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| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by samdes02(m): 12:46am On Mar 24, 2016 |
EreluY:you're just being impractical really. Well gear up for the next wave of braindrain and it hurts me dearly cos it'll only worsen things.and hey next time you go see your GP tell him he swore an oath to always treat you free of charge .Lets face the country is messed up and the government just don't care |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by babtuns76(m): 1:10am On Mar 24, 2016 |
sofadj:I pray for all the pour in the world & Nigerians;.) |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by naijafresh: 1:19am On Mar 24, 2016 |
nefertitiram:God bless you! You settled your bill, you are however a rarity, most abscond without paying hence the hardened attitude doctors have developed |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by InvertedHammer: 1:34am On Mar 24, 2016*. Modified: 12:43pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
/ Case in point: Remember the guy that wasted N235k on a phone last week? Does he have N200k saved for medical emergency? Probably not. Nigerians value image over health or do I say, things that matter. The same way Nigeria celebrities will be portarying opulent lifestyles and cannot afford a few millions when kidney problems set in. It is understable when a patient presents with a chronic condition that might have exhausted his savings. Nigerians have their priorities screwed up. I hate to generalize but it is a fact. Folks cannot put up N100k for medical treatment but the same folks will spend millions at the burial if the patient dies. Do they buy coffins on credit? Since there is no health insurance in Nigeria, best practice remains "no deposit, no treatment". It is needless helping those who do not want to help themselves. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by franconian: 1:37am On Mar 24, 2016 |
yetseyi:That his second solution is a problem itself. I don't know how he intend to convince Nigerians to contribute for emergency. They will rather say "Doctor god forbid, nothing will happen to me and my family in Jesus name" like the doctor is wishing them evil. Humans are difficult to deal with, dealing with "illiterate" humans is even a more difficult task. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by InvertedHammer: 1:43am On Mar 24, 2016 |
EreluY:/ The junior doctors are threatening a government that cares to listen. Doctors in Nigeria can threaten to move to Bermuda triangle and the government couldn't care less. Like I always say, most Nigerians are directly or Indirectly benefiting from the messed up situation called Nigeria. They will resist any transformation that may bring positive results in their lives collectively. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by boik(m): 1:51am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Op I truly understand your pain. I've witnessed a case like that where a man's wife and new born were discharged after paying part of their bill and the man started playing the doctor, doing child dedications ceremony and all, and shoved the outstanding hospital bill aside. But i'll still plead with you to continue the good work of saving lives. There's a society in the Catholic Church called Society of St. Vincent De Paul. It's a charity organisation and they take health and child delivery issues very serious. The society is active mainly in Parishes in the city. You can always direct your patients who can't meet up with their bills to the society. Hence it's medical and genuine, the society will rally round and get something done, even if it's like 80% of the outstanding bill. The society don't joke with medical cases and child birth, of that i'm very sure. sofadj: |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by lanchy: 2:17am On Mar 24, 2016 |
You just have to realise Nigerians have no SOUL! When in trouble they can pray and beg better than saints, but once they achieve what they desire.....You have to beg them to pay back what they borrowed. At which point they will insult you, abuse your dog.......and disgrace your chickens in public. It's madness, they never think of tomorrow!! NEVER!! Always today...wetin we go chop now now! For me I no longer care, if your house is burning down and you need 50k to solve it.......my friend you better go and join that house to burn down quickly., and if you decide to narrate my story up and down ojuelegba......just know a lot of hired killers are without jobs now that election has finished. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by bigfrancis21: 2:49am On Mar 24, 2016*. Modified: 3:31pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
You sound like a kind-hearted doctor who has the goodwill of people at heart. You will be rewarded for the lives you've saved so far. However, Nigerians are people that would take advantage of a nice person without thinking twice and turn their backs feeling 'smart' for successfully taking advantage of you. It shouldn't be so. I totally understand that your hospital needs to continue to function and cash flow is needed, hence you cannot keep up with the charity work all the time. However, there are karmic rewards for those good works you performed even though you may not know or may not have received any cash rewards. In as much as you've decided to begin having the money in full before commencing treatment, develop your 6th sense to detect the genuinely poor customers from the others. It may be hard to do or detect but that way you continue to perform rare good works which will pay off to you in the end. Good luck. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by alakafolasade: 2:51am On Mar 24, 2016 |
