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Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Cutehector(m): 2:03pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Her cross! She should carry it 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by bankybobo11: 2:03pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Brb |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by ireneony(f): 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
vsaintchigs:praying is good but heaven help those who help themselves |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by chlowi(f): 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip: Pleas take this advice 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by gretblue: 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
INTROVERT:Oya come and marry me.I promise not to raise my hand on you for any reason. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Smellymouth: 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Mumu, dem beat ur sister, u come NL come report.. Instead of u to scatter the idiot face with punches and blows Get the fvck outta here, you are embarrassing ur fellow male folks 10 Likes
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Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by bebe2(f): 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Dats how my lagosian cousin married this Benin girl, they had two kids and my cousin kept beating her at every given opportunity. She wud cry to her mother in law and the will pet her. Keep praying, keep fasting etc. Until the last time my cousin beat her and she went to her family house to report, all her brothers, cousins, nephews load themselves inside two buses and came for my cousin. They beat him to a pulp he was admitted for over two weeks. Before he came out the wife moved everything from the house and dat was the end of the marriage. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by lukman22: 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
While you a contemplating on how you should approach your In-law,I think your sister need to refrain from having unprotected sex with him until he goes for HIV test. No joking here,HIV I rampant now and who knows which olosho he has sex with under the influence of alcohol anything can happen. My take shaaaa 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by CICERO09(m): 2:08pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Pack to ur own house abaya |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by ATMC(f): 2:08pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
It is none of your business actually. Your sister should handle it any how that gives her satisfaction. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Bolade005: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip:Typical. Very typical. Wait, is this a BAN ideology or what? |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by gretblue: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
INTROVERT:Oya come and marry me.I promise not to raise my hand on you for any reason.lol |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by delors(m): 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
INTROVERT:Animals? Even the guy going to talk to d d*ckeaded husband is an animal? Wonder what breed of animal thou art as well. Any clue? 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by neonly: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Two wrong doesn't make a right hear his side of d story nd advice nt fight or whatever Fighting may put yur sis life in danger personal experience 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by vivalavida(m): 2:10pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip: hahahahahahaha see advice |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Boeing777pilot: 2:10pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Let them sort out their issues without third party interference. If you heard your brother beat up his wife would you arrange for him to be beaten up? 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Rotab4life: 2:12pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip: Funny advise. Easier said than done. Telling the OP to beat him..lol 1. What if his brother-in-law is stronger 2.Who will bear the cross after their tussle. His sister of course. I believe you should sit him down like a man and tell him about your disapproval of such act. Also state any repetition of such could make you involve law enforcement or he should be ready to take whatever he sees. Lastly intervening in a married couple's issue is sometimes a waste of time. They do sort out themselves..Be wise 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by delors(m): 2:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Bro, I don't think it is ur place to go meet the guy. You didn't give out ur sister's hand in marriage to him, your parents did. Tell ur sister to talk to her parents and her husband's parents...any physical abuse in a family must be reported to someone who can handle the husband... |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Rotab4life: 2:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Boeing777pilot: CORRECT GUY 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by generaloj01: 2:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
see you need to do this in the right, do forget shes ur sister and she might end up losing that man. so you talk to the man face to face find out the his problem and im sure u will find solution to it... and mind you dont do this when he is drunk. http://www.thenationstalk.com |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by seangy4konji: 2:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Go and mind ur biz as long as bride price was paid. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 2:15pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
He was under an influence of alcohol so he was not in his right senses when he was doing that.... However, give him a serious warning. Tell him that he will answer to you and the rest of your family if he ever raise a finger on your sister again........ That U do not care about the remote or immediate cause of the misunderstanding or what he does with his past time because you believe that it was between husband and wife...But he should make sure what happened yesterday doesn't repeat itself.... then you walk away with all the dignity intact.... |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Raydos: 2:15pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Take Him To Restaurant, Mr-Biggs, Chicken Sensation, Buy Him A House In Banana-Island, Pay For His Trip To Dubai He Will Never Do That Again! That Was What I Did For My Brother Inlaw When He Hit My Aunt! Hope This Is Helpful? If Not Click Here 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Jacko01: 2:17pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
He will touch her again and ur balistic nuclear will do nothing jor.... Note moment u fight the man u don turn deir two enemy Invite ur sister over nd tell her to strt divorce proceeding.... God has sent you a sign He can beat her unconscious or infect her and the kids The marriage is over she shld move on He was probably partyin at quilox hehe 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: 1) Is this the first time he would be assaulting her? 2) Does he get drunk often? 3)Does he abuse her emotionally or financially etc Address this question in a family meeting, find the root causes, resolve it. Advice him to stop drinking., that seems to be the trigger. Let him understand the distress he has caused her. Tell your sister that if it happens again, she must tell you. If he hits her again, he is never going to stop. Let him know that you would taking legal action. DO NOT LET HIM PUT THE BLAME ON YOUR SISTER. ABUSERS ARE VERY GOOD AT SHIFTING RESPONSIBILITY AND TURNING A NON-ISSUE INTO A BIG ISSUE |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Thylord(m): 2:19pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
My guy just contact me when you are going lets go together,am dead sure that when he see's me(my macho build)i swear down he is going to listen to what ever you have to say without any form of argument i bet you.that guy must be silly. and tell your sister to be careful in regards to sex because of std's. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Richy4: Alcohol is not an excuse. What he does in his past time is his is business so far it is not affecting his sister and her daughter negatively. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by aku626(m): 2:21pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Prayer and more prayer you started well with sharing the scriptures now ask your sister to follow up with prayer. Remembering that fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much. It is well. Do not confront the man you've no right rather let his wife do the talking they're married to each other. Support your sister emotionally, spiritually and otherwise bringing to her good and godly counsel. Her husband should be exposed to the word of God in any means you dim fit. God bless you and your family |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by MoyoGENERAL: 2:22pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
See kids here ooo! Advising him to beat the Sister's husband to pulp!!!!!! Mogbe!!!!!! When you kill him finish with beating, and the guy tell your Sis make she pack, Na You go come Marry Your Sister ni? You don't use Fire to quench a Smoke! My advise for you is to advice your Sister to discuss with her hubby, apologize to him, be patient and endure any ill treatment, place more emphasis on prayers for her hubby to salvage her home, and if critical take the matter to someone her hubby respects, either the Pastor or Elders in the Family!!!!! Marriages have fire, they have painful moments, She must be willing to bear the Cross to Save her Marriage! I recommend She read this book "POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE". It is well! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by SIRTee15: 2:22pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
ATMC: The day they will call him to come n carry his sister's corpse in her husband's house.......then it will be his business. The way u reason on this forum is disturbing. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by greggng: 2:22pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Your sister made a mistake by marrying a drunkard. She would ve avoided all this by not ignoring some of the bad traits from the husband when they were still dating. Some women re so desperate to marry that they ignore warning signs thinking the man will change. Someone did same to my sister in the past and I quickly went to their house and warned him seriously and I swore before him that any other time such things happened, I will personally kill him cos I cannot afford to see my sister who brought me up suffer and I meant it. To God be the glory he hasn't repeated it. May be he is afraid of death. Moral lessons don't marry a drunkard, woman beater and a man that doesn't love you. Is better to be single than to be in an abusive marriage Last2comment: 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Yello1(m): 2:24pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
On mata lik dis u need not call every dick and harry to give u advice.bros go d house tell am say for d sake of memory u go allow d first one 2 pass but next time u go make sure u arrest and charge am to court ooo.no wait 4 reply b4 u waka so dt he go knw u are dead serious. 1 Like |
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