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Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by Nobody:
a similar case happened I know of,the man threatened to arrest the guy, the lady threatened to take the case to court and defend her husband because her dad had children from four women and she was the eldest, people had to advice the man to back off, and today she is happy, for now,the guy is his favorite in-law,some parents especially father's just give flimsy excuses, the man was a dictator,his house was more like a military zone, with him as the commander in-chief
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 7:48am On Mar 18, 2016
Thy stupidity and thy mental illness, they shall follow thee all the days of thy life!

Toeyoursea:
Shout out to all the fools that opened this thread with the intention of seeing a story of an Hausa/Muslim whose wife is hidden in the Emirs palace.

Awon Oloriburuk# tribalist oshi
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 7:52am On Mar 18, 2016
And you are called ignorant or uneducated!!

yomip3t:
Mature adult doesn't work with taking a child away from his / her parent okay.

It's called Abduction!!!!
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 8:01am On Mar 18, 2016
You need a decent education. You also need to know we are in 2015 not 1815! undecided

dovezeeta:
u knw nothin abt marriage, I can c u r a rebellious person worst than boko haram. Her paarents still have right over her atleast d foolish geh didn't put herself or paid for her university fees. Rebellious children!
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by Nobody: 8:14am On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
You need a decent education. You also need to know we are in 2015 not 1815! undecided
d rate of divorce in 2015 is higher than in d year 1815. When u talk abt a decent education I believe u r talking abt d evolution of science n not marriage. If u wanna follow d white peeps go ahead. I choose d African way which leads to zero divorce rate. Ur decent education in marriage teaches u to divorce n remarry 5times in a year . #rebellious children
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by yomip3t(m): 8:19am On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
And you are called ignorant or uneducated!!
Professor of English who studied in England, Kindly explain ABDUCTION for us Sir.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 8:22am On Mar 18, 2016
grin grin Zero divorce rate with unhappy couples forced to stay together because of tradition. A decent education will ensure you know what is expected of a spouse and know what the current laws are!!

dovezeeta:
d rate of divorce in 2015 is higher than in d year 1815. When u talk abt a decent education I believe u r talking abt d evolution of science n not marriage. If u wanna follow d white peeps go ahead. I choose d African way which leads to zero divorce rate. Ur decent education in marriage teaches u to divorce n remarry 5times in a year . #rebellious children
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by bigiyaro(m): 8:33am On Mar 18, 2016
Cutehector:
a fvckin dude? Does dat guy in d pic look poor to u? Get the fvck out of my sight.. goat.
OK pig.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
grin grin Zero divorce rate with unhappy couples forced to stay together because of tradition. A decent education will ensure you know what is expected of a spouse and know what the current laws are!!
marriage is made for two forgivers dat r mature n understand each other but not for two captains in a ship. In d old daays our parents understood each oda even wen der was no moni at home for food. Dey still stuck togeda. Now adays marriage is just all abt moni not love but wen d moni isn't flowing as usual d geh is gone. Young ladies going for bully as husband then seek redress or divorce wen d beating has gone beyond endurance. Those days our paarents wld luk for waays to investigate d guy bfor d contract of marriage. My parents neva dictated or forced any1 on me. I married my choice plus I patiently waited for her parents to accept me being some1 frm anoda state in nigeria. Not because I want to marry a lady I must take her by force without her parents” blessing. Dat is wrong! Both of u show u have no regaard for any1. Try going to America without visa n let me c weda na ur papa get america.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by ranktzy(m): 8:59am On Mar 18, 2016
RuuDie:
I no need to check anybody... I grew up with this young man; watched and argued EPL, study, play and partied together. I know am reach house, so who be Stella!? Abegi...
I know him too, he's mum is a friend of my mum, so know the rest of his siblings. If he was married with 4kids,we would have celebrated with him & extended family. This goes to show that these bloggers lie alot to make a living... Just imagine people who don't know him from adam calling him a gold digger.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by Ayo25: 9:04am On Mar 18, 2016
RuuDie:
@Ayo25

