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smileysmiley:
[s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home [s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home [/s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home pest sorry wife without your permission, you are allowed to treat her like trash. *drops pen* sweetheart you don't have to be defensive, we learn everyday... As for the "likes from guys" statement, I'll take that as a slip cause I don't want to believe that you do something that lame "it takes a crook to spot a crook" [/s]

Tallesty1:
You're a feminist right?

Vinshu:
In your bid to get likes from some men you have made no sense.

Where in my comment did I mention it that it doesn't matter if a woman has an Msc and not have a job? I said her employment status doesn't matter in marriage because it's a man's job to cater for the family financially. So what's the ish? I never mentioned that she should put her personal bills on the man.

smileysmiley:
If you knew about feminism you wouldn't call her a feminist.

smileysmiley:
A feminist will never choose to sit at home and fold her hands while the man go to work, a feminist instead will strive to be given the opportunity to work alongside her husband.

smileysmiley:
A feminist fights for equal rights with the man and its appalling to see that so many ladies choose a role that makes them super comfortable and tag themselves as feminists.

kramfonos:
Yeah right, you weren't checking.

Mail this account directly.

Tallesty1:
I saw where she commented that's she is a feminist. She even confirm it on this thread.
She's working, she just doesn't want to help her man. Feminists fight to usurp power completely from men not equal right.

Josephamstrong1:
Let's Discuss Marriage... Please share your views.
Was on a diatribes over this with a friend which went on for hours.
He said..."Dare I call it an interruption or a junction on ur road 2 de goal"
I was like..."U talk like u scared of marriage"
He said... Yep..am scared. Scared of making a lifetime mistake cos its a lifetime institution.
Don't really get it. More reason I brought it here.
My questions are:
1. Why do most men marry late even with their affluence? Are they scared or not just ready?

2. At what age do you think is good enough for a man to get married?
With or without income.

3. At what monthly income do you think as a man...you'll be assured that you can confidently run a home?

4. What's your opinion about getting married to a lady with Msc but not working. Do you think it's better to marry her unemployed or wait till she's employed or underemployed or better still have something doin'.
Maybe fear of becoming a house wife...I guess.

I know we have mature men and ladies on NL. Please, would kindly appreciate your opinions.
#peace

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ogorwyne:
Lemme help u scream Lalasticlala 's name. LALASTICLALA. Wetin be dat e native name again sef, ehen, Oghenetega, abeg come carry dis thing go up. My wand has stopped working