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Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by nickxtra(m): 2:50pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Just vex go look for him sister and beat her up 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Lemibare(m): 2:51pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
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Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Jaftee(m): 2:52pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
it's a gradual thing, and it might development to another stage if not taken care of soon, I can't explain everything. the best thing is to find who he is cheating with which is very easy, make sure you scatter the relationship without his knowledge, then now your sister can start all over again. but if na olosho him de follow, ahh. that na very big problem cos only husband who hate his wife can patronize olosho. op no offense, did your sister lost to much shape after birth? |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by SURElee(f): 2:53pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Brother, get your sister out of that house. That isn't a healthy marriage. How many women in the grave were adviced to read their bible and pray for their cheating and abusive husbands? Is it until he beats her to her death or infects her with HIV/AIDS you and your family will get her out of there? All these news make marriage scare person sef. 4 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Pidggin(f): 2:53pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Ladies need to learn karate or judo. Self defense is essential especially in cases like this. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Cutehector(m): 2:54pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Richy4:i'm not an advocate for divorce |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Bimpe29: 2:54pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
The only and holy thing you are to do is to support your sister's marriage and family with prayers. Then always encourage her to do all that's capable of promoting her marriage. However, it is pertinent to ask you not to interfere and trespass. It is their family, learn to exercise caution. She is your sister though, but she is his wife and confidant. Pray, Encourage and Advise. It is well. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: You need to go ballistic... go nuclear beat his azz and beat him good. Then tell him you will be watching him |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Ekakamba: 2:56pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
how would one marry after seeing post like this? Seriously? The moment you know all men attitude differs that's when you gonna get a good consort. Sha religiously or otherwise marriage ain't compulsory. Inbetween, you can have a rethink after witnessing the way your parents marriage work-out than letting other couples life give ya negative thoughts...... Good luck. INTROVERT: |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 2:57pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
daretodiffer: No that is not how they look at it in the court of law.... He was under an influence and he was being controlled by compelling forces to carry out an action he won't have assuming he was in his right senses.... The man consuming excess alcohol to an extend of not controlling himself was wrong but I still believe he might be asked to check into a rehab if it was a court case issues.... |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by lorRhyMeZ: 2:57pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: In the north where I come from, if a man beats a woman for whatever reason,na communal beating him dey ask for...as in no matter what,a man shud never beat a woman no matter how annoying she is.. That said,from ur story ur sister seems to be d victim here,my candid advice even though d window has passed was for u to. Have reacted equally and with maximum force..but u dull,forming gentle man. (after una beat am,una go explain later). But since u are still wasting time asking for advice, its still not to late to go to d house and demand he apologizes to ur sister, and that such behavior never repeats itself..he might foolishly want to raise voice against u to claim u don't have a right to address that way and other bullshits..take it a chance and beat his arse down... *go with ur goons ooo* 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 2:58pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Chai! Some women are suffering o. So one hediot will stay out past midnight, stinking of alcohol and will yell at me for not opening the gate on time? Then I'll apologise? On top of it, I'll use my own mouth to tell him to use protection if he's playing away matches and he'll beat me up, make I laugh small. OP you sister needs more beating. Rubbish. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Richy4: No, he would go to prison if he violates the law. If you kill someone under the influence, you will go to jail. many people drink without becoming violent. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by duplexDan(m): 3:00pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
I have learnt with my sisters, that threats do work better, like some1 said earlier talking wont do U any good, cos dat was what i was doing for my sister until my Mum had to raise Hell on the guy n his family ... Up till today no matter hw my sister misbehaves instead of beating her the guy would call n complain ... |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by HirstMOG(m): 3:00pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
INTROVERT: tell me who change Saul to Paul. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 3:01pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Cutehector: I did not say you were.... I just saw how u said she should carry her own cross..... If your sister came to you crying for a particular problem, would you ask her to carry her cross and follow Jesus without feelings 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by worshipdevice(m): 3:01pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
INTROVERT:yes God Can! if He can change some dogs called women. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by macho44(m): 3:02pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment:Be Careful make the man no beat u join ooo www.gossipmirrors.com |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Exactly |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
macho44: That one go be 2-0 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by hedonistic: 3:03pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
9jacrip: Very immature and unrealistic advice. You think you have a monopoly of access to thugs or ability to threaten? What if he retaliates in kind and even orders them to kill your Ass? Abi na only you get chicken change to pay hungry thugs? We're talking about your sister's husband here. How do you expect him to live in peace with your sister after sending thugs to beat him or threaten him. These things don't work like that in real life. Maturity and wisdom is key to handling this situation. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Maski87: 3:04pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Not only is he banging another woman he is beating your sister Just kill the guy, he is not the only man your sisters can always get another man especially if she is good in bed |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Try to contact d person he respect so much in his family and ur own family too to talk to his sense and settle d conflict amicably.because if u use confrontation it may lead to total break up in their family.kindly apply wisdon and patient.consultation is better than confrontation. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Rick9(m): 3:06pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Before my sister go marry I go kneel down beg E husband, "Bro no beat my Sister oh" E Get Why 1 Like |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Why are peeps overlooking he came in with his boxers...inside-out For this singular reason, I wouldn't involve Bros *shame* Has he being drinking before? Has he beaten her before now? Sis shouldn't have confronted him in that state. Hmmmmm...she should know which to use: their Pastor, Police or elders of the family. If you can get things rough, you wouldn't have come on NL seeking opinion . |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Jerrybriggz(m): 3:06pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
For real dis is d best advice |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Cutehector(m): 3:10pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Richy4:I thought of dat before I commented! So deduce your answer from that! |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
lukman22: Hehehehehe...he came that way explains it all=low-class-LovePeddler-house |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by leoblacky: 3:11pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
My brother u have done well by advising ur sister pls u don't need any confrontation remember he is ur sisters husband this is between husband nd wife issue. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by hedonistic: 3:12pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
popcykaylah: Don't mind the many immature commenters here talking rubbish. I can't imagine how going to fight the man would solve any problem. It would only worsen matters as long as your sister is still married to the guy. The parents are best placed to handle the matter. Perhaps they have to report to the man's parents or elder family members, call a meeting, and issue stern warnings. That's the wisest and only practicable thing. If you go hot-headed and violent, then the marriage is effectively over. If that's the outcome you really want, fine. |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by popcykaylah(m): 3:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
hedonistic:you have said it all bro |
Re: My Brother-in-law Beat My Sister This Morning. What Should I Do? by Lexusgs430: 3:14pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Last2comment: Simply report him to the necessary authorities. Did your sister take pictorial evidence of the bruises? |
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