dating you....if u the one dating her I see no reason why u can't politely tell her to start dressing nicely

Oohh qualer is at this...

ProfOrlando:
Hello, I'm a final year student in the university of Lagos, and there is this beautiful girl I've been hanging with for a while, she happens to be a calabar girl, and I feel lucky to have her because im not a very handsome or Rich guy but........... It's just that she doesn't dress good. And here it's how it all started
Well, months back, I noticed she liked one of my friends and was always trying to seek his attention, but he didn't just like her and I guess it was because of the way she dressed cos she actually looked rough with squeezed clothes, unkept hair, and she happened to have unshaved BEARDS which was a major turn off for many guys including me.
Until about a month ago when I was in a Brt bus going to ikorodu and I decided to stand up for her to sit cos she was standing and since then, we've been getting closer and closer and closer and we're are now very close, but my friends have been making jest of me cos of her beards(but I don't care) and I just want her to shave it and maybe start dressing more neatly, but I don't know how to tell her without offending her cos she gets offended quickly and I don't want to do anything that will offend her cos this girl is my miss world, she's beautiful and extremely intelligent and I want other guys to know what they've been missing.
so girls do you have any idea how I can tell her to shave her beards without offending her ?

ALL TALK AND NO ACTION MAKES proforlando a DULL GUY


young man, y talk, when u could buy her a dress with a pressing IRON that can work with small generator,


Y talk about her BEARDS, when u could go hunt for a total hair removal shaving cream and help her with it,

UNLESS YOU JUST SEEK SEX n YOU DONT PLAN TO MARRY HER..... the best way to TELL her in love is to DO IT FOR HER. you cant be so broke-ass THAT YOU CANT AFFORD THESE THINGS, THEY SELL THEM AT GARAGE IKORODU LAST BUSSTOP, I LIVE IN IKORODU AND I KNOW. SO PLS GET TO WORK ON YOUR WOMAN AND SHE WILL LOVE YOU MORE, IF U TELL HER TO GO N DO IT, AND ANOTHER GUY GIVES HER THE MONEY FOR IT, THEN U R THE ULTIMATE LOSER.....


ON THE OTHER HAND, AFTER ALL THESE IS SAID N DONE N SHE IS NOW SO PRETTY, A SHARP GUY WITH RELIGIOUS LOOKS AND CASH OR CAR AND ALSO GOOD IN BED, CAN WHISK HER AWAY FROM YOU...... PRAY THAT YOU DO NOT LABOUR FOR ANOTHER MAN TO ENJOY.... I PREFER YOU FOCUS ON BETTER AND MOST IMPORTANT THINGS FIRST THAN LOOKS, BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR LIFE ON A GIRL WHO MAY SECRETLY STILL LOVE THE OTHER GUY, AND ONCE SHE IS PRETTY, THEN THE OTHER GUY COMES AND CLAIMS HER AND SHE GOES FOR HIM COS HE IS HER FIRST LOVE.

LOOK BEFORE U LEAP.

tripplephi:
ALL TALK AND NO ACTION MAKES proforlando a DULL GUY


young man, y talk, when u could buy her a dress with a pressing IRON that can work with small generator,


Y talk about her BEARDS, when u could go hunt for a total hair removal shaving cream and help her with it,

UNLESS YOU JUST SEEK SEX n YOU DONT PLAN TO MARRY HER..... the best way to TELL her in love is to DO IT FOR HER. you cant be so broke-ass THAT YOU CANT AFFORD THESE THINGS, THEY SELL THEM AT GARAGE IKORODU LAST BUSSTOP, I LIVE IN IKORODU AND I KNOW. SO PLS GET TO WORK ON YOUR WOMAN AND SHE WILL LOVE YOU MORE, IF U TELL HER TO GO N DO IT, AND ANOTHER GUY GIVES HER THE MONEY FOR IT, THEN U R THE ULTIMATE LOSER.....


ON THE OTHER HAND, AFTER ALL THESE IS SAID N DONE N SHE IS NOW SO PRETTY, A SHARP GUY WITH RELIGIOUS LOOKS AND CASH OR CAR AND ALSO GOOD IN BED, CAN WHISK HER AWAY FROM YOU...... PRAY THAT YOU DO NOT LABOUR FOR ANOTHER MAN TO ENJOY.... I PREFER YOU FOCUS ON BETTER AND MOST IMPORTANT THINGS FIRST THAN LOOKS, BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR LIFE ON A GIRL WHO MAY SECRETLY STILL LOVE THE OTHER GUY, AND ONCE SHE IS PRETTY, THEN THE OTHER GUY COMES AND CLAIMS HER AND SHE GOES FOR HIM COS HE IS HER FIRST LOVE.


LOOK BEFORE U LEAP.

Thanks alot, I just felt that buying those things would be more offensive than telling her, but, by the way, thanks for your suggestion

Tell her DAT u want her look to change

So guys around would see her real beauty



Try to even see her home

Because with wat u are saying I just can't imagine how her home will look like

If d home is unkept clean it for her and den seat her down and talk sense into her with seriousness

She go change

Since she is a lovely lady, I suggest you get her to drink 4bottles of oohmpa, tell her it's is blood tonic. When she is drunk and asleep, use the nearest Bic to shave that disgusting thing she has on the chin. Wear her nice cloths too. When she wakes up, tell her angel Gabriel has done it again. Tenk

Guy carry her enter bathroom tell her make una bath, during the course of bathing you can suggest shaving that time she for don hot so tey she go forget the rashes which is main reason some don't shave and you will make her know how you love it shaved and trust me she go take the cue. You can iron her cloths and take her pics later you will show her beautiful and she looks. Even she go like her new look. It's not going to be a one time thing but with persevereance and no nagging just make it fun she will change and believe me, you don own her be that cause she will worship you and your friends go begin jealous you. Goodluck

First of, whenever you wanna make a remark that is somewhat negative about somebody, desist from attaching the tribe....why am i saying this?, cos there's how the human mind and thinking works...





Unto the matter on ground....only husband materials take such steps you wanna take, my adavice, allow her to be like that first until you must 've convinced her of your love, and perhaps, she must 've been indebted to you, and ofcourse you guys must 've gone far in the dating world, then alluringly and subtly tell her, she will definitely adjust for good...



All these advice wey we dey pour out our heart give una sef, nothing dey come out

If u nor get the money to change her wardrobe......
*in PEJ's voice* ""will you keep quite!!!""

Buy her clothes. For the beards... .. Tell her like 'Bae we are shaving this thing o(touch it), you sef will see how cute you' ll appear without it. Can you see I shaved mine because it makes one look rough'




I think that's loving enough.

Say the truth, and shame the devil..