I sabi Kris (Ugo) very well and the suggestion that he is some sort of gold-digger outrages me. How much dem wan give am sef... omo I dey boil for here wen I dey. Young man suppose dey house je'je dey cheer UTD angry
We were both in the same faculty in the University, graduated same year and were like brothers at the NYSC orientation camp in Kano. I do not think he is an hungry man. I know of a couple of cases as this. A unifying thing in all of the cases is for the helpless parents of the lady to allege gold-digging and hypnotism. But its all bullshit to me and thats why I do not mention it in my earlier post.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by julsuc: 9:54am On Mar 18, 2016
kITATITA:
My dear Sister; Glory to Jesus. Families could do more harm than good sometimes. I'm almost certain that they feel that the young man is beneath their Dr. Daughter.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by prissyluv(f): 10:17am On Mar 18, 2016
RuuDie:
Prissyluv, baby124, aforti, peacengine
I no talk again!
You can imagine! Baby124 come and see this oooooo.
It is all about the fathers' interest.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by prissyluv(f): 10:23am On Mar 18, 2016
ranktzy:
I know him too, he's mum is a friend of my mum, so know the rest of his siblings. If he was married with 4kids,we would have celebrated with him & extended family. This goes to show that these bloggers lie alot to make a living... Just imagine people who don't know him from adam calling him a gold digger.
How can a guy of 30 with four kids already? When he take born them? Upon say he go school. He no do child spacing at all. People and common sense seems now far away. I no dey mind this bloggers at all.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 10:30am On Mar 18, 2016
How can somebody not understand the conditional conjunction "IF"? You are truly far away from common sense. Please try coming closer to it, it doesn't bite!! undecided

prissyluv:
How can a guy of 30 with four kids already? When he take born them? Upon say he go school. He no do child spacing at all. People and common sense seems now far away. I no dey mind this bloggers at all.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 10:37am On Mar 18, 2016
Abduction: The action or an instance of forcibly taking someone away against their will.
Elopement: A situation in which a couple runs away together and seeks the consent of their parents later.

I assume you didn't study English through out your education? Thank me later. grin

yomip3t:
Professor of English who studied in England, Kindly explain ABDUCTION for us Sir.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by sholatour(m): 10:40am On Mar 18, 2016
This is serious, i dont know when the police will no longer be used to settle personal scores.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by prissyluv(f): 10:44am On Mar 18, 2016
peacengine:
Approach the boy's family? Did you ask your friend if he took his family to the lady's house for introduction?

How can a woman risk marriage without the consent of her parents? Later when they burst her eyes and nose she will post graphic pictures on Facebook.
Which introduction?do you know how many times they must have begged for it?do you know how many friends,relatives and well wishes that must have interceeded on their behalf? So how will he now do the introduction?

Be true to your self dear,all these abusive marriages and divorce cases you are seeing today are with parental consent.

What more can parents do in an abusive marriage,it is either they ask you to endure it that marriage is not a bed of roses or ask you to end it. The decision still lies in you. Even when a lady complains too much to her parents,they start seeing it as been childish and unable to manage your home.

Lets us start taking charge of our decisions today. It makes us better people.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by prissyluv(f): 10:48am On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
How can somebody not understand the conditional conjunction "IF"? You are truly far away from common sense. Please try coming closer to it, it doesn't bite!! undecided
I dont exchange words here,so i will pass.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 11:35am On Mar 18, 2016
You don't have the capacity to exchange words... thanks for passing grin

prissyluv:
I dont exchange words here,so i will pass.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by byteem: 12:48pm On Mar 18, 2016
THE GUY SHOULD GET A LAWYER TO FILE FUNDAMENTAL RIGHT ENFORCEMENT SUIT.. AND SERVE THE POLICE AND ALSO SUE FOR WRONGFUL IMPRISONMENT AND THREAT TO LIFE ..
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by RuuDie(m): 2:00pm On Mar 18, 2016
ranktzy, ayo25

Me sef shock na...wife and four kids!!? Frim where?
Anyway, I still believe my guy till next tomorrow. I'm sure he did everything he was supposed to do 'normally'; but the other people just want to frustrate them. My annoyance is his illegal arrest. Make dem arrest their daughter leave another pesin pikin alone!
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by RuuDie(m): 2:08pm On Mar 18, 2016
peacengine:
Approach the boy's family? Did you ask your friend if he took his family to the lady's house for introduction?

How can a woman risk marriage without the consent of her parents?
Later when they burst her eyes and nose she will post graphic pictures on Facebook.
Your brain has finally come to the party...all the while you just dey rake anyhow. What did her parents do to her to make her choose to take the "risk"!!?
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by peacengine(m): 2:21pm On Mar 18, 2016
RuuDie:
Your brain has finally come to the party...all the while you just dey rake anyhow. What did her parents do to her to make her choose to take the "risk"!!?
Or rather what did your friend promise to give her if she married him against her parents wish. Bro, there's always two sides to a coin.

I am rather worried for your friend's life, I know you are aware of how desperate some people can be. A father that can lock his in-law up can also do worse than that, I wouldn't even attempt such if I was in your guy's shoes. I believe in love but not at the risk of my life.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by yomip3t(m): 3:19pm On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
Abduction: The action or an instance of forcibly taking someone away against their will.
Elopement: A situation in which a couple runs away together and seeks the consent of their parents later.