If accumulating wealth is what you are looking for after studying medicine then u are in for a ride. A medical degree can only make u sufficient but not rich.[/quote]that's not it accumulated or whatever you called it you don't expect the doctors to render there service and also pay for your bills for you |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by Originalsly: 3:35am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Guess her blood is on your conscience....no amount of money can erase that. I am shocked that you as a doctor would be bringing your patients' medical issues to a public forum. Was it necessary? ....isn't there some kind of privacy code? You own a hospital ...you should have a plan to ensure that the patients' bills are paid....guarantor/have collaterals, something... but not be putting the people business and sufferings out here in public and claiming blood is not on your hands. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by InvertedHammer: 4:28am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Originalsly:/ Name of doctor: unknown Name of hospital: unknown Name of patient: unknown Exact location of hospital: unknown Therefore, no Privacy Act was violated by the OP. Calm down. \ |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by bankybobo11: 4:43am On Mar 24, 2016 |
daretodiffer:Nothing o. I'm still recovering from the trauma you caused me. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by 0gbeni(m): 4:44am On Mar 24, 2016 |
interesting thread and an eye opener i must say especially for "us young guns" thanks Chief for pushing out this so that Nigerians can see what doctors go through everyday.. judging from comments, it seems 1. Nigerians are not realistic, they will bandy the Hippocratic oath about, yet they won't sit with you to fathom out ways of getting clients to pay.. same people will increase their prices if they get to know you are a doc 2. there's no way you can win when its comes to public opinion, detain patients for not paying bills, they will come to social media to demonize doctors (seen a couple of nairaland threads), demand for money before payment, na wahala.. more social media threads.? refer patients because you think they need specialist care, they will still blame you.. yet if something should go wrong, they won't hesitate to sue your ass and collect the little you have 3. a guy has to really be firm,if he/she wants to survive in private practice, its not the fault of doctors if Nigerians are comfortable with successive governments irresponsibility towards health Nobody's blood is on anybody's hands, afterall folks will buy S7s and iphone 6s yet won't plan for their own healthcare, people will see government's lackluster emergency services and are not bothered .. we are all responsible to/for ourselves e go better! |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by October1960: 4:47am On Mar 24, 2016 |
I understand and sympathize with this Doctor. There are many Nigerians that have stolen government money and can afford to pay but refuse to even in the UK and US. They try this same nonsense even in developed countries meanwhile they take their stolen monies to buy gold, wrist watches, nice cars, clothes etc. Rather than pay what they rightly owe. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by rocoh(m): 4:48am On Mar 24, 2016 |
I feel your pain. May God help us. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by rocoh(m): 4:51am On Mar 24, 2016 |
sofadj:Sir if you were to advice the government,can you please give us a detailed and comprensive summary of what you will tell the government to do as to improving healthcare in all its ramifications in Nigeria. Thank you. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by October1960: 4:57am On Mar 24, 2016 |
The same people that refuse to pay this doc will buy expensive shoes, phones, designer clothes. I taya for our people sometimes. I have experienced similar in my profession. I just refuse to be a bank for greedy people. Don't buy things you cannot afford. Say no to credit. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by October1960: 5:14am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Well said below. The corrupt govt officials past and present plus their families pay thousands of dollars and pounds for treatment in US, UK or India. Meanwhile we are on our own here. olas24u: |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by EreluY(f): 5:31am On Mar 24, 2016*. Modified: 5:48am On Mar 24, 2016 |
samdes02:Now, you've come full circle to the point I've made, repeatedly, on NL threads over the years. Nigeria is irrevocably doomed. Get out of that sh1t hole, if you can. The earlier the better. It's always been the case from pre-historic times that humans migrate. And, yes sir, I pay my tax (too much tax is killing me right now but I don't really mind). I never ever discuss cost/funds/money with my GP over the past 20 years or so. Why? I pay my tax and the NHS is effective - simply the best in the world. Doctors in my necks of the wood take their Hippocratic oath very SERIOUSLY. And for those asking what Hippocratic oath means, for the umpteenth time, it refers to an oath taken "by people when they become doctors to do everything possible to help their patients and to have high moral standards in their work." |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by maryhaam(f): 5:33am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Everyone has a story to tell,hmmm blame it on poverty. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by Rejoice5000(f): 5:38am On Mar 24, 2016 |