I assume you didn't study English through out your education? Thank me later. grin
Prof You went for hours to Google to search yet you are here again to type rubbish.

I'm not saying it's not an Elopement but it's clearly BRIDE KIDNAPPING!

It's Marriage by Abduction.



However if you don't know the meaning of Abduction. It means :
to carry off or lead away (a person) ILLEGALLY and in secret or by force, especially to kidnap.

I stand on my word. What he did was ABDUCTION and nothing more.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by DerMeister: 6:26pm On Mar 18, 2016
Pendejo, Unlike you, I don't need google to know what simple words mean. Please invest in a good education! undecided

yomip3t:
Prof You went for hours to Google to search yet you are here again to type rubbish.

I'm not saying it's not an Elopement but it's clearly BRIDE KIDNAPPING!

It's Marriage by Abduction.



However if you don't know the meaning of Abduction. It means :
to carry off or lead away (a person) ILLEGALLY and in secret or by force, especially to kidnap.

I stand on my word. What he did was ABDUCTION and nothing more.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by yomip3t(m): 6:46pm On Mar 18, 2016
DerMeister:
Pendejo, Unlike you, I don't need google to know what simple words mean. Please invest in a good education! undecided
Go get farm to work. E be like say unemployment dey help u give Nairaland too much power.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by manie(m): 7:25pm On Mar 18, 2016
RuuDie:
From what I've learnt so far, she is taking it to social media to drive attention - most likely she doesn't have a prayer with direct confrontation. Omo na my guy I dey worry for; just want my pal to be safe!
http://www.bellanaija.com/2016/03/man-arrested-by-police-for-marrying-his-girlfriend-without-her-parents-consent-has-been-released/



It is with profound gratitude to all those who supported me and my husband at these trying times that I announce to you that my husband was released last night along with Dr Kingsley who witnessed my marriage at the Ikoyi Registry. When I first put up this on social media, many people who didn’t know the scary situation I found myself viewed it with disdain. I can understand it since it was viewed as a family affair and should remain so. Frankly, that was my thought before things went sour. My fear and apprehension of what was to come led me to cry out. Threats of deaths and arrests began to fly around in a supposedly family affair and indeed the threat of arrest was effected. My husband was arrested at LUTH, by the Dolphin Police, for marrying me at Ikoyi Registry without my parents’ consent. On a good day, that is not proper but only a few open-minded people asked why. He was later transferred to the dreaded Panti Police Station the following day. After he was led to Panti, someone went to Dolphin Police Station to look for him but was informed that no such person was ever brought there. That sent shivers to my marrow because we got information that my husband will be killed and disposed of. Why my lawyers were waiting to see him at Panti, he was led away through the back door and the men at the counter informed my lawyers that no one like my husband was brought there. I later discovered that he was led to the hospital where I worked and to the house of my in-laws to search for me. It was not until late last night that the leadership of the police force ordered for his unconditional release and safe dispatch to our residence. I once again say thank you to all those who were part of this effort. My friends and some extended family members, people on social media who trended the news, the press, my lawyers, people who called from all over the world wanting to know what was going on. It was during this ordeal that one of my international callers informed me that just a couple of days ago, a Kurdish woman called Shilan was shot dead in Germany for refusing to marry someone who was forced on her. May the soul of Shilan rest in peace. My case is no different. While Shilan was 22 years, I am 28 years. That makes it sound ridiculous even to the ears of a deaf man that I will be forced to marry a man named Stanley, a man who had categorically stated to me that he wasn’t interested again, but for the prodding of my father,Dr Ejike. This cause is no longer about me, it is now about thousands or perhaps millions of girls and women across the world who are forced to marry the wrong people, about the police force who compromise and inflict injustice to innocent people and most painfully, about people who keep quiet when evil triumph. The sequence of this story dealt a ruthless blow to the global movement for the rights of women. The District Police Officer who arrested my husband is a woman, the Investigating Police Officers in Panti Police Station are women who failed in doing the right thing in the course of their duty. It is very unfortunate. As I continue my consultations with stakeholders all around the world who reached out to me on the way forward to fight this evil practice of forced union, I once again say thank and God bless. Dr. Nolulieaku Orji-Madugba.
Re: Police Arrest Man For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission (photo) by Wendyslim(f): 7:43pm On Mar 22, 2016
[quote author=ziggy1702 post=43861189]I just can't imagine the amount of flogging you deserve, so the parent must have every of their wish because na dem train her? Since they w. anted her to be their dummy they shouldn't have bothered training her. Try and use ur brains once in a while cos it's a terrible thing to waste
[/quote. I now see how senseless u. Are. Wat if she is ur dota will u pray for such? Oni ranu
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