My mum almost push me to that profession but i boldly told her i cant survive as a medical doctor period::because after free treatment i will also ask the patient if he or she has a transport fair: |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by EreluY(f): 5:46am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Rejoice5000:You could have taken your mum's counsel, train and qualify as medical doctor and jet out of Nigeria to seek a greener pasture. No one ever see beyond their horizons. In spite of all the thrash spewn on NL about Nigerians not doing well abroad, there are Nigerian professionals doing extremely well outside the shores of that zoo called Nigeria. It seems plausible to maintain, even if anecdotally, that for every Nigerian in the diaspora not doing well, there are 4-6 doing extremely well. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by sikirat2020: 5:54am On Mar 24, 2016 |
I understood ur point and reasons. They made common sense. Try next time to ascertain the profession of the relatives of the sick and among the richest of them should sign an undertaken to pay and should equally proceed to deposit money within 1-2 days of treatment. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by smileysmiley(f): 5:56am On Mar 24, 2016 |
dexpotter:you can sponsor a charity organization and employ him so that he will continue giving free services... See talk o ![]() |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by EreluY(f): 5:59am On Mar 24, 2016 |
InvertedHammer:What's your business with a government that couldn't care less...and a people benefitting from messed up situation. Get out of that sh1t hole. This may be a clarion call to you. I know Nigerian doctors doing extremely well outside the shores of Nigeria. Don't get wasted by a rotten system. Listen, of recent, I met a Nigerian professor who works in a UK university as a lecturer. He dropped his professorship at MMA in Lagos. He earns good money here, doesn't have to stress about armed robbery, bad road network, epileptic electric and water supplies, poor health service, and his children are in enviable schools. Oh, he has access to the latest academic journals, books, research grants, membership of professional associations and doesn't have to go with cap in hand begging to be funded to attend academic conferences through which he now networks and collaborates with those that matters in his field. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by armadeo(m): 6:01am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Originalsly:name of the patient name of the doctor name of the hospital state/LGA in which incident occured. as far as am concerned the patients privacy was protected. as for the bolded dont you think he would have tried that before getting to this point. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by smileysmiley(f): 6:02am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Originalsly:He brought it here so the all-knowing you can give him a plan on how to collect his pay. Stop ranting jaree... Mumu dey smell for here |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by armadeo(m): 6:02am On Mar 24, 2016 |
InvertedHammer:wow exactly what i wrote ![]() |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by armadeo(m): 6:05am On Mar 24, 2016 |
EreluY:in summary your doctor ALWAYS gets paid |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by aigbokiejohnson(m): 6:12am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Hmmm! This has always been the bane of private practice. You need be "wicked" most times otherwise you run dowm in debts. Patients will always act as one. Best is to collect at least a deposit of close to % 50 whenever possible and/or threatened to refer and/or stop medications/discharge home if patient refused to pay. I jus pray GOD will help we all to continue our good works and touch our government and the patients too. |
| Re: Her Blood Is Not On My Hands - The Travails Of A Nigerian Medical Doctor by smileysmiley(f): 6:13am On Mar 24, 2016 |
Op I have a family friend who is a doctor. He will never smell your bedside if there is no payment, if something new comes up while treating you, you will pay before he finishes. He said he learnt the hard way. If a pastor comes to his clinic, he doubles charge cause he claims that they steal from their church members Mr nice guy won't put the food on the table. Full payment before service and in some cases where the payment is not complete, don't give them access to their patient, just keep on telling them that the person is dying even if you have treated the person.I'm considering a second degree in medicine, may God help us. People like me should be doctors instead cause I sabi close my heart sha ![]() |
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.Lets face the country is messed up and the government just don't care